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Topic: Torn...can someone help?
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morninglory unregistered
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posted September 12, 2005 11:39 PM
I am completely torn between two people - it is the hardest thing I've ever had to deal with. I'm a gemini so it's bad enough how fickle I can be. Which do you think sounds more compatible? Me: Sun/Gemini Moon/Sag Asc/Sag Merc/Gemini Ven/Gemini Mars/Scorpiowith...? #1 Sun/Cancer Moon/Libra Merc/Cancer Ven/virgo Mars/Lib #2 Sun/Sag Moon/Taurus Merc/Cap Ven/Scorpio Mars/Lib Pulling my hair out, freaking out...a very confused, very contradicting gemini. In desperate need of some direction... IP: Logged |
Mystic Gemini unregistered
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posted September 12, 2005 11:43 PM
http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum10/HTML/001670.html ------------------ Gemini sun, Cancer rising, mercury in Gemini, moon in Taurus *29, venus in Taurus, mars in Libra "You must live in the infinite blackness that exists when I close my eyes. I see you when I fall asleep, I see you when I dream." - Talib Kweli IP: Logged |
Pop Producer unregistered
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posted September 12, 2005 11:49 PM
Two different energies, yet interesting. Cancer is a step ahead so they teach Gemini some lessons like being more cautios and settling down. Sags are Gemini's opposites, so there's a strong link too... You have some planets in Sag so you'll probably feel mor comfortable with the second man.
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Mystic Gemini unregistered
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posted September 12, 2005 11:52 PM
Check the aspects also.------------------ Gemini sun, Cancer rising, mercury in Gemini, moon in Taurus *29, venus in Taurus, mars in Libra "You must live in the infinite blackness that exists when I close my eyes. I see you when I fall asleep, I see you when I dream." - Talib Kweli IP: Logged |
AcousticGod Knowflake Posts: 4416 From: Pleasanton, CA Registered: Apr 2009
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posted September 13, 2005 12:00 AM
I vote for number two as well. IP: Logged |
morninglory unregistered
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posted September 13, 2005 12:13 AM
It makes sense. I am with the Cancer male - and he is 17 years older than me. He definitely creates stability in my life, and settles me down. However sag is a good friend of mine "the temptation" and he is the same age as I am (21) and we have a stronger mental connection. I am just unsure if I'm ready to give up such stability...I am content, but still I seek that connection - especially for a gemini it seems impossible to be in a relationship without having a STRONG mental connection. Cancer fulfills me emotionally, keeps me grounded, and just happy. I am content, but am I starving my soul? IP: Logged |
BlueTopaz124 Knowflake Posts: 207 From: Portland, OR, USA Registered: Apr 2009
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posted September 13, 2005 12:32 AM
Morning...I know you're torn, but listen to your heart, the answer is there. A question: do you have to commit to one right now? Why not go easy on yourself to not make a choice...somehow things always have a way of working their way out. Just a thought kisses, Laura
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sue g unregistered
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posted September 13, 2005 05:59 AM
Hi morningloryWhy would you want to be settled down at age 21.......this comment worried me a bit. I would go go go for the other guy.......give it a go girl..... good luck xxxx xxx
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funkyaquarianpixie unregistered
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posted September 13, 2005 06:34 AM
listen to your heart. its that simple hon. At 21, settled with a man of 38 sounds no fun, Are you feeling a generational gap in your relationship? before making any big decisions (or epic kisses with mr sag ect) i would analyse your current relationship. is it simply too boring for a young gem/sag lass? whats wrong at home to make the temptation so strong... good luck, and try to be as good as you can, by clearing up any mess before jumping anywhere.
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Mystic Gemini unregistered
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posted September 13, 2005 07:29 AM
MMMMMmmmmmm I love my some older men
------------------ Gemini sun, Cancer rising, mercury in Gemini, moon in Taurus *29, venus in Taurus, mars in Libra "You must live in the infinite blackness that exists when I close my eyes. I see you when I fall asleep, I see you when I dream." - Talib Kweli IP: Logged |
morninglory unregistered
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posted September 13, 2005 10:54 PM
Thank you so much everyone for your support and thoughts. I really have to go right now - very busy, but just wanted to let everyone know I appreciate your responses. IP: Logged |
Pop Producer unregistered
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posted September 13, 2005 11:02 PM
We cancerians tend to date younger girls... (I know believe me). But the point is that sometimes it turns more into a father/ girl relationship or a master/ disciple thing rather than a man/ woman relationship. Be careful with that... IP: Logged |
morninglory unregistered
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posted September 15, 2005 11:24 PM
I definitely feel like I need to stay right now as everything is...Pop Producer - you are right, the whole father/girl thing - I can see it heading that way. In the beginning it was fun and there are a lot of advantages and good things about this relationship, however, I have become too attached. And it has started to feel a bit unhealthy at times. All in good time, I will figure it out. Thanks again everyone for your thoughts - Love Morninglory IP: Logged |
astro junkie unregistered
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posted September 25, 2005 05:14 PM
I like #2, but I always say, if you REALLY cannot choose between two, IT'S NEITHER.------------------ ... it's better to light a candle than curse the darkness IP: Logged |