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lioneye68 unregistered	posted September 20, 2005 10:03 PM Sometimes... you just love someone, and no matter what you've said to each other, or the bad things you've said about each other, or the bad things that have happened, eventually you always just realize that you still love them. But the same things can happen with other people, and you decide that you don't love them, or you can't love them. But sometimes, it always goes back to loving each other -even when everyone you know thinks you must be mad. I wonder what kind of aspects you'd have with someone like that. I suspect sun conjunct moon might be one of them. It all has to do with what layers you love each other on. Make sense? Everyone should have someone like this in their lives. I'd like to know about your experiences with people like this in your life. What aspects do you have? I suspect sun/moon/asc aspects - probably conjunctions. But it could be all over the place. What about your life-loves? What aspects do you share? IP: Logged
whiterabbit Newflake Posts: 0 From: Registered: Sep 2009	posted September 20, 2005 10:27 PM I love the title of this thread. And the thought behind it. I have someone like this in my life and I suspect most of us do or will. Not only is it a love that doesn't go away, but it's a love that changes with the seasons of our lives. Which is probably why it endures. It was once a mad and young love. Then it became a deep friendship. Then an erotic affair. It's been through a lot of incarnations. Now it's the kind of thing that brings a smile to my face on my bike ride home. The person I call when my world is falling apart (again). When my heart has been broken by someone else. Who knows what it will be... ten years from now. Our moons are trined. But a lot of bad aspects. They say that means there is a lot going on between two people. ------------------ Though the flesh be bugged, the circumstances of existence are pretty glorious. - The Dharma Bums (Jack Kerouac) IP: Logged
Lauren unregistered	posted September 20, 2005 10:30 PM With both my bf and my best friend it's a lot like this. Whatever happens, we always make-up. My best friend has her moon in Taurus conjunct my Venus and NN. My sun conjuncts her venus/mars in Aries. Our moons trine, by sign but not close by degrees. Our Mercuries are conjunct in Pisces so we think alike. She's a Pisces, I'm an Aries. Her sun also conjuncts my Jupiter. With my bf. I'm Aries/Capricorn, he's Libra/Capricorn. We're very close. A lot of times he's said that certain "negative" things I do go almost unnoticed by him, so it's about 10% of our relationship..whereas if someone else did the same things he'd probably get a lot more annoyed (so it's interesting, I feel pretty much the same way) Our moons conjunct. I think the squares are actually helpful because we both have them nataly so there's a lot of understanding there. My Venus opposes his Sun, and his Venus opposes my Sun. My mars/venus, trine his mars by sign. His mars is Virgo. My Mars/Neptune conjuncts his Asc (in capricorn) His sun trines my asc(gem) very closely. Venus/Pluto opposition, but I have that with a lot of people in my generation. So that's about all I can think of, right now. oh And also, forgot to add, our ascendants are opposite each other's by degree, so most of our house cusps are opposite and the generational planets we have in common (we have them in opposite houses) whereas the planets we have in opposition (we have them in the same houses).Like my Sun is in Aries in the 11th. His sun is the opposite Libra , but also in the 11th (due to having an opposite asc) IP: Logged
Pop Producer unregistered	posted September 20, 2005 11:30 PM I think it has to be with Venus... Venus is a force that draws trhings (people) together. IP: Logged
lioneye68 unregistered	posted September 20, 2005 11:49 PM True, Pop..but Venus is more like your candy. It really doesn't have your nutritional health in mind. I think you have to look to your moon for what truly nourishes you. Exceptions considered. IP: Logged
zoso Newflake Posts: 15 From: Reno, Nv Registered: Nov 2009	posted September 21, 2005 01:24 AM What about Saturn? IP: Logged
Peri Knowflake Posts: 1848 From: 49N35 34E34 Registered: Apr 2009	posted September 21, 2005 02:57 AM Yes Lioneye, I have had such person in my life and we Do have lots of aspects, I think it is a Venus/Pluto thing, but I will post most of our aspects for you to decide. Our aspects: Me: Sun � Taurus, Moon � Sagittarius, ASC � Cappy Him: Sun � Scorpio, Moon � Taurus, ACS � Virgo My Sun conj his South Node My Sun conj his Moon (very loose conjunction though) His Chiron falls exactly on my South Node His Sun, North Node conj my Juno We both have Venuses at 10 degree (Aries/Libra)and both have it in the 2nd house We both have Mercury in the 3rd house His Venus conj Pluto oppose my Venus conj Mars My Pluto conj his Venus conj Pluto My Neptune sextiles his Venus conj Pluto His Neptune sextiles my Venus conj Mars My Jupiter trines his Venus conj Pluto His Jupiter conj my Venus My Saturn trines his Venus conj Pluto His Saturn trines my Mars My Saturn trines his Neptune and Jupiter Our BMLs (2 Aries and 1�30 Gemini) sextile each other His BML conj my Mars My BML conj his Moon His Venus conj Pluto falls into my 8th house My Venus conj Mars falls into his 8th house My ASC/MC (at 13 degrees) trines/sextiles his ASC (at 11 degrees) His ASC falls into my 8th house My ASC falls exactly on the cusp of his 5th house His MC falls on the cusp of my 5th house, conj my Jupiter and BML, sextiles my Venus conj Mars, Saturn His 5th house cusp conj my Eros His Moon is in the 9th house, mine is in Sag His Moon falls into my 4th house and vice versa His 7th house ruler is Neptune, my 7th house ruler conj Neptune His 7th house ruler conj my 7th house ruler My 5th house ruler is Mercury, chart ruler is Saturn; his chart ruler is Mercury, 5th house ruler is Saturn Our Vertices oppose each other (22 Leo/18 Aqua), though it is a loose opposition P.S. Nice to see you again here ------------------ It all depends on how we look at things, and not how they are in themselves. Carl G. Jung IP: Logged
