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Loopy24
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posted September 24, 2005 11:28 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Don't know why i seem to attract these impossible situations but i do. This though is something i'd never thought i'd do and something that never intended to happen. Don't really know quite how it happened, guess i was seduced but i'm involved with a man and the situation is trouble with a capital T. Don't want to go into too much detail as want to see what anyone can pick out of our charts.

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Loopy24
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posted September 24, 2005 11:34 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
P.S. have done the computer reports, just want personal oppionions and insights xxx

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Gemini Nymph
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posted September 24, 2005 10:16 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Ooh, sorry. I wish I could, but I'm strecthc so thin schedule-wise right now, I seriously don't have the time to do any kind of readings right now. I just only have a few minutes to browse through the posts here right now.

I hope someone else can help you out, but if not bump this thread (or repost it) sometime next week and if I can, I say some things then.

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sue g
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posted September 25, 2005 04:20 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hi Loopy (love the name)\

If it helps at all,I have also in the past been involved in dangerous situations where love is concerned....fortunately I always came out of the virtually unscathed.

He is Scorpio, you are Aries? Hot stuff....I can understand the pull......

Did you think of getting a tarot reading done, as well as having the charts looked at......there are good people here over at TTLG who I am sure would be willing to help.

Oh just wanna say, I was always the married one, not the guy.........easier in a way cos at least I had the choice to walk away then....which I did....I am on my third marriage

Good luck and mind yourself

xxx

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Loopy24
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posted September 25, 2005 10:47 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thanks Mystic, will repost in a week or so, need all the help i can get.
Sue!! What would you say from your experiance is the motivator for the scorpion being unfaithful, i always thought that when in love they were faithful?? Is it just the 7 year itch (not been that long though) or a symptom of something deeper, i don't know.....
What would you say is the attraction for scorps about aries (i have neptune conjunct ascendant and my moon in cancer tho so not typical aries ).

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Loopy24
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posted September 25, 2005 11:04 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Ohhhhh and if anyone knows about the planets in each others houses could you help me out on this one.. his moon and venus in my 8th house and my sun/venus/mars in his 7th. I get really confused with this as i can never figure out what effect is had on who's parts. Don't know if my planets in his houses mean that i effect him or vise versa. please any oppinions needed xxx

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sue g
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posted September 25, 2005 11:09 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Oh Loopy

What a question........

mmm....well I am very very Scoprio and for me being unfaithful to my first two husbands was a variety of reasons..I will try and help..

Ok the first one..Libra...childhood sweethearts...we were more like bro and sis...and I think we got married too young..i was 20, a mere child. The marriage lacked passion and there was not enough sexual stuff for me...I am very sexual and passionate. Also I lost respect for him...he was quite weak and I could walk all overhim....

The second guy...an Aqua....there was more of a pull there, but he wasnt up for me either LOL. He was a liar, drank too much and was also not passionate enough.....of course cos he lied, Iost trust in him...

And now...I respect my man...he is very matched to me physically, emotionally we are working on that...he is more detached than I (although I am beginning to feel that is a blessing rather than a curse.

For me respect, honesty, passion, someone who can be very independant and put me in my place.

I feel your lovers wife isnt male enough for him, maybe not as sexy and alluring as he would like....sorry I dont know where that came from Often Scorpio people need to be matched by the partner....that is where the respect comes in. For me a touch of the unusual goes a long way too...

I hope this made sense.....please ask anything...I am fascinated by love and relationship and being married 3 times gives me a little insight into it maybe?? LOL!!

Love


Sue xx

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sue g
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posted September 25, 2005 11:13 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I have all my Scorpio planets in the 8th house......I am pulled by sex, myticism and the underworld..7th house is the rule of relationship isnt it...so put them together.....PHEW !!!

I will leave it to the experts to answer in more detail, but I have a feeling there is a pull there.

