posted October 13, 2005 08:57 PM              

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Astrologically, each individual is represented by a chart of the planets at the moment of birth. By comparing and contrasting the interrelationships of two separate charts, the astrologer can reveal the many ways and many levels that two people relate with each other. This is the astrological art of synastry as it has been practiced for several thousand years.
This report analyzes each of the two selected charts and interprets the astrological connections between them. The text here pertains to this one relationship only, and should be understood in light of the actual nature of the relationship.

Remember that every relationship contains points of similarity and harmony as well as points of conflict and discord. Through understanding, it is possible to cultivate and encourage the positive and harmonious, and keep relationships growing and fruitful through the highs and lows of the passing years.

CONJUNCTIONS. In order for people to be together in a relationship, they must have the ability to be together, to share things, to have some common ground in dealing with their lives.

There are 7 conjunctions between your charts. You may feel that you have a very strong bond with your partner. This feeling of shared identity may create a kind of intimacy that is rarely found in other relationships. At the same time this level of resonance between you and your partner may become an obstacle for your personal development. Seeing your own reflection in the other person doesn't help you to step beyond your own limits. At worst this relationship may have a tendency to become a self-indulgent replication of each partner's personality. To avoid this possibility you should try to keep a certain distance between you, even though at times it may seem somewhat artificial.

OPPOSITIONS. Being together also means being apart. Each partner has something different to offer. An ability to add, to compliment each other is a basis for strong and consistent relationships. One can motivate another person by showing him what he is not.

There are 6 oppositions between your charts. You often find yourselves opposing each other. This is not a relaxing relationship. You may find yourselves drawn to each other as if some irresistible urge brought you together and won't let you apart. There is a constant awareness of the differences between you. An ability to compromise and find reasonable win-win solutions to your mutual problems is essential for keeping your relationship alive.

TRINES. No relationship can last unless it brings comfort and satisfaction to both parties. A certain amount of effortless quality is required for anything to happen.

There are 8 trines between your charts. You are lucky to enjoy natural self-expression as a couple. There is very little effort on either person's part. Relaxed energy is typical for your relationship as well as a level of ease with which you meet each other and interact.

SQUARES. Any long lasting relationship has to be flexible enough to accommodate changing circumstances. Even the sweetest relationship will eventually become stale without timely changes and adjustments. Changes are needed. To keep your partnership fresh and exciting you have to constantly make it into something new.

There are 6 squares between your charts. Your relationship presents a perfect opportunity for mutual development. You appreciate the exciting qualities in your partner and accept the challenge to meet his or her expectations, as well as providing a challenge to be met.

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Gemini sun, Cancer rising, mercury in Gemini, moon in Taurus *29, venus in Taurus, mars in Libra

posted October 14, 2005 08:18 AM              

I checked it with a few people..

Person A - 9 conjunctions, 4 oppositions, 5 trines, 6 squares

Person B - 13 conjunctions, 2 oppositions, 8 trines, 5 squares

Person C - 10 conjunctions, 5 oppositions, 8 trines, 7 squares

Person D - 6 conjunctions, 2 oppositions, 13 trines, 3 squares

Person E - 12 conjunctions, 2 oppositions, 10 trines, 7 squares

Anyone wanna guess..

which one of these is my bf?
which one is my best friend?
which one is a person I canNOT get along with?
which one is a person I was extremely attracted to? and..
which one was just a -pretty good- friend?

posted October 14, 2005 04:05 PM              

ex husband (tyrannical taurus):

11 conjunctions, 5 oppositions, 1 trine, 11 squares.

11 squares: "Your relationship may involve a feeling of being constantly challenged and never able to be satisfied or satisfy. this is uncomfortable, especially if you do not accept those changes as a natural part of your life."

This description hit it on the nose more than anything I read. For 22 years I never got past the feeling of not being able to satisfy him - ever, and that he really wasn't interesting in satisfying me at all. Our relationship was a constant struggle.

current bf (luscious lovable leo):

14 conjunctions, 1 opposition, 2 trines, 6 squares.

This relationship feels like home for me, and he feels the same way. Everything is ridiculously easy and we are always bringing new ideas to each other, communication is open and there's a lot of it. We spoil each other and challenge each other and I never thought I'd be so happy with someone. I'm very happy on my own, but have hit some potholes (ha - grand canyon) in the relationship road.

Thanks, MG!

posted October 14, 2005 08:02 PM              

Did this with my Hubs and we got:
7 conjunctions
1 opposition
13 trines
5 squares

Not bad.

posted October 14, 2005 08:07 PM              

Person 1 - 15 conjunctions, 3 oppositions, 9 trines and 5 squares.

Person 2 - 15 conjunctions, 2 oppositions, 12 trines and 6 squares.

Person 3 - 12 conjunctions, 2 oppositions, 3 trines, 8 squares.

Person 4 - 12 conjunctions, 3 oppositions, 9 trines and 6 squares.

Person 5 - 14 conjunctions, 5 oppositions, 5 trines and 5 squares.

posted October 14, 2005 08:13 PM              

me and sag friend-13 conjunctions-5 oppositions-6 trines- 8 squares

and last but not least, me and scorp-6 conjunctions- 6 oppositions-9 trines-10 squares

posted October 14, 2005 08:38 PM            

Best Friend B: 5 conjunctions, 6 oppositions, 12 trines, 2 squares

posted October 14, 2005 08:56 PM              

There are 5 conjunctions between your charts. You have just a right amount of similarity with each other without becoming an exact reflection of the other or being too far apart. It's that kind of comfortable arrangement in which you can share your work space with your partner and at the same time not to be in his or her way.

There are 4 oppositions between your charts. The two of you will come to see each other as complementary members of a system that goes further than either of you could alone. An occasional tension that may arise between you two is likely to be perceived as a form of healthy competition that benefits both sides.

There are 5 trines between your charts.
It's not everyone that can have the side-effect of making us feel a little saintlike. This does happen when the two of you get together. He manages to find qualities in you like self-sacrifice and forgiveness that you may have overlooked in yourself. In his "light" your better qualities get exposed. He appreciates your more dreamy and psychological side too. There is a lot of silent rapport there.

There are 5 squares between your charts. Your relationship presents a perfect opportunity for mutual development. You appreciate the exciting qualities in your partner and accept the challenge to meet his or her expectations, as well as providing a challenge to be met.

With SPOUSE:

7 conjunctions between your charts. You may feel that you have a very strong bond with your partner. This feeling of shared identity may create a kind of intimacy that is rarely found in other relationships. At the same time this level of resonance between you and your partner may become an obstacle for your personal development. Seeing your own reflection in the other person doesn't help you to step beyond your own limits. At worst this relationship may have a tendency to become a self-indulgent replication of each partner's personality. To avoid this possibility you should try to keep a certain distance between you, even though at times it may seem somewhat artificial.

There is 1 oppositions between your charts.

There are 7 trines between your charts. You are lucky to enjoy natural self-expression as a couple. There is very little effort on either person's part. Relaxed energy is typical for your relationship as well as a level of ease with which you meet each other and interact.

There are 8 squares between your charts. Your relationship may involve a feeling of being constantly challenged and never able to be satisfied or to satisfy. This is uncomfortable, especially if you do not accept those changes as a natural part of your life.

posted October 14, 2005 10:50 PM              

There are 7 conjunctions between your charts -
You may feel that you have a very strong bond with your partner. This feeling of shared identity may create a kind of intimacy that is rarely found in other relationships. At the same time this level of resonance between you and your partner may become an obstacle for your personal development. Seeing your own reflection in the other person doesn't help you to step beyond your own limits. At worst this relationship may have a tendency to become a self-indulgent replication of each partner's personality. To avoid this possibility you should try to keep a certain distance between you, even though at times it may seem somewhat artificial.

There are 4 oppositions between your charts -
The two of you will come to see each other as complementary members of a system that goes further than either of you could alone. An occasional tension that may arise between you two is likely to be perceived as a form of healthy competition that benefits both sides.

There are 7 trines between your charts -
You are lucky to enjoy natural self-expression as a couple. There is very little effort on either person's part. Relaxed energy is typical for your relationship as well as a level of ease with which you meet each other and interact.

posted October 15, 2005 07:24 AM              

For me and my girlfriend:

10 Conjunctions
7 Trines
1 Square
3 Oppostions

posted October 15, 2005 07:38 AM              

For Lauren:
Boyfriend B
Best Friend D
Cannot get along with A
Most attracted to C
Pretty Good Friend E

posted October 15, 2005 12:32 PM              

lol You both guessed my extreme attraction guy, to be my bf lol. It's actually very hard to guess. I DO get your logic..I think. You both picked my best friend to be the one with the most trines (13) and nope..strangely enough that's the person I can't get along with. He's a Leo/Scorp/Lib I'm Aries/Cap/Gem. I can't believe we don't get along with THIRTEEN trines lols, but we don't.

These are the actual answers:

A - My bf.. I know! who would've thought? But we're very very close..so I guess lots of aspects isn't everything right? lol

B - Extreme attraction guy. Lots of conjunctions there. I guess that means that really, I love *myself* lol

C - pretty good friend..you both said this was the person I was attracted to, which is funny because he was attracted, but no attraction from my side

D - Mr Leo, who I can't get along with. He does mean things. Then he apologizes *occasionally* so we get along fine for about a day..but then he goes and does something mean again. Very critical, judgmental person.

E - My best friend Nicest Pisces girl in the whole wide world lol

One thing I noticed though..My best friend and the guy I was very attracted to, have very similar charts. So technically I was attracted to the male version of my best friend lol how weird

She is Pisces/Taurus moon/Pisces Merc/Aries venus/Aries Mars

He is Pisces/Pisces moon/Aries Merc/Aries Venus/Taurus Mars

Same signs in different places..

posted October 15, 2005 12:55 PM              

And the rationale for a 13 trine guy to be mean to you? Well, since the 13 trines make so many personality aspects appealing and easy to each other, it is possible that there is difficulty for him to be objective or irse above the oppositions? IS that why he is judgemental?
WHat if D's thought process is
"Lauren is so cool in so much of this or that [where there is a trine] so how the hell is she so bad in [the opposition]?"
Maybe there is a lesson for us here.

posted October 15, 2005 01:15 PM              

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And the rationale for a 13 trine guy to be mean to you? Well, since the 13 trines make so many personality aspects appealing and easy to each other, it is possible that there is difficulty for him to be objective or irse above the oppositions? IS that why he is judgemental?

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It is kinda like that. He tends to be a bit bully-like with people in general. But with me especially, it's like he's trying very hard to mold me into his idea of the perfect girl..so he picks the smallest things (that noone else would even notice or care about) and criticizes and criticizes anddd criticizes lol. Criticizes my driving, criticizes my grades, criticizes my attitude towards studying etc..Says I'm not responsible enough. Basically he acts like he's my dad lol. I think my mutable/cardinal chart really gets to his fixed nature.

These are the oppositions I have with him:

posted October 15, 2005 03:16 PM            

quote:

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And Nove, are you closest to A?

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posted October 17, 2005 07:57 PM            

CONJUNCTIONS: There are 9 conjunctions between your charts. You may feel that you have a very strong bond with your partner. This feeling of shared identity may create a kind of intimacy that is rarely found in other relationships. At the same time this level of resonance between you and your partner may become an obstacle for your personal development. Seeing your own reflection in the other person doesn't help you to step beyond your own limits. At worst this relationship may have a tendency to become a self-indulgent replication of each partner's personality. To avoid this possibility you should try to keep a certain distance between you, even though at times it may seem somewhat artificial.

OPPOSITIONS: There are 2 oppositions between your charts. It's not everyone that can have the side-effect of making us feel a little saintlike. This does happen when the two of you get together. J manages to find qualities in you like self-sacrifice and forgiveness that you may have overlooked in yourself. In J's "light" your better qualities get exposed. J appreciates your more dreamy and psychological side too. There is a lot of silent rapport there.

TRINES: There are 6 trines between your charts. You are lucky to enjoy natural self-expression as a couple. There is very little effort on either person's part. Relaxed energy is typical for your relationship as well as a level of ease with which you meet each other and interact.

SQUARES: There are 6 squares between your charts. Your relationship presents a perfect opportunity for mutual development. You appreciate the exciting qualities in your partner and accept the challenge to meet his or her expectations, as well as providing a challenge to be met.

This analysis was shockingly accurate. I've never had an easier relationship than the one I share with my Cancer guy. The first time I laid my head on his shoulder I felt like I'd come home. It's ridiculously easy to be with him. We're so very relaxed in each other’s company - it's wonderful. I checked the overview for my last few relationships as well and they were also accurate and not nearly as positive.

My 7 year Virgo relationship: 5 conjunctions, 5 oppositions, 10 Trines, and 10 Squares. This relationship was incredibly powerful. It felt like a soul mate relationship from the beginning. However the relationship was NEVER easy by a long stretch. It was constant struggle – highs and lows abounded. I grew and learned a lot through it, good lord…