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Topic: Synastry: Need a compatibiliy rating on scale 1 to 10
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Iqhunk unregistered
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posted October 11, 2005 01:28 PM
Hi All, Me and my girlfriend met accidentally on the internet several months ago and now seem to be in love Heres my compilation of our basic planets. Can you be dears and tell if we are roughly over 7/10 in astrological relationship compatibility? Just use your intuitive thoughts please First mentioned is mine. Asc: Aries, Libra Sun: Cancer 3H, Libra 1H TNode: Libra 7H, Cancer 11H Moon: Libra 6H, Pisces 6/7 House cusp Mer: Gemini 3H, Scorpio 1H Ven: Taurus 2H, Sagi 2H Mars: Taurus 1H, Leo 12H Jup: Gemini 3H, Libra 1H Sat: Leo 5H, Libra 1H Ura: Scorpio 7H, Scorpio 2H Nep: Sagi 8/9H, Sagi 3H Plu: Libra 6/7H, Libra 1H MC: Capricorn, Cancer Aspects: My Sun Conjuncts her MC My Pluto almost Conjuncts her Sun [6 degrees] Jupiter trines Jupiter My True Node conjucts her Sun, Jupiter, Pluto My Venus Conjuncts her Chiron [4 deg] My Moon almost conjunct Saturn [6 degrees] My Pluto Conjuncts her Saturn My Sun trines her Mercury My Mercury trines her Mercury [5 degrees] My Sun Quincunxes her Venus perfectly. My Venus Quincunxes her Sun [3 degrees] My True Node sextiles her Mars My True Node sextiles her Neptune My Mercury sextiles her Mars My Neptune sextiles her Saturn My Saturn sextiles her Saturn My Sun squares her moon [4 degrees] My Jupiter opposes her Neptune One more Anomaly: We both have 8 planets in the lower half of the chart. Thanks in advance!
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SecretGardenAgain unregistered
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posted October 11, 2005 05:06 PM
hi iqhunk, welcome I would give it an 8 or 8.5 out of ten because u have some AWESOME aspects. i think this relationship,if the two of you are so inclined, would definitely end up in marriage or a relationship at least longer than 2 yrs. let me know if any of if its bull or not. right now in a bit of a hurry but am interested in coming back to do a bit more analysis later tonight. have fun. Love SG IP: Logged |
Gemini Nymph unregistered
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posted October 12, 2005 12:38 AM
About a 2 to a 3 at most to be frank. I assume both of you are about the same age, and in which case, you are both very young and inexperienced with relationships. It is very unlikely your relationship could survive very long with very difficult aspects like Pluto conj Sun, Venus conj Chiron, Moon conj Saturn and Sun sq moon. You really don't have any strong synastry aspects that would assist you in overcoming those above mentioned aspects. Ideally you need a few strong, solid Sun or moon aspects, usually with thepartner's other persoanl planets balance out such difficulty. Also, on a side note, both of you have difficult aspects to your own Suns (you: Sun sq moon, her Sun conj Pluto) which indicate both of you need to do a lot of growing and self-discovery before you can make a good relationship partner. IP: Logged |
Gemini Nymph unregistered
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posted October 12, 2005 12:39 AM
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Iqhunk unregistered
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posted October 12, 2005 06:57 AM
Thanks SG and GN! Well, today was her birthday and I sent her flowers. It seems it is the first time she is getting flowers for her birthday!I actually want to propose next month. By knowing the astrological difficulties, I can prepare the areas where we have to focus more. I dont want to chicken out because of any synastric incompatibility but make it work by overcoming it, atleast with astro knowledge, I should try it, I feel. Else whats the difference between one who knows astrology and one who does not? But it is strange, we both enjoy the same TV pograms, almost same movies, same characters in sitcoms, almost same music bands and even like similar portions of lyrics in a particular song. Very uncanny yet we are of a different race and completely different upbringing etc. IP: Logged |
skystar unregistered
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posted October 12, 2005 07:50 AM
Iqhunk you can find out about relationships in www.grupovenus.com This site has free short reports in English and in Spanish. You can see synastry and composite. Also you can find out in www.astro.com in Astroclick partner or something like that. There you will have a composite chart. Good luck.IP: Logged |
Peri Knowflake Posts: 1848 From: 49N35 34E34 Registered: Apr 2009
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posted October 12, 2005 08:33 AM
Romantic compatibility "score sheet": http://www.cafeastrology.com/synastry.html ------------------ It all depends on how we look at things, and not how they are in themselves. Carl G. Jung IP: Logged |