Oh yeah as for the Scorp/Aries thing, it can be very equally matched in terms of passion I think,,,,very sexual, hot, hot hot !!!

xx

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Loopy24
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posted September 25, 2005 12:11 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Uncanny Sue....Think that his wife is a former childhood sweetheart, not first love though. I know that he had not long come out of a long term relationship (that he'd been very hurt by) when he bumped back into her. They were together about a year and got engaged and thier first baby arrived about a month before the wedding. I did wonder whether things could of happened too quickly with them. Funnily as well the other day someone said to me that they did'nt seem that suited as she seemed a lot older than him (even though she's not) and that he always seems like his on his best behaviour with her.... I dunno.
I am a bit eccentric, very passionate, very sensitive, very emotional (but hold it all in), am a very sexual person too. I like to be chheky and have little discussions, test of wits but i hate proper arguments, unless they are productive/air clearing.
Want to write more to you sue,feel you get this all somehow even though you are so far away...stange that....., but gotta go now and won't be able to log back in till tuesday. Will write more then. Cheers xxxxxxxx

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sue g
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posted September 25, 2005 03:06 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I am the Lovewoman loopy LOL......I love all things connected with love....am happy to help girl......look after yourself and have fun

Sue xx

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Loopy24
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posted September 27, 2005 01:56 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Am back on....Sue, from your experiance, i know all people are different but still it would help, what would you say is going on in his head at the moment, what kind of things went through your head.
And could anyone please PLEASE Have a look at the charts and offer a thought thanks xxx

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sue g
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posted September 27, 2005 02:56 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hi Loopy

Id say he is excited by you.......and pulled by your energy, he proabably likes the challenge too...........

I would have to hear more about the relationship to comment, but with me I know I just had to go find myself someone new when the one I was with didnt treat me right (Scorpio folk often have large demands, sexual/emotional) and it often takes someone strong and challenging to match them......of course depends on his chart......any chance of posting it here.....there are fab people here who know lots, by just looking.....

Speak soon, have fun, but be careful girl !!!!!

Love

Sue xxx

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1scorp
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posted September 27, 2005 03:11 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I share his b-day.

Edited - Just noticed... there is only a few minutes difference between his birth time and mine. Years are different though.

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Scorpio sun, venus, mars, mercury and uranus
Libra moon, pluto and asc.

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Loopy24
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posted September 28, 2005 05:05 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
His Aspects
Sun Scorpio 06°09'19 01 direct
Moon Virgo 06°15'32 11 direct
Mercury Libra 19°05'13 01 direct
Venus Virgo 19°49'31 11 direct
Mars Cancer 02°17'40 09 direct
Jupiter Aries 17°29'42 07 retrograde
Saturn Leo 02°44'53 10 direct
Uranus Scorpio 03°01'56 01 direct
Neptune Sagittarius 10°15'10 02 direct
Pluto Libra 10°09'45 12 direct
True Node Scorpio 21°51'54 02 retrograde


House positions (Placidus)
Ascendant Libra 16°33'55
2nd House Scorpio 12°09'11
3rd House Sagittarius 14°15'32
Imum Coeli Capricorn 22°02'59
5th House Aquarius 27°11'15
6th House Pisces 25°06'29
Descendant Aries 16°33'55
8th House Taurus 12°09'11
9th House Gemini 14°15'32
Medium Coeli Cancer 22°02'59
11th House Leo 27°11'15
12th House Virgo 25°06'29

Major aspects
Sun Sextile Moon 0°06
Sun Trine Mars 3°52
Sun Square Saturn 3°24
Sun Conjunction Uranus 3°07
Moon Sextile Mars 3°58
Moon Sextile Uranus 3°14
Moon Square Neptune 4°00
Mercury Opposition Jupiter 1°36
Mercury Conjunction Ascendant 2°31
Venus Quincunx Jupiter 2°20
Mars Trine Uranus 0°44
Jupiter Opposition Ascendant 0°56
Saturn Square Uranus 0°17
Neptune Sextile Pluto 0°05

My Aspects
House positions (Placidus)
Ascendant Capricorn 00°50'40
2nd House Aquarius 19°12'38
3rd House Aries 07°08'12
Imum Coeli Taurus 07°40'46
5th House Taurus 28°15'26
6th House Gemini 14°45'20
Descendant Cancer 00°50'40
8th House Leo 19°12'38
9th House Libra 07°08'12
Medium Coeli Scorpio 07°40'46
11th House Scorpio 28°15'26
12th House Sagittarius 14°45'20

