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Topic: Leo and Virgo
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peace
Knowflake Posts: 35
From: Las Vegas,NV
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted October 11, 2005 09:17 AM
  
As some of you know by now,I'm a happily married Virgo Woman to a Leo Man.We love each other very much.Now for something completely different.A-hem. My husband used to work as a music instructor teaching children guitar,drums and piano.I have a crush on his boss,and still do till this day.My husband doesn't mind.
By the way,It's a Woman!.I have never had a crush on a woman before.I have been keeping this to myself,since Feb.10,2005.By the way she is married to a Leo man as well.I had never asked her if she felt the same way as I did.After all,I'm an average looking female,and she's hot!.Get the picture?.I'm afraid to find out the truth.What if the feeling isn't mutual?.
What's funny,is that she has the same birthday as my husband!.LOL.She is 12 yrs. older than me.Is it possible for a Leo Women and Virgo Woman to fall in love?.I need advice. IP: Logged |
cancerrg
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posted October 11, 2005 10:00 AM
A gf of mine had everything that i liked in a woman . we shared everything . we even shared the same interests .
we both were interested in women .  IP: Logged |
peace
Knowflake Posts: 35
From: Las Vegas,NV
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted October 11, 2005 10:15 AM
Hi Cancer,
By the way if you don't mind me asking,are you and your loved one(bf,gf)married?.Not to impose thought.I am straight by the way,it's just when I saw her,I thought to myself,WOW!.What I mean is,am I bi-sexual or bi-curious?.What does it feel like to kiss another woman.Hmm...IP: Logged |
noreenz
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posted October 11, 2005 11:47 AM
ok, now I'm a lil confused. What is it that you really want to know???IP: Logged |
LeoStrength
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posted October 11, 2005 12:27 PM
I cant see why Leo&Virgo females shouldnt fallin love?Do you think maybe you have a crush on her as she has attributes that you aspire to?
Is it/could it be lust rather than love? I dont think you have to be bi-sexual to have fantasies about another woman, if that is what it is, just a fantasy? Ask yourself this.....If she did feel the same way about you, as you do her, would you want to take it further, or would you sooner keep it all in your imagination, in your realms of fantasy?
Much love
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peace
Knowflake Posts: 35
From: Las Vegas,NV
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted October 11, 2005 04:06 PM
I'd be surprised if she did felt the same about me.I'm 27 yrs.old,she's 39 yrs. old.I've always been attracted to men sexually.Which makes me hetero of course.This is my first female attraction.I know this may sound Hollywood like,but most of the time,the prettiest woman reject the average looking female.I'm not a supermodel.Also I'm married,and so is she.Even if I did tell her,she might break my heart.I'm afraid of rejection.IP: Logged |
Gemini Nymph
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posted October 12, 2005 12:53 AM
This isn't love - it's an obsession. It's troubling enough that you, a grown and married woman, feels the need to obsess over mytholized dead rock stars, but you obsess over persons you have contact in your own life as well? It's also troubling that you don't seem to be thinking at all about how this could affect your husband's job or your marriage, or of any negative consequences for this woman. You're only thinking about yourself and your own desires. You need talk to a therapist, and I would advise strongly that you stay away from this woman. I am not trying to be mean or heartless, but in all honesty, this is very troubling. You are talking like a stalker, and not a rational person. This simply isn't healthy and I think you need help. IP: Logged |
peace
Knowflake Posts: 35
From: Las Vegas,NV
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted October 12, 2005 02:42 AM
Gemini,
If you don't mind me asking,are you married or divorce?.You make it sound like I've had an affair with this woman already.You remind me of the "O'Reilley Factor".I thought you were and open-minded individual.I have met many Catholics who are.As for help,of course I need help.That is why I'm asking women on this forum who are going through this situation.Especially,open-minded women. IP: Logged |
noreenz
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posted October 12, 2005 11:38 AM
Hi Peace,I can see where you might think this harsh of GN, but remember she justs puts it out there, bottom line. lol, gotta luv her... When I first read your post, I was a lil bothered and confused as what you were really wanting to know.