Lauren unregistered
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posted October 12, 2005 09:15 AM
Hi Iqhunk, The aspect I know most about out of the ones you posted is Sun square Moon..mainly because it's your Sun and her Moon. My moon is Capricorn and I've known a few Libras who square that moon. It's tough because you like them but they hurt you..and they don't even mean to - which makes it worse. A lot of times when I've been hurt by something I haven't been able to say "look you hurt me..this is what you did, please don't in the future" because I can't put my finger on what exactly they did. It's not "something" as such, it's more so the way they said/did it, rather than what they actually did. This aspect doesn't always pop up. And it's not always as hard as it sounds because personally I think it also generates a lot of affection..so the Moon person tends to forgive and forget a lot. BUT, as time goes on..you may find that unless you have other nicer aspects between Sun/Moon/Asc to help out.. you might end up seeing her as a bit TOO emotive and taking things TOO personally..wanting TOO much of you. Whereas she might end up seeing you as a bit TOO bossy, thoughtless or just hurtful to her (making hurtful comments/doing hurtful things) The best way to work it out is, if you try to be as understanding and kind to her emotional side as you can..and she tries to take things a little less personally. A lot of times you wouldn't mean to hurt her at all, but this would happen regardless.. so when she acts emotional about it, your reaction would normally be "whaaa I didn't even do anything" ..because most times the Sun person doesn't realize how exactly they offend the moon person. You need a lot of communication between you. Always know exactly what she needs, and how much of that you're willing and are able to give. My bf's a Libra so he squares my moon as well, by sign..but he also has a Capricorn moon conjunct mine. It's a lot easier when you have another connection there . Is this Sun/Moon square the only aspect you have between your mutual Sun/Moon/Asc? IP: Logged |
miss_muffet unregistered
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posted October 12, 2005 09:37 AM
Maybe I'm confused but I don't see your Sun squaring her moon...Sun: Cancer 3H, Libra 1H Moon: Libra 6H, Pisces 6/7 House cusp Asc: Aries, Libra Based on the above, you guys should bet along marvelously. It is true that your Sun squares her Ascendant, and your Ascendant opposes her moon. But the fact that you have Sun/Moon aspected really well, the negative forces with the Ascendant should only spark up your relationship instead of hamper it. Miss Muffet
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Lauren unregistered
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posted October 12, 2005 10:25 AM
quote: My Sun squares her moon [4 degrees]
I'm assuming it's a square by degree, but not by sign. IP: Logged |
Iqhunk unregistered
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posted October 12, 2005 12:51 PM
My Sun is in 3 degrees Cancer and her Moon in 29 degrees Pisces so I wrote 94 degrees separation as Square by 4 degrees.And Lauren, great analysis! Infact for the first 4 weeks of our interaction it was JUST as you pointed out, about her feeling hurt about something I said. She even thought I would think she is unattractive if I knew her hair was curly and not straight! From 10-15 insecurities a day I have brought it down to 2-3 insecurities a day now I have many aspects by Sign like my moon is Libra and her Asc, Sun, Jupiter, Saturn and Pluto are Libra. Plus our Ascendants are opposites. What I though additionally was my True Node is in her Sun Sign and her True Node is in my Sun Sign, I was thinking there is a spiritual aspect there. We met after I had almost given up on a dating site after scanning, believe it or not more than 20,000 profiles. [I am in conservative South India, I cant go to a NightClub and charm a girl senseless like in lucky Western Nations]. She had made a description error because of which I contacted her! The whole thing seemed like mysteriously arranged. I did see the astro.com composite. They show 6 positives and 3 negatives with one deadly negative which according to them will really keep sparks flying without damage if all sparks are allowed to fly! Maybe like yelling to exhaustion before the kiss and makeup incase of arguments?? But one thing, I am slightly evolved in anger management, it may be a whole lot of mental and verbal abuse from any person before I even begin to get slightly irritated. Besides she has such a lovely voice with a sexy south african accent, I could hear her yell at me all day in the worst case Will have to check Peri's syanstry score sheet too and the site mentions by SkyStar just to get a better idea. IP: Logged | |