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morninglory
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posted September 12, 2005 11:39 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I am completely torn between two people - it is the hardest thing I've ever had to deal with. I'm a gemini so it's bad enough how fickle I can be. Which do you think sounds more compatible?
Me: Sun/Gemini
Moon/Sag
Asc/Sag
Merc/Gemini
Ven/Gemini
Mars/Scorpio

with...?
#1
Sun/Cancer
Moon/Libra
Merc/Cancer
Ven/virgo
Mars/Lib

#2
Sun/Sag
Moon/Taurus
Merc/Cap
Ven/Scorpio
Mars/Lib

Pulling my hair out, freaking out...a very confused, very contradicting gemini. In desperate need of some direction...

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Mystic Gemini
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posted September 12, 2005 11:43 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Gemini sun, Cancer rising, mercury in Gemini, moon in Taurus *29, venus in Taurus, mars in Libra

"You must live in the infinite blackness that exists when I close my eyes. I see you when I fall asleep, I see you when I dream."

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Pop Producer
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posted September 12, 2005 11:49 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Two different energies, yet interesting. Cancer is a step ahead so they teach Gemini some lessons like being more cautios and settling down. Sags are Gemini's opposites, so there's a strong link too...


You have some planets in Sag so you'll probably feel mor comfortable with the second man.

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Mystic Gemini
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posted September 12, 2005 11:52 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Check the aspects also.

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Gemini sun, Cancer rising, mercury in Gemini, moon in Taurus *29, venus in Taurus, mars in Libra

"You must live in the infinite blackness that exists when I close my eyes. I see you when I fall asleep, I see you when I dream."

- Talib Kweli

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AcousticGod
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posted September 13, 2005 12:00 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for AcousticGod     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I vote for number two as well.

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morninglory
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posted September 13, 2005 12:13 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
It makes sense. I am with the Cancer male - and he is 17 years older than me. He definitely creates stability in my life, and settles me down. However sag is a good friend of mine "the temptation" and he is the same age as I am (21) and we have a stronger mental connection. I am just unsure if I'm ready to give up such stability...I am content, but still I seek that connection - especially for a gemini it seems impossible to be in a relationship without having a STRONG mental connection. Cancer fulfills me emotionally, keeps me grounded, and just happy. I am content, but am I starving my soul?

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BlueTopaz124
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posted September 13, 2005 12:32 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for BlueTopaz124     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Morning...I know you're torn, but listen to your heart, the answer is there. A question: do you have to commit to one right now? Why not go easy on yourself to not make a choice...somehow things always have a way of working their way out. Just a thought


kisses,
Laura

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sue g
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posted September 13, 2005 05:59 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hi morninglory

Why would you want to be settled down at age 21.......this comment worried me a bit.

I would go go go for the other guy.......give it a go girl.....

good luck


xxxx xxx

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funkyaquarianpixie
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posted September 13, 2005 06:34 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
listen to your heart.

its that simple hon. At 21, settled with a man of 38 sounds no fun, Are you feeling a generational gap in your relationship?

before making any big decisions (or epic kisses with mr sag ect) i would analyse your current relationship. is it simply too boring for a young gem/sag lass? whats wrong at home to make the temptation so strong...

good luck, and try to be as good as you can, by clearing up any mess before jumping anywhere.


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Mystic Gemini
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posted September 13, 2005 07:29 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
MMMMMmmmmmm I love my some older men


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Gemini sun, Cancer rising, mercury in Gemini, moon in Taurus *29, venus in Taurus, mars in Libra

"You must live in the infinite blackness that exists when I close my eyes. I see you when I fall asleep, I see you when I dream."

- Talib Kweli

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morninglory
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posted September 13, 2005 10:54 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thank you so much everyone for your support and thoughts. I really have to go right now - very busy, but just wanted to let everyone know I appreciate your responses.

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Pop Producer
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posted September 13, 2005 11:02 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
We cancerians tend to date younger girls... (I know believe me). But the point is that sometimes it turns more into a father/ girl relationship or a master/ disciple thing rather than a man/ woman relationship.

Be careful with that...

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morninglory
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posted September 15, 2005 11:24 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I definitely feel like I need to stay right now as everything is...Pop Producer - you are right, the whole father/girl thing - I can see it heading that way. In the beginning it was fun and there are a lot of advantages and good things about this relationship, however, I have become too attached. And it has started to feel a bit unhealthy at times. All in good time, I will figure it out.

Thanks again everyone for your thoughts -
Love
Morninglory

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astro junkie
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posted September 25, 2005 05:14 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I like #2, but I always say, if you REALLY cannot choose between two, IT'S NEITHER.

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