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Lauren
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posted September 21, 2005 11:14 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I noticed that I act more like my Moon sign with the women in my life, and I show my Sun sign side more to the men. This doesn't apply to people close to me, because I think they see all facets of my personality.

But, in general, when I'm around guys, I tend to be more assertive and pretty detached (aries sun in 11th)

Around women I'm a lot more concerned and eager to listen and also a lot less likely to say anything even mildly offensive. I'm extra careful in my relationships with women (capricorn moon in 8th).

Do you notice a similar pattern with your Sun and Moon signs and the way you interact with people?

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Gemini Nymph
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posted September 21, 2005 11:44 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hmmm, with men and women it's pretty much the same for me, but I'm a Gem Sun, which is rather androgynous anyhow. I'm mainly a crebral type with other adults, and focused on nonpersonal matters like work. My Sun's in the 10th, with MC in Gem - there's often a lot of talking/communciation involved, where ideeas and not feelings are exchanged. I can remain very detached with other adults, which is why many adults find me aloof and difficult to get to know.

The big difference is with children, especially in the 4-12 range. That's when my Pisces moon really comes out more. I'm more empathetic and emotionally driven with interacting with children, and I more focused on how I interact with them rather than the topic or task at hand, as I am with adults. My moon's in the 7th. I am very receptive and intuitive to a child's feelings, mood and general state. While I have a hard time reading adults, I can sense very readily how a child feels. I also can easily internalize a child's feeling, so if a child's upset or hurt, I feel too and very intensely.

I am also this way with animals - animals connect with my Piscean side very easily and I tend to have a very deep empathic bond iwth animals on all sorts, although I have a unique affinity for cats.

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Lauren
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posted September 21, 2005 11:56 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
That's very interesting. I love animals as well (Merc/Jup in Pisces)

It's interesting how you feel children's emotions and feel that close to them. I don't think I've ever felt that. I mean I love kids and they're cute, but I never really make out how they feel, unless they say it. Then again I don't have a child of my own (since I'm 19 and all lol) so maybe that will change when I have my own kids.

With adults, on the other hand, I often get vibes and my mood changes based on their moods at the time.

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Gemini Nymph
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posted September 22, 2005 12:11 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
It's very odd for me - it's like with adults I have a hard time being empathetic, yet with children I cannot *not* be. It;s as if with a child, I'm a open pathway that all their inner feelings just flow right in. But adults, I have to work on being open toward in that way.

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Planet_Soul
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posted September 22, 2005 12:29 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hmmmm, I'm the opposite. My moon in Pisces 3/4 comes out of hiding with men. I'm sensitive, talkative, and in lalala land when I care for a guy. With women, I'm distant and aloof (Sag Sun 11/12). It's a challenge for me to keep up with female friendships. I find other girls to be too clingy, and grouchy. They'll get really hurt when I don't return their calls, and yup I'm very ditzy. I have to know a friend for a long time and care a great deal to even worry about returning those calls.

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nycgirl
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posted September 22, 2005 11:54 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I'm much more detached when it comes to men except if they are Cancer men (my moon is in Cancer). I'm very attached to my female friends and I'm fanatical about the protection of children and anyone who's the underdog (esp. animals).

With 4 planets in Gem and a rising in Virgo (Uranus, Pluto conj ASC)I can be a tough nut to crack initially, but I'll always be an enigma to alot of ppl I'm sure.

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geminirising26
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posted September 22, 2005 01:18 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hmmm, this is very interesting. I never really thought about this!

Well, my sun is in Capricorn and with men, I think I do come off as a bit distant, reserved and somewhat "proper" but I always view guys in terms of what their goals are in life, like do they have plans?? Are they making something of themselves?

My moon is in Taurus, and I definately think this is why many of my friends are women and not men. I like to relax, be comfortable, talk and just have drinks/dinner with my friends. The friends that I have who are women are very reliable and stable-at least the mature ones are.


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seveneieghtorange
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posted September 22, 2005 01:58 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
To be honest I act like a mix between my Cancer sun and Scorp moon in most of everything that I am involved with for a long time. Most of my acquaintances see me in my Gemini rising, but my best friends and my old boyfriends saw a mix of Cancer/Scorpio. I think it's somehow of a conscious thing to do for me, though, not to let ppl see the real me first, until I know that they will *Get* who I am, cos Im so damn complicated.

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MoonDuchess88
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posted September 22, 2005 03:44 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
ppl rarely see my cancer sun (Hey, I dont consciously plan this)unless they know me. In other words Im aloof w/ both sexes-even guys I like. Must be either my rising or my virgo moon.*edit*but Im good @ sensing ppl's feelings and hidden motives. Must be that moon in the 8th thing.

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sue g
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posted September 22, 2005 04:19 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I feel more able to display my taurus moon with my female friends.....touchy feely, huggy.......I would LIKE to be like this with most people.....but I tend to use my Scorpio sun with males, as in trying to hold back a little....cos not everyone is ready for my openness, especially here in ireland,,,the men can be very shy.......xxxx

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alanabelle86
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posted September 22, 2005 04:42 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for alanabelle86     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
i act like a weird combo between scorpio and leo with everyone i know...its pretty obvious that leo is a tad bit more dominant when it comes to the way i express myself, but the way i am with people once i trust them is def like a scorpio. i guess u can say that leo magnetism draws em up, and my scorpio side sizes everyone and everything up b4 it can pass the "can you be part of my life" test...usually i treat everyone with such fascination...

i really am fascinated by everything, and everyone.

men are so much fun...like ive always felt like i NEED to be around them to be happy...so I guess my moon plays out in that area more often than not. i feel "at home" around men and just comfortable, they *adore* me, maybe thats why.


my sun plays out towards women i think. no offense, but i really *dont* like women. ive never gotten along well with them, ever. so i tend to me much more guarded and suspicious towards them. im always tense when im with girls, its kind of unnerving. i feel like if i let my defenses down sometimes a war might start. however the ones i do trust, i'll love *forever*

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Mystic Gemini
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posted September 22, 2005 09:47 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I am more like my gemini sun with people I hardly know. With people I am close to my mothering, cuddly, and sweet loving cancer rising and taurus moon are always there.


Unless you have ****** me off. Then you can f*** off.


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Gemini sun, Cancer rising, mercury in Gemini, moon in Taurus *29, venus in Taurus, mars in Libra

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