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Mama Mia
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posted October 11, 2005 03:00 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Mama Mia     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Is it Pluto Conjunct Venus or Jupiter Conjunct Venus. If you have this with a person does anyone know what results would be. And also suppose you have your Pluto and Jupiter Conjunct the other persons Venus by sign though not degree's.

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Iqhunk
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posted October 11, 2005 03:07 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
From what little I know, Pluto Conjunct Venus would be intense and transformative and passionate love than emotional and empathetic affection or friendly, understanding sort of love. Jupiter conjunct Venus would be "expansive" affection than love. Maybe a relationship where the Jupiter buys the Venus a lot of gifts, showers attention on the Venus to feel great at giving love and so on.
Conjunt by sign? I have no idea. Maybe this will vary sign to sign and even house to house. Maybe same house and same sign conjunction will have more impact.

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Iqhunk
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posted October 11, 2005 03:12 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Maybe Mars trine Venus and PLuto Conjunction along with Neptune conjunct Neptune trining the Venus/PLuto conjunct could indicate a phenomenal physical, emotional and spiritual love explosion. I just read a link from here on LIna/Paul MccArtneys synastry where Neptune's importance is stressed in spiritual/emotional "soulful" love.

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SecretGardenAgain
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posted October 11, 2005 05:03 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
hi mama mia, i wouldnt have taken any of those two as my first guesses, but it depends on the suns involved and what their rulers are (my ruler is venus and so it would be really important what his planets are doin with my venus!)

the top three that came to mind for me:

Sun/Moon and Saturn contacts
Mars/Venus contacts, and Venus/Saturn
Pluto/Venus or Pluto/Moon--Pluto/moon is even more powerful than Pluto/venus.

other good places to look: composite 7th house and composite 4th house.

Love
SG

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Mystic Gemini
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posted October 11, 2005 05:56 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Well that's some good news for me at least.

Me----------------He

Sun (Gemini) Trine Mercury (Libra)
Sun (Gemini) Trine Venus (Libra)
Moon(Taurus) Opposition Mars (Scorpio)
Moon (Taurus) Trine Jupiter (Aquarius)
Moon (Taurus) Square Uranus (Virgo)
Mercury (Gemini) Square Pluto (Virgo)
Venus (Taurus) Opposition Mars (Scorpio)
Venus (Taurus) Trine Saturn (Capricorn)
Jupiter (Scorpio) Conjunction Mercury (Libra)
Jupiter (Scorpio) Conjunction Venus (Libra)
Jupiter (Scorpio) Square Jupiter (Sagittarius)
Jupiter (Scorpio) Sextile Uranus (Libra)
Uranus (Sagittarius) Conjunction Mars (Scorpio)
Uranus (Sagittarius) Sextile Jupiter (Aquarius)
Uranus (Sagittarius) Square Uranus (Virgo)
Pluto (Libra) Conjunction Mercury (Libra)
Pluto (Libra) Conjunction Venus (Libra)
Pluto (Libra) Square Saturn (Capricorn)


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Gemini sun, Cancer rising, mercury in Gemini, moon in Taurus *29, venus in Taurus, mars in Libra

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(¸.·´ (¸.·´ * Lost in the peace of serenity
Blind my eyes I cannot see
Lost my soul but found my heart
Again a time, when I shall start

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Mystic Gemini
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posted October 11, 2005 06:00 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Are we talking synastry or composite?


I have sun conjunct moon in the composite.

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Gemini sun, Cancer rising, mercury in Gemini, moon in Taurus *29, venus in Taurus, mars in Libra

*´¨)
¸.·´¸.·*´¨) ¸.·*¨)
(¸.·´ (¸.·´ * Lost in the peace of serenity
Blind my eyes I cannot see
Lost my soul but found my heart
Again a time, when I shall start

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WaterNymph
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posted October 11, 2005 06:08 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hard aspects to the Sun/Moon midpoint are very very very important!…………………..so they say

btw Hiya MM

*edited to add
Not everyone wants an engulfing, suffocating type of love - some may like it light and fluffy
So perhaps it depends on the person?

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DragonflyAries
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posted October 11, 2005 11:42 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
On just a choice between the two I'd actually pick Jupiter conjunct Venus to be the "stronger" aspect for a relationship. While Pluto conjunct Venus gives strong attraction and passion, it can also make for a bumpy ride romantically. Jupiter conjunct Venus on the other hand is one of those "feel good" aspects that just makes you feel so comfortable with the other person that the bad parts of the relationship don't seem so bad. You like each other enough that you're willing to face whatever comes. Pluto/Venus can sometimes be a love/hate kind of relationship where one second you want to make mad passionate love to them and the next you want to strangle them. LOL I've had relationships with each aspect, so I definitely prefer Jupiter/Venus.

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Lauren
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posted October 11, 2005 11:54 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Gemini Nymph
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posted October 12, 2005 01:06 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Iqhunk - unless there is balance elsewhere in synastry, Venus-Pluto conjs indicate a power imbalance, where the Pluto has more power over the Venus person. Think of the myth of Pluto, or Hades, lord of the underworld - it is as though Venus is Persphone and Pluto abducts her and takes her to the underworld to rule over her. Kind of scary if you think about it. So without balanced this becomes a very obsessive aspect that indicates the potential of abuse (inculding sexual) and severe control/obsession.

Pluto is a powerful planet but that power can be challenged in harmful ways. Be very mindful of Pluto aspect in synastry, epsecially with eiher Venus or the moon. If there are not aspect in stnatry to help balance out Pluto's power over the partner's more vulnerable plnaets, these could more likely be an indicator of big trouble rather than romantic bliss.

If there are other good synastry aspect to keep the Venus person being completely dominated, then this could be a very romantic aspect. But many people think - and partly due to some things Linda wrote - that Ven-Pluto is always good, when in fact, this aspect ought to come with a bright red warning label.

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Stargazer
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posted October 12, 2005 02:46 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Stargazer     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Gemini Nymph-

Pluto/Venus
Hades/Persphone
Abduction and or body snatched
Scary
Obsessive
Control
Big trouble
Dominated
Big Red Flags

Venus here... I could not agree more....

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Mystic Gemini
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posted October 12, 2005 02:51 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Sheesh I feel like a rapist now.


Hopefully our other aspects can help.

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Gemini sun, Cancer rising, mercury in Gemini, moon in Taurus *29, venus in Taurus, mars in Libra

*´¨)
¸.·´¸.·*´¨) ¸.·*¨)
(¸.·´ (¸.·´ * Lost in the peace of serenity
Blind my eyes I cannot see
Lost my soul but found my heart
Again a time, when I shall start

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Mystic Gemini
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posted October 12, 2005 02:53 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I once read that two people with that aspect have to be mature to deal with it.


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Gemini sun, Cancer rising, mercury in Gemini, moon in Taurus *29, venus in Taurus, mars in Libra

*´¨)
¸.·´¸.·*´¨) ¸.·*¨)
(¸.·´ (¸.·´ * Lost in the peace of serenity
Blind my eyes I cannot see
Lost my soul but found my heart
Again a time, when I shall start

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Stargazer
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posted October 12, 2005 03:38 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Stargazer     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I am posting the composite and synastry aspects with Mr. body snatcher... if one of you very knowledgeable knowflakes would let me know if there is enough good to overcome the bad or at least put me on an even playing field... i would appreciate it greatly.... I am 38 female.. he is 43
composite:
sun-libra 11
venus- libra 11
moon- aqua 10
merc-libra 11
mars- scorp 8
jupiter- Scorpio 8
saturn- pisces 10
uranus- virgo 10
neptune- scorpio -8
pluto virgo 8
MH Aqua 10

sun conj venus
moon square mars
moon square neptune
merc conj venus
mars conj neptune
jupiter trine Saturn
jupiter sextile uranus
jupiter conj neptune
jupiter sextile pl
neptune sextile pluto

synastry
his hers

sun mutually mars
sun conj mars
uranus conj sun
uranus conj merc
pluto conj venus
sun square jupiter
sun sextile pluto
moon trine moon
moon square uranus
merc. sextile sun
merc sectile merc
venus sextile sun
venus sextile merc
mars square sun
saturn square moon
ASC square mars
sun conj neptune
moon trine jupiter
moon square pluto
venus oppo moon
mars square merc
saturn sextile neptune
neptune sextile venus
merc. square ASC
venus square ASC
Mars sextile ASC
jupiter Conj ASC
Asc trine moon

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Mystic Gemini
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posted October 12, 2005 06:21 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Our Composite

Composite Horoscope midpoint method
PLANETARY POSITIONS
planet sign degree house
Sun Virgo 07°11'34 02
Moon Leo 27°35'34 01
Mercury Leo 17°47'08 01
Venus Leo 10°09'39 01
Mars Scorpio 02°28'02 04
Jupiter Sagittarius 15°35'54 05
Saturn Sagittarius 05°05'32 05
Uranus Libra 15°53'35 03
Neptune Sagittarius 03°25'46 05
Pluto Libra 02°00'34 02/3
Pluto is technically near the end of house 2 and is interpreted in house 3.
True Node Leo 03°18'24 01


HOUSE POSITIONS (Placidus)
Ascendant Leo 00°22'33
2nd House Virgo 01°42'34
3rd House Libra 02°24'23
Imum Coeli Scorpio 01°48'26
5th House Sagittarius 01°47'31
6th House Capricorn 01°32'03
Descendant Aquarius 00°22'33
8th House Pisces 01°42'34
9th House Aries 02°24'23
Medium Coeli Taurus 01°48'26
11th House Gemini 01°47'31
12th House Cancer 01°32'03

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Gemini sun, Cancer rising, mercury in Gemini, moon in Taurus *29, venus in Taurus, mars in Libra

*´¨)
¸.·´¸.·*´¨) ¸.·*¨)
(¸.·´ (¸.·´ * Lost in the peace of serenity
Blind my eyes I cannot see
Lost my soul but found my heart
Again a time, when I shall start

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MoonDuchess88
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posted October 12, 2005 07:57 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
i think it really depends on the two ppl. But while I love how beautiful the venus/pluto aspect can be, I think the venus/jupiter aspect is good too because of the forgiveness associated with it. I LOVE that.

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future_uncertain
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posted October 12, 2005 08:29 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for future_uncertain     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
In our syanstry charts we have a pluto/venus trine and a pluto/venus conjunction. I can't speak for jupiter. We do have a very transformative relationship, often marked by some serious intensity. I like it.

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Peri
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posted October 14, 2005 07:07 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Peri     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Venus-Pluto aspects indicate obssessive love (especially hard aspects and double whammies) ohh you're the love of my life! (hard aspects: I love you so much that I want to kill you! how dare you breath/speak/look at someone else without my prior concent?!)

Venus-Mars aspects indicate physical love, passion (hard aspects: I hate/love you so much! why dont you give me what I need the way I need it!)

Venus-Neptune aspects indicate spiritual love (hard aspects: you are a lier and a cheater but I still love you! I'll be your savior! or aww I will never get over such a disappointment!)

Venus-Chiron aspects indicate healing love (hard aspects: ahh this wound will never heal!)

Venus-Uranus aspects indicate love at first sight, (hard aspects: it can be so intense that partners are just not able to cope with their feelings/emotions)

Venus-Jupiter aspects indicate a lovers-friends type of relationship (hard aspects: you are not giving me as much love as I want you to!)

Venus-Moon aspects indicate a parent-child type of relationship (hard aspects: I like you but I dont love you or I love you but I don't like you)

Venus-Sun aspects give i-am-your-fan kind of love (negative aspects may mean that the sun person gets irritated by how the venus person demonstates his/her affection)

I think there are no 'strongest aspects in a love realtionship' it all depends on what you think love is!

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It all depends on how we look at things, and not how they are in themselves.
Carl G. Jung

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Neptune's Muse
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posted October 14, 2005 07:52 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Nice stuff Peri!

What about the moon, I read Venus is like the crust of your feelings, the surface, but the Moon is the core of it, so to speak. Moon Pluto aspects are very transformative so I heard! Moon Neptune also...dreamy.

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"The world has raised its whip, where will it descend?" -- Virginia Woolf

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Peri
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posted October 14, 2005 08:11 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Peri     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
You are right Neptune's Muse

There is a link to the thread on Moon and Venus, I think you will find it interesting.
http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum1/HTML/006015.html

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It all depends on how we look at things, and not how they are in themselves.
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