Why are you having feelings for another
woman?
Could a older beautiful woman be attracted to you?
What is it like to kiss another woman?
These questions I feel don't belong in this forum..... You stated that this woman had the same birthday as your husbands....IF you wondered if that could lead you to perhaps be attracted to her, then yes, I could perhaps see where you were going with this. I hope I don't offend you, that is not my intention. Maybe GN has a point about seeking some guidance. You right away assumed Prox had some type of interest in you, by wanting to talk to you privately regarding this matter, if you've been around here for any length of time, I would think that that would have been the absolute last thing that would come into your mind. Peace to you sweetie. *edited* To be honest, this is what I saw when reading your post: I love my husband. Gah, this lady is sooo hot, gah, I wish I were better looking. Do you think she could ever love me? If I were more attractive, do you think she might notice me? What would it be like to kiss her. I wonder if she thinks about me........You can sense your confusion but you came across very whiney, not that of a mature 27 year old woman. So when GN read, I can totally see where she was just trying to offer you guidance and help, in her own way.
make sense?
And just so you know, my stats: I am married, 23 years, 3 children. Virgo Sun, Aqua Moon & Rising..............never been attracted to women, 45 years old........would like to think I'm opened minded.
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Knowflake Posts: 35
From: Las Vegas,NV
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted October 12, 2005 04:48 PM
Noreez,
You see,you don't understand.I can only relate to people who are older than me.It's been that way ever since high school.That's fine if your not attracted to women,Read the post again,This is my first same sex attraction.Been attracted to men ever since,until she came along.IP: Logged |
peace
Knowflake Posts: 35
From: Las Vegas,NV
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted October 12, 2005 05:00 PM
Noreez,
I forgot to mention.I'm in a May-December relationship.My husband is is a Boomer like you. IP: Logged |
peace
Knowflake Posts: 35
From: Las Vegas,NV
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted October 12, 2005 05:30 PM
What does my age have to do with whining?.How is curiousity about kissing someone whining.LOL.Now you got me confused.IP: Logged |
Mama Mia
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posted October 12, 2005 05:43 PM
My Dramadar is on and beeping really hard, this is silly. Peace if you find yourself attracted to women or a woman temporarily thats ok. alot of women go through that I have heard. Is that what you wanted to know or do you want some of the ladies to say they have been through it and explain their situation and how they handled it to you. So far no one is going to say that they have been through this it may be no one's business. I say that too say please do not make drama out of this. And if ppl do comment and agree or oppose your open mnded right as ayou say and it does not matter you are just getting comments here. And you really are sensetive aren't you?? Are you a Pisces??? IP: Logged |
Mystic Gemini
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posted October 12, 2005 05:49 PM
Dump your husband if you do not love him anymore so he can go find someone who will actually give a damn about him.Don't mean to be mean or anything but people like that really disgust me.
If you want the woman then leave him and quit playing games.
We love each other very much.
P.S - That is not love.
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Gemini sun, Cancer rising, mercury in Gemini, moon in Taurus *29, venus in Taurus, mars in Libra
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Blind my eyes I cannot see
Lost my soul but found my heart
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peace
Knowflake Posts: 35
From: Las Vegas,NV
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted October 12, 2005 05:51 PM
Mama Mia,
I'm a Virgo,Virgo Moon,Aries Ascendant.
Since the Sun is in Libra now.It's opposed to my Ascdendant.Possibly that's the reason for the drama.I just want to be understood.
If the Moon is Pisces today.Double whammy!.IP: Logged |
Mama Mia
Knowflake Posts: 117
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posted October 12, 2005 05:56 PM
I understand but you cannot make ppl understand you. you posted got some answers let it go. You know in your heart what you are feeling and what to do basically. We are open here but to a degree here but fact of the matter is you may not get to the point where you will feel undertstood not on this thread. your new here keep going with your threads and questions you will begin to feel understood sooner or later. Gotta go home . Peace to you Peace... IP: Logged |
peace
Knowflake Posts: 35
From: Las Vegas,NV
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted October 12, 2005 06:00 PM
I'm in a May-Decemeber realtionship.I don't know how many of you out there are in one.Like all relationships,this one takes alot of work.Also,I'm in an interfaith relationship.It took us 6 yrs.to embrace each other's differences.You people don't understand how it feels like going through this.To say any relationship is a piece of cake is bull****.IP: Logged |
Mystic Gemini
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posted October 12, 2005 06:12 PM
That is why I said LEAVE HIM.
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Gemini sun, Cancer rising, mercury in Gemini, moon in Taurus *29, venus in Taurus, mars in Libra
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(¸.·´ (¸.·´ * Lost in the peace of serenity
Blind my eyes I cannot see
Lost my soul but found my heart
Again a time, when I shall start IP: Logged |
peace
Knowflake Posts: 35
From: Las Vegas,NV
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted October 12, 2005 06:17 PM
Eureka!.I'm bi-curious.You people are something else.
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Mystic Gemini
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posted October 12, 2005 06:23 PM
No one said there is anything wrong with being bi-curious. I have many friends who are gays, lesbians, and bi-curious.
It's about you not staying stick in a marriage with a man you do not love. Let him go so he can be happy. That way you can find your happiness as well.
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Gemini sun, Cancer rising, mercury in Gemini, moon in Taurus *29, venus in Taurus, mars in Libra *´¨)
¸.·´¸.·*´¨) ¸.·*¨)
(¸.·´ (¸.·´ * Lost in the peace of serenity
Blind my eyes I cannot see
Lost my soul but found my heart
Again a time, when I shall start IP: Logged |
peace
Knowflake Posts: 35
From: Las Vegas,NV
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted October 12, 2005 06:37 PM
MG,
There is no chance with me getting her.Unfair advangtage.It's just infatuation so we might as well leave it at that.I'll remain married and this phase will pass.IP: Logged |
Mystic Gemini
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posted October 12, 2005 06:42 PM
Tsk Tsk....Bad girl.------------------
Gemini sun, Cancer rising, mercury in Gemini, moon in Taurus *29, venus in Taurus, mars in Libra *´¨)
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(¸.·´ (¸.·´ * Lost in the peace of serenity
Blind my eyes I cannot see
Lost my soul but found my heart
Again a time, when I shall start IP: Logged |
peace
Knowflake Posts: 35
From: Las Vegas,NV
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted October 12, 2005 11:25 PM
MG.You know what's also tsk,tsk,encouraging me to leave my husband!.I've been with him for 5 1/2years.Engaged for two years.I didn't marry him till this year.Wasn't infatuated with his boss until Feb.10,2005.So let me understand you correctly.You want me to leave my husband of whom I known for a long time,and risk this marriage for infatuation.
LOL.IP: Logged |
peace
Knowflake Posts: 35
From: Las Vegas,NV
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted October 13, 2005 12:05 AM
Look,it was just a simple question.Can a Leo Woman and Virgo Woman fall in love?.You people blew this out of proportion.Assuming that I was planning to have an affair with the Leo Woman.I haven't met a Leo Virgo lesbian couple before.That is why I asked this question.Geez.IP: Logged |
Mystic Gemini
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posted October 13, 2005 12:29 AM
Welllllll ummmm remember it's not about the sun sign alone.Gotta check synastry, composite, and all those other charts.
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Gemini sun, Cancer rising, mercury in Gemini, moon in Taurus *29, venus in Taurus, mars in Libra *´¨)
¸.·´¸.·*´¨) ¸.·*¨)
(¸.·´ (¸.·´ * Lost in the peace of serenity
Blind my eyes I cannot see
Lost my soul but found my heart
Again a time, when I shall start IP: Logged |
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