Major aspects
Sun Square Moon 7°09
Sun Conjunction Venus 1°12
Sun Conjunction Mars 2°04
Sun Trine Neptune 2°45
Sun Opposition Pluto 0°57
Moon Trine Mercury 7°11
Moon Square Venus 5°57
Moon Sextile Jupiter 4°11
Moon Sextile Saturn 6°02
Moon Trine Uranus 0°19
Moon Square Pluto 6°12
Moon Quincunx Ascendant 1°39
Mercury Opposition Jupiter 2°59
Mercury Opposition Saturn 1°09
Mercury Square Ascendant 5°32
Venus Conjunction Mars 3°16
Venus Trine Neptune 1°33
Venus Opposition Pluto 0°15
Mars Trine Neptune 4°49
Mars Opposition Pluto 3°01
Jupiter Conjunction Saturn 1°50
Jupiter Sextile Uranus 3°53
Jupiter Square Ascendant 2°32
Saturn Sextile Uranus 5°43
Saturn Square Ascendant 4°23
Neptune Sextile Pluto 1°48

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Loopy24
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posted September 28, 2005 05:08 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Durgghhh...forgot this half of my aspects (its all the stress made my mind go)
Planetary positions
planet sign degree house motion
Sun Aries 22°02'45 03 direct
Moon Cancer 29°11'34 07 direct
Mercury Aries 06°22'20 02/3 direct
Mercury is technically near the end of house 2 and is interpreted in house 3.
Venus Aries 23°14'39 03 direct
Mars Aries 19°58'43 03 direct
Jupiter Libra 03°23'04 08 retrograde
Saturn Libra 05°13'25 08/9 retrograde
Saturn is technically near the end of house 8 and is interpreted in house 9.
Uranus Scorpio 29°30'25 11 retrograde
Neptune Sagittarius 24°47'23 12 retrograde
Pluto Libra 22°59'32 09 retrograde
True Node Leo 07°54'02 07 direct
Is anybody out there seeing anything...gemnymph..anyone

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sue g
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posted September 28, 2005 05:49 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hey Loopy

NO wonder he is drawn to you with all that fire in there girl......I hope someone can help regarding synastry....

xxx

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Loopy24
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posted September 28, 2005 10:09 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thanks sue. you've been really supportive, just wish that someone on here would have a look.
Ohhhhh fingers crossed. xx

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Azalaksh
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posted September 28, 2005 10:15 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Azalaksh     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Loopy ~

check out this link http://www.cafeastrology.com/articles/sexualattractionastrology.html

I know several men whose Moon, Venus, Mars or Eros fall in my 8th House. From my POV (haven't heard how they feel about it!) it amounts to an almost irresistible pull, an intrigue that draws me in.....

It's a difficult path to be involved with a man who is married with a small child. Despite the undeniable chemistry, what do you think would be the right choice for YOU -- to continue with trouble with a capital T, or to distance yourself from this situation, as hard as that would be?

'Zala

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Loopy24
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posted September 28, 2005 10:41 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thanks Az.
Think its best to run for the hills and am trying to but pulled in opposite directions. Like you said an irresistable pull, feels kind of inevitable as well. Not going to go anywhere, it can't, keep reminding myself of that.....but its still hard. can say when not in touch with him that that's it forget it but as soon as i get a call or text i can't be so sure.

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Happy Dragon
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posted September 28, 2005 11:19 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Loopy
re; header post .. question .. trouble with a T .??? .. yer involved with a married guy and you can't seem to avoid it .. or stop the situation .. or want to .. or something like that "??