soljourney unregistered	posted September 21, 2005 04:24 AM Look for Jupiter-Sun easy contacts. Jupiter is the planet of forgiveness, and w/ the Jupiter-Sun contact (especially if its two-way) the natives always look for the best in eachother, and they dont focus on the flaws. Jupiter-Sun contacts also create the type of energy that makes the two extremely faithful to eachother (of course, the individual charts and the relationship charts need be considered). Also Chiron-Neptune easy contacts hold people together. As well as Saturn contacts. Even hard Saturn contact are difficult to break. And w/ Chiron-Sun easy contacts, a certain amount of trust is easily placed w/ the partner (who contributes the Sun) that makes it difficult to even recognize their faults. IP: Logged
Peri Knowflake Posts: 1848 From: 49N35 34E34 Registered: Apr 2009	posted September 21, 2005 04:51 AM Maybe I did not get you Lioneye but I thought you meant something like compulsive attraction, because I could NEVER forgive him and yet kept coming back (we both did), lol I agree with Soljourney, Sun/Jupiter supportive aspects give forgiveness and tolerance. IP: Logged
MoonDuchess88 unregistered	posted September 21, 2005 06:09 AM yes Peri, I think its a Venus-Pluto thing too. Me and my sag friend have the conjunction.We've let alotta sht slide w/ eachother that we probably would've cut other ppl out for. She now goes w/ a cappy guy who seems to care about her alot. I need to get his b-day from her. I think Ceres and Chiron would play into it as well. Lauren's boyfriend kinda remids me of my scorpio. I look back at the past and Im like, 'WOW! Things really were fcked up' and I went on not speaking to him for a while but he back anyway,still asking about me, Its kinda weird to me cause Ive never had a guy like that before. We have 3 chiron aspects (jupiter,venus,pluto) and a trine between ceres(his) and venus. And a conjunction between moon and ceres(mine). I've let sht slide, and so has he....damn edit*I wanted to add that I think that ANY Jupiter contacts would bestow forgiveness, I have hard ones w/ the two mentioned above as well as w/ my sister (how could I forget her? ). I have alot of these aspects w/ my sister...till death do us part. And other close family members. IP: Logged
Mystic Gemini unregistered	posted September 21, 2005 08:19 AM Sun Trine Mercury 0.18 231 Sun Trine Venus 0.02 191 Moon Opposition Mars 2.48 -89 Moon Trine Jupiter 1.03 104 Moon Square Uranus 0.33 -145 Mercury Square Pluto 2.03 -81 Venus Opposition Mars 3.56 -54 Venus Trine Saturn 1.48 68 Jupiter Conjunction Mercury 2.21 136 Jupiter Conjunction Venus 2.41 117 Jupiter Square Jupiter 0.10 -129 Jupiter Sextile Uranus 0.19 63 Uranus Conjunction Mars 4.43 65 Uranus Sextile Jupiter 0.52 54 Uranus Square Uranus 1.21 -77 Pluto Conjunction Mercury 3.60 74 Pluto Conjunction Venus 3.39 72 Pluto Square Saturn 0.32 -86 1175 -661 514 How about moon trine jupiter? Moon rules emotions doesn't it? ------------------ Gemini sun, Cancer rising, mercury in Gemini, moon in Taurus *29, venus in Taurus, mars in Libra "You must live in the infinite blackness that exists when I close my eyes. I see you when I fall asleep, I see you when I dream." - Talib Kweli IP: Logged
Devilfish unregistered	posted September 21, 2005 08:59 AM jupiter conj. venus i have this with more than three people and it produces the same feeling they are people ive known for years and i will always love them,unconditionaly. true friendships, one is my hubby,one is my mother in law, same effects of forgiveness being always there even unasked. i just love who they are, simply as that! IP: Logged
nycgirl unregistered	posted September 22, 2005 12:09 PM Great topic. The biggest love of my life was a Cancer man. Though things didn't work out btwn us, I love him til this day with no hard feelings. I'm a Gem Sun w/a Cancer Moon and VERY emotional (though I hide it well w/Virgo Asc). We just pushed each others emotional buttons too much and both of us were WAY too sensitive when it came to each other. I've never felt as intensely since. I have been VERY attracted to a particular Virgo man, but we're both 2 workaholics, so I have my doubts about that one. LOL IP: Logged
astro junkie unregistered	posted September 25, 2005 06:30 PM lioneye68 - I have an Aspect with someone which came out with an interpretation saying something about that. It had to do with a Saturn Aspect, but I cannot remember which one. It had to do with endurance, not having to work so hard for it. That it came easy with this Saturn Aspect. If I find it, I'll share it. ------------------ ... it's better to light a candle than curse the darkness IP: Logged

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