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Topic: Listen Up!
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peace
Knowflake Posts: 35
From: Las Vegas,NV
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted October 12, 2005 04:12 AM
  
Hi everyone,
I have a bone to pick with one of the members on this forum.That member is Gemini Nymph.She has personally attacked Sue G,in the Soul Union forum about her hubby on the Sweet and lovely Virgo.She personally attacked me twice in the Universal Codes forum(first attack),and in this forum under the Leo and Virgo topic.
I know that the 1st amendment is vital to all of us.However,attacking people on this forum is very wrong.Gemini you need to choose your words carefully! .IP: Logged |
Iqhunk
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posted October 12, 2005 07:30 AM
Peace Peace 
Surely all folk here are advanced level incarnate souls
Sometimes we write poorly but never mean what we write. And once you know you are an evolved soul, there can be no "personal" attack, just the odd communication gap.
Cmon, let it pass, this is an excellent and sweet forum. You should see some of the rabid, personal attacks in stock market forums, I mean even friends begin by personal insults and cuss words. Imagine the fights!
This place is heaven in comparision, trust me on that!
Cheers
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cancerrg
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posted October 12, 2005 07:51 AM
i think sue has alraedy answered her back in her best ballanced way . btw, why worry about opinions . i think sue knows that . dont worry peace. IP: Logged |
peace
Knowflake Posts: 35
From: Las Vegas,NV
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted October 12, 2005 08:40 AM
Have you read the Leo and Virgo topic?.She told me that I'm only thinking about myself,and my own personal desires.She must have not read it carefully,because I said in my original post my husband doesn't mind.My husband knows I'm attracted to his boss.However,I'm not stupid to have an affair with her.Understand,that if you read the topic I'm reaching out to people,because I'm wondering why a straight average looking person like me after living 27 on this planet became attracted to another woman.I don't get it.IP: Logged |
peace
Knowflake Posts: 35
From: Las Vegas,NV
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted October 12, 2005 08:45 AM
Remember it wasn't Sue G who said that I'm only thinking about myself and my personal desires,it was Gemini Nymph.IP: Logged |
Peri
Knowflake Posts: 1848
From: 49N35 34E34
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted October 12, 2005 08:50 AM
Well, I agree with Peace,  We all should be more attentive and tolerant to each other here, there is no need to be harsh when you disagree or think otherwise! We are here to learn and find answers not to fight and upset each other!   ------------------
It all depends on how we look at things, and not how they are in themselves.
Carl G. Jung IP: Logged |
proxieme
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posted October 12, 2005 09:00 AM
Honestly, I read the responses that you were talking about (just now...I was curious) and they don't see terribly offensive.
The do seem like Gemini Nymph wrote 'em, but to me that just means that they're bluntly what she sees in the situation. That's just the way she is, peace, that's just the way she thinks and expresses herself.I'm all about consideration (just ask those who actually know me - I flippin' preach about, if nothing else, maintaining a civil society), but I also try to realize that people are people - not some Platonian Ideal - and you've got to let people be themselves without the fuss. As long a person's not trying to be hurtful, I don't get chuffed about it. If nothing else, look at it this way: People aren't going to change just because someone wants them to, and getting upset about the in-good-faith-but-not-quite-what-was-expected efforts of someone comes on you, not them. Sometimes we've just got to get thicker skins (or at least learn how to jump and dodge) and move on. - prox, who's a Pisces Sun and can speak with some authority on getting a thicker skin IP: Logged |
Mystic Gemini
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posted October 12, 2005 09:15 AM
It's one thing to be blunt and one thing to be harsh.------------------
Gemini sun, Cancer rising, mercury in Gemini, moon in Taurus *29, venus in Taurus, mars in Libra *´¨)
¸.·´¸.·*´¨) ¸.·*¨)
(¸.·´ (¸.·´ * Lost in the peace of serenity
Blind my eyes I cannot see
Lost my soul but found my heart
Again a time, when I shall start IP: Logged |
Mystic Gemini
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posted October 12, 2005 09:23 AM
The problem with her is that she thinks that everything coming out of her mouth is a fact.
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Gemini sun, Cancer rising, mercury in Gemini, moon in Taurus *29, venus in Taurus, mars in Libra *´¨)
¸.·´¸.·*´¨) ¸.·*¨)
(¸.·´ (¸.·´ * Lost in the peace of serenity
Blind my eyes I cannot see
Lost my soul but found my heart
Again a time, when I shall start IP: Logged |
peace
Knowflake Posts: 35
From: Las Vegas,NV
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted October 12, 2005 09:29 AM
Amen,
To Mystic Gemini and Peri.You see,all of us are a big family(ohana)on this forum.Sometimes,harsh people forget that in each adult they have an inner child that says everything is going to be alright.IP: Logged |
Mama Mia
Knowflake Posts: 117
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posted October 12, 2005 10:00 AM
I guess too that GN can be a lil harsh, but I really do not think that she means total harm it is her way, but she can tone it down some. NOW if you want to see harm and DRAMA go back a few threads or shall I say a few pages and you will see and be able to tell the difference in speaking your mind and trying to hurt ppl. Tipically I do not want the New ppl to see this but in this case it is called for. Don't take her way personal..
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proxieme
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posted October 12, 2005 10:05 AM
peace - Would you be willing to e-mail me @ *removed* ?I'll take the addy down once you do (let me know that you have here); it's my mass e-mail folder, but I still'd rather not have it floating completely around. IP: Logged |
Loggerhead
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posted October 12, 2005 10:28 AM
Even though GM has always pointedly ignored my posts, including when I asked her a direct question -- perhaps she just didn't read the q, I'm not sure she goes back to a thread once she has opined - I feel I must defend her here. I read what she wrote in response to Sue G's post about her husband, and I didn't feel it was offensive at all. The fact that she admits that she herself used to listen to the kind of music he is proves, to me anyway, that she meant to harm and wasn't aiming at putting the hubby down. I think Sue overreacted a little out of her love and protectiveness to a soul that is very special to her. But I, as a bystander, looking at it objectively without being personally connected to either of these people, I didn't feel it was offensive what GM wrote.What she wrote to you, Peace, well... it was unnecessarily harsh, I'll say that, but I don't think out of maliciousness. I think Proxie got it right - that's the way she talks. I have read A LOT worse on this forum, and no one as much as blinked an eye. I guess it all depends where something originates.... If it's someone whose behind is constantly kissed, for whatever unfathomable reason, then everything out of her mouth is liquid gold, but it is some "commoner" who just speaks plainly and says it as it is, it's unforgivable crap. I think that's a double standard that's a little off-putting. I don't blame you, Peace, for being offended by what she wrote, btw. I am more responding to your (and Sue's) reaction to the Sweet Virgo thread. I have noticed before that GM has a thing about "stalker" mentality... Everybody has their own hangups and pet peeves that come across in the threads, and often the thing one gripes about is the very thing one has problems with oneself. IP: Logged |
peace
Knowflake Posts: 35
From: Las Vegas,NV
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted October 12, 2005 10:38 AM
Understand people,that I don't hate GN.Oddball is right,she needs to be diplomatic,because people especially sensitive people like myself can get easily hurt or be misunderstood. IP: Logged |
peace
Knowflake Posts: 35
From: Las Vegas,NV
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted October 12, 2005 10:53 AM
Prox,
I don't know you that well.Why do you want me to e-mail you?.Besides,what if your married?.And if you are married, what if your spouse finds out and gets jealous?.I know husband doesn't mind me chatting online.IP: Logged |
Mama Mia
Knowflake Posts: 117
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Registered: Feb 2010
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posted October 12, 2005 10:56 AM
Geeeeezzzz!!!! Prox is cool and I do not think she has a thing for women..IP: Logged |
proxieme
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posted October 12, 2005 10:57 AM
*edited due to futility*IP: Logged |
proxieme
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posted October 12, 2005 10:59 AM
So, please, lay off Gem Nymph.She is who she is, and that's not going to change.
I happen to like who she is.
If you don't, ignore her. IP: Logged |
Mama Mia
Knowflake Posts: 117
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Registered: Feb 2010
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posted October 12, 2005 11:05 AM
Uh Prox: did she think you were hitting on her or something??? You do not have to answer. OOooohhh I want to say something so bad but I won't.. IP: Logged |
peace
Knowflake Posts: 35
From: Las Vegas,NV
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted October 12, 2005 11:05 AM
Prox,
Thanks for clearing that up.As you know,married couples,not all mind do mind if their spouses chat online.I was concerned because according to what I've heard on the news,married people have secret affairs when online.I'm glad your spouse trusts you Prox.IP: Logged |
proxieme
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posted October 12, 2005 11:08 AM
*edited due to futility*IP: Logged |
peace
Knowflake Posts: 35
From: Las Vegas,NV
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted October 12, 2005 11:14 AM
I got your post right after I typed my response.Your a cool person Prox.IP: Logged |
peace
Knowflake Posts: 35
From: Las Vegas,NV
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted October 12, 2005 11:17 AM
Prox,
Why doesn't GN reach out to people about her situation?.She's not alone.IP: Logged |
peace
Knowflake Posts: 35
From: Las Vegas,NV
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted October 12, 2005 11:24 AM
Mama Mia,
Your so naughty.LOLIP: Logged |
proxieme
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posted October 12, 2005 11:25 AM
*edited due to futility*IP: Logged |
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