re synastry .. some data here .. if you need it for refrence save it to disk .. see hd status page for details on how to if yer not sure .. btw: these pages are due for deletion at somestage

intro a http://www.happydragon.pwp.blueyonder.co.uk/hdpics/synas.a.html
intro b http://www.happydragon.pwp.blueyonder.co.uk/hdpics/synas.c.html
sun http://www.happydragon.pwp.blueyonder.co.uk/hdpics/synas.d.html
moon http://www.happydragon.pwp.blueyonder.co.uk/hdpics/synas.e.html
mercury http://www.happydragon.pwp.blueyonder.co.uk/hdpics/synas.f.html
intro c http://www.happydragon.pwp.blueyonder.co.uk/hdpics/synas.g.html
venus http://www.happydragon.pwp.blueyonder.co.uk/hdpics/synas.h.html
mars http://www.happydragon.pwp.blueyonder.co.uk/hdpics/synas.i.html
outer planets http://www.happydragon.pwp.blueyonder.co.uk/hdpics/synas.b.html

. i looked at your charts at the time of your post .. but not realy had much time to 'study' them .. what exactly is it you want to know ????

. I will post your transit data shortly .. cause you have some wopping transits lass .. t.Pluto aspecting your Sun for starters ( he has t.Jupiter aspecting his Lillith at present) ..

.. and u already be a Sun /Pluto chart i.e. pluto opposes your Sun

.. please do research the Neptune to Venus aspect in your natal chart .. something you realy want to take note of regarding your romantic life ! .. i.e you may be quite capable of fooling yourself in that department ...

Saturn be approaching the picture as well .. as it will be aspecting his Sun .. .. and aspecting your Lillith.. ... by transit

.. in answering any of this am i to assume the 'affair' or whatever u may call it is .. has been underway for while .. and the guy is married .. .. who started it ?

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Happy Dragon
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posted September 28, 2005 04:36 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Loopy .. for now ..
... your transits .. .. his in following post ..
( just listening to ''hey joe" by hendrix .. and noting the words)
yours .. .. outer planets ..

t.Pluto trine n.Sun
t.Jupiter opp n.Venus
t.Lillith square n.Chiron
t.Neptune semisquare n.Chiron

t.Chiron be opposing n.Moon

thread about Lillith .. http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum7/HTML/005183.html

note approaching t.Saturn squares ... to natal Lillith .. then natal Chiron ..

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Happy Dragon
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posted September 28, 2005 04:45 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
.. the guy ..

**** ... is going on in his head at the moment .. ****
re the chart stuff .. .. shagging probably ..

.. his transits ..

t.Lillith trine n.Jupiter
t.Neptune semisquare n.Lillith
t.Jupiter opp n.Chiron

notes : ..
t.Pluto squaring n.Venus
t.Chiron approaching opposition to natal Saturn .. square to natal Uranus .. then square to his natal Sun ..
t.Uranus not too far off a square to his natal Moon .. check retro movements as some of the 'outers' be backing up somewhat .. it may return to square n.Moon again .. will post retro info as i've lost the thread bookmark ..

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Happy Dragon
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posted September 28, 2005 06:57 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Urns/Nep/Plut/Chiron .. retro/direct dates ..

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.. current and future directions for these ..

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.. Saturn ..
22nd July 2005 .. .. now direct at 00.42 Leo
22nd Nov 2005 .. .. turns retro at 11.18 Leo
6th April 2006 .. .. turns direct at 04.22 Leo
6th Dec 2006 .. .. turns retro at 25.04 Leo
20th April 2007 .. .. turns direct at 18.09 Leo
3rd Sept 2007 .. .. Saturn in Virgo
20th Dec 2007 .. .. turns retro at 08.34 Virgo
5th May 2008 .. .. turns direct at 01.40 Virgo

.. Chiron ..
20th july 2005 .. .. now retrograde at 00.38 Aqua
5th Oct 2005 .. .. turns direct at 27.48 Cap
15th May 2006 .. .. turns retro at 9.45 Aqua
13th Oct 2006 .. .. turns direct at 4.24 Aqua
21st May 2007 .. .. turns retro at 15.41 Aqua
20th Oct 2007 .. .. turns direct at 10.27 Aqua

.. Uranus ..
20th July 2005 .. .. now retrograde at 10.16 Pisces
16th Nov 2005 .. .. turns direct at 6.50 Pisces
16th july 2006 .. .. turns retro at 14.27 Pisces
20th Nov 2006 .. .. turns direct at 10.48 Pisces
24th June 2007 .. .. turns retro at 18.41 Pisces
24th Nov 2007 .. .. direct again at 14.46 Pisces

.. Neptune ..
20th July 2005 .. .. now retrograde at 16.42 Aqua
27th Oct 2005 .. .. turns direct at 14.49 Aqua
22nd May 2006 .. .. turns retro at 19.49 Aqua
29th Oct 2006 .. .. turns direct at 17.02 Aqua
25th May 2007 .. .. turns retro at 22.02 Aqua
1st Nov 2007 .. .. turns direct at 19.15 Aqua

.. Pluto ..
20th July 2005 .. .. now retrograde at 22.17 Sag
2nd Sept 2005 .. .. turns direct at 21.49 Sag
29th March 2006 .. .. turns retro at 26.45 Sag
5th Sept 2006 .. .. turns direct at 24.04 Sag
1st April 2007 .. .. turns retro at 28.57 Sag
7th Sept 2007 .. .. turns direct at 26.17 Sag

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.. added info to chart posts ..

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Loopy24
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posted September 29, 2005 06:13 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thank you happy dragon, that was really kind of you xx I don't know much at all about transits and all that but i will endeavour to find out more.
Your right what you put, probably just sex thats on his mind at the moment.
How it all started, don't know. Know that about a year ago he tried to kiss me when we were on a night out but i dodged it and it was never spoken about untill a couple of months ago when we met up by chance when we were out again and this time he kissed me an i kised him back. Its exploded from there.
Neptune, always thought i should of been born a pisces have all there vices, self delusion has always been a problem. Not deluding self here am not thinking anything on about it as don't trust own thoughts. thats why need help. Can anyone see anything from the synastry....
my sun venus and mars are in his 7th house his moon and venus are in my eighth....don't know what effect that what have on who though. Looked on the net and gone to links off this sight but they not really clear. Anyone got any textbook/experiance knowledge of these house things x

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posted September 29, 2005 09:50 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Stargazer     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Loopy 24

Hi! Aries moon here.... I know a little about getting what you want....

I also know a little about the male Scorpio.... I know all about the pull. A relationship with a Scorpio is a beautiful thing. No one can deny the attraction between you. You have great aspects together. but.... he's married.
Scorpio males have the ability to seperate their emotions from their sexuality and still come out the winner. I say this because of your comment on him being on his best behaviour at home. He won't wear his emotions smeared on his face. There is probably a pattern here.... He can overcome the guilt because as long as its only sex he still feels loyal. I am not so much envious of this trait as I am in awe of it.

I agree with Sue in that he is attracted to your energy.
I think Happy Dragon has told you how it is in a stellar way... not what you want to hear....
Zala's words are very wise... you should read her post over and over....
I'm going to quote from a book that deals with women and unhealthy relationships...

"Dear Other Woman.
Hey, smart girl. Good for you to know you deserve to feel a powerful and profound love. I just think you should have it with someone who is actually yours. There's plenty of guys out there. Why not get one of your own? Sure, okay, sometimes people fall out of love, marry the wrong person, are overome with passion, or make bad choices, all of which can result in an affair. Here's how you and Ring Finger Fred can handle this situation now: Stop seeing each other; let him figure out his life. If he ends up staying with his wife, then you would of been that girl who was having an affair with the guy who was never planning on leaving his wife. If he does leave his wife, then you can start a life with him not based in shame.

"I know your different, and its different, but the fact is he's married. If there is only one red flag you are unable to ignore in your entire life, please make it this one. There's simply too much at stake for everyone involved" - even more so since you know his wife.

I don't think you are easily forgettable... let him find you when he's ready... Houses, aspects, transits mean nothing at this point... because if he's not all yours or even available to be... then he's all hers.

I have personally been in your shoes..After a year of waiting around, wondering why he disappeared for a week or more, excuse after excuse... I only ended up feeling bad about myself. It ended up that i had to get closure all by myself. It is hard and it hurts. Try to believe in love the verb not so much the noun. If he's not free to spend his days and nights thinking about and spending time with you... then it is not real....

I wish you only the best..... you deserve it!

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