posted October 15, 2005 11:47 PM              

should i be alarmed?

Sun Pisces 18.26 Ascendant Cancer 27.03
Moon Aquarius 28.16 II Leo 18.49
Mercury Aries 5.55 III Virgo 14.21
Venus Pisces 12.51 IV Libra 15.25
Mars Capricorn 21.29 V Scorpio 20.51
Jupiter Libra 17.02 R VI Sagittarius 25.54
Saturn Cancer 20.33 R VII Capricorn 27.03
Uranus Pisces 7.26 VIII Aquarius 18.49
Neptune Aquarius 16.18 IX Pisces 14.21
Pluto Sagittarius 24.26 X Aries 15.25
Lilith Cancer 24.17 XI Taurus 20.51
Asc node Aries 23.19 XII Gemini 25.54

Sun in IX
Moon in VIII
Mercury in IX
Venus in VIII
Mars in VI
Jupiter in IV
Saturn in XII
Uranus in VIII
Neptune in VII
Pluto in V
Lilith in XII
Asc node in Midheaven

posted October 16, 2005 12:17 AM              

That this is in the eighth house sex/death/secrets gives it an interesting twist. I hope you are not one of those mothers who brings an abuser into the home so he can sexually attack the children.

You two are destined to have an interesting relationship.

Hope is not lost!

Please do what you can to bring out the "positive" Aqua moon. Be the eccentric/unconvintional/political-cause mother, and not the cold, distant mother.

As for Venus in the 8th and Uranus in the 8th ..AND a stellium with Saturn, Lilith, and her ASC tightly opposing her Mars in the 6th

Geez. Please keep an eye out for molesters/rapists. I'm very serious.

Those are things I look for in a clients chart to see if they were sexually abused.

With the Aqua moon in the 8th it looks certain she would keep this a deep-dark-secret from you, never tell you.

In fact, this could be the root-cause distance and distrust in the relationship. Thus the Aqua moon.

Keep communications open. Tell her it's okay to say "no" to adults who want to touch her. She does not have to be polite.

Don't make her hug or kiss relatives if she doesn't want to, as this might send a mixed message. Let her know it's her body, and she does not have to share physical affection against her will.

Make sure she tells you if her boundaries are crossed, even if the person has made threats.

Make sure all adults around her know you have given her these talks and warnings, so they will move on to easier prey.

posted October 16, 2005 12:40 PM              

This is just my personal opinion:

I think that you should be careful about reading "cookbook" astrology websites and/or books, and then worrying yourself about certain aspects in your or family member's charts. Bcuz that is not how it works. You hv to integrate all aspects of the entire chart into a synthesized interpretation of your daughter's character. This would be impossible to do by analyzing one or two aspects.

Please take this into consideration:

Your daughter's Moon is not negatively aspected. Nor is her Venus, nor is her Uranus. In other words, there are no squares or opppositions to any of these 3 these three plantes. Her Moon at 28.16* Aquarius does make a wiiiiiiide conj w/ her Uranus at 7.26* Pisces, but again, neither her Moon nor her Uranus are negatively aspected, and this will only give her more of an Aquarian nature emotionally.

Venus is her 4th house ruler, house of the Mother, and of underlying psychological issues. With that friction-free Venus she must love being at home with the family! PLUS Jupiter sits right on the IC!! How lucky! But do keep in mind, her IC is not trouble-free. It squares Saturn, and it sqares Mars.

And her Asc does not make a "tight" opposition to her Mars in 6th. "Tight" aspects are 1-3, or maybe even up to 4* degree orbs. However, there is room for concern in refernce to sexual matters, being that her Asc which is ruled by her Moon in 8th, opposes Mars, which co-rules her 5th house. And honestly, I would be more concerned about that Saturn-12th house placement. Saturn in the 12th is not an easy placement, especially if there is friction. But it can lead to great things as well, depending on how its lessons are integrated. That T-Square btw Mars-Jupiter and Saturn should be closely looked at.

With all of those 8th house placements your daughter willl most likely be ultra-sensitive. I say this bcuz Sun in Pisces and Cancer Asc already lends to sensitivity, and Moon in the 8th can make one psychic and/or empathic. She will pick up easily on the emotions & motives of others, maybe even absorbing their energy like a sponge. There is much, much more to be sd about this wonderful chart.

Please, PLEASE take my advice: Schedule yourself an appointment with a seasoned Astrologer. I would not at all suggest that you try to interpret her chart yourself, you are much too emotionally involved to be completely objective. And my advice again, do concentrate on that Saturn! It squares the MC-IC axis, the NN, and it makes that T-Square. All while sitting in the 12th. SCHDULE THAT APPMT!! Good luck in your endeavors!

posted October 16, 2005 05:20 PM              

Maybe part of that (if you're thinking about how you're playing into her chart) is that she sees you pretty much as you are...?

How does her Moon and its aspects relate to your natal chart?

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Oh! I forgot to say:
With a Pisces Sun, Aqua Moon, and Watery Asc, she's bound to be a wonderful, beautiful human being - no worries there

posted October 16, 2005 07:15 PM            

She's fine. *shrug* She's an Aries though, not a Pisces. All things aside, I have to say she is one of the most beautiful girls I've ever met. Haha

Her parents are together, and she's very close to her mother and older sister.

posted October 16, 2005 09:27 PM              

Er, something like she's either prone to hiding those energies or (if not) she's wildly, electrically psychic and/or intuitive.

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OH! And as an Aqua with a Taurus Moon and a Watery Asc you must be a beautiful person as well.

~ a once again completely unbiased prox, married to an Aqua Sun/Taurus Moon/Scorp Asc dude

posted October 16, 2005 09:59 PM              

Just thought I'd note re: my Aqua Moon:

posted October 16, 2005 10:48 PM              

quote:

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PS - A completely left-field question:
Looking at "where you were" at the time that you had each of your respective children, would you say that you can see your mental/emotional state displayed in their (once again, respective) Moon Signs/placements/aspects?

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as a matter of fact i have...my eldest is a Gem/Pisces moon/Cap Asc, then Roxy my middle daughter is a Sag Sun/Scorpio Moon/Aqua Asc and well you know my youngest..

what's odd is that we have significant Venus/Jupiter/Neptune Aspects to our Asc. and my daughters have a pattern with Uranus showing up prominently

Me
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1st house Venus, Jupiter and ASC stellium
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Eva (1st born)
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1st house Uranus, Neptune and ASC stellium
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Rox (2nd born)
Jupiter(1st), