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Topic: Archer Men?
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kiwigirl
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posted October 10, 2005 06:59 PM
 
Can someone please give me some insight into them...have been semi involved with one for the last three months and i only feel like we are now making progress.I'm a scorpio for those who dont already know. He's going on 24 and I'm 35. He's really committed to sport and never ever had a girlfriend! Only one night stands, i am the longest he has ever "seen" a woman!!! Any help would be much appreciated. I dont even know he birthdate, must ask him when i see him next....oppppssss
Thanks everyone
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funkyaquarianpixie
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posted October 10, 2005 07:07 PM
Getting a sag man to commit is like trying to lassoo clouds. But they're lots of fun.IP: Logged |
oddball
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posted October 10, 2005 07:47 PM
Im a sag. I don't think I'll ever get married. To make it easier for him, you have to make a heavy, serious situation lighthearted. Talk to him about it, but make sure its not a heat-to-heat talk, talk about it as seriously as you would talk about what you ate for dinner yesterday, if you know what I mean. Sags get claustrophobic when they're thinking about comittment. Its like being in a tiny little cage for them.IP: Logged |
kiwigirl
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posted October 10, 2005 08:19 PM
F.A.P and Oddball thanks for those insights. The funny thing is I can see him really wanting to take things to a different level and in his own way he has in the last week, but it is such a struggle for him, so me being the independant type i just get on with it, live my life, do what i usually do and he always turns back up. hugs
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DragonflyAries
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posted October 11, 2005 12:00 AM
Kiwi: That's probably the best way to handle it. The fact that you seem pretty independent yourself is a big help with a Sag.  It's almost a paradox with them, they want true love almost as badly as they're afraid of being smothered to death with it!At this point though I wouldn't be talking any big commitments... wait at least a year for that. LOL But you do deserve to know if you're the only one he's seeing right now, or if you're one of many. I guess the best advice is to have an amazingly fun time in your own personal (ie: the part that doesn't include him) life. They seem to be attracted to that kind of confidence and happy-go-lucky attitude. Let him know that you think he's amazing and that you think you guys can really have a lot of fun together... Saggy's biggest fear is that you're going to demand his every waking moment be planned around you, so let him know you have "your stuff" to do while he does "his stuff". LOL IP: Logged |
alanabelle86
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posted October 11, 2005 05:12 PM
thats funny... my sag is the CLINGIEST S.O.B EVER!!!!!!!!!! hes like the backwards sag/aqua combo...he never leaves me alone, oh my god. he wants to do everything, go everywhere with me, all the time. he puts me first and formost b4 everything in his life and expects me do to the same... its funny, youd think the scorpio female would be the one tightening the reins on her bf but i find myself crying FREEEEDDOOOMMMMM
whenever hes near...
but saggies in general, theyre like poison to me...a really really reallllllly good tasting poison.. one that tastes like chocolate...and my libra side cannnot avoid chocolate 
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oddball
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posted October 11, 2005 06:19 PM
alanabelle86, take into consideration his rising sign too. aqua is the most detached of all signs, sag is probably the most detached of the fire signs. im also a sag/aqua, but people who don't know me well often think that I'm shy, clingy, innocent and sensitive cuz of my cancer rising. lol and my family? BIG difference. my mom is a scorpio and it drives her nuts the way she cannot communicate with me on an emotional level. in fact it drives everyone nuts. when ppl with aqua moon are younger they have huge mood swings, and when they enter adulthood they shut out these emotions because they feel overwhelmed and stupid after the decisions and actions they made when using their emotional impulses. check out other aspects of his chart.IP: Logged |
Mystic Gemini
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posted October 11, 2005 06:22 PM
Alana....I don't feel it's only about his chart. The aspects you both have together probably makes him like that.
You lucky gal 
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alanabelle86
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posted October 11, 2005 08:31 PM
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funkyaquarianpixie
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posted October 12, 2005 05:55 AM
Alana i refer to sag men as exploding candyfloss... ref the chocolate thing heh.IP: Logged |
miss_muffet
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posted October 12, 2005 09:42 AM
I am married to a sag for 7 years. We just celebrated our 7th anniversary past Monday.The only thing I can say about sag men is this: they need to be able to talk to you and you able to talk back. My husband reads a lot - from books to newspaper to magazines and anything they can get their hands on. So, you can just imagine the topic of conversation we have. In order to keep their interest over and above SEX, you need to spark debates and conversation. They love to argue. Good luck. Miss Muffet IP: Logged |
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posted October 12, 2005 10:44 PM
Muffet is right, you need to be able to hold a conversation with him. I used to think all I wanted from a girl was sex whenever I wanted it, and then i met a girl who gave me that... but she wasnt very talkative or smart, and it irked the hell out of me. I broke it off real quick, even though I regretted giving up the sex I knew I could have with her.The thing most people don't realize is that Gemini isnt the only dual sign, Sagittarius is very dual. It's the only sign that is half animal half human. Think of us as centaurs, the bottom half is horse, out to do one thing (like sex, and lots of it,) and the top half is human, seeking higher knowledge and philosophizing (and arguing :P ) ------------------
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kiwigirl
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posted October 13, 2005 08:06 PM
Thanks everyone for your insights. I will put them all to good use believe me...lolUp till now we have mainly just had a physical relationship although at times we have talked about different things....mainly him talking about his life etc...but that is cool with me, i'm a good listener. He is 24 and i am 35 so there is a fair age gap between us as well..doesnt seem to be a problem so far but then we dont really mix socially. Once again, thanks everyone kiwi IP: Logged |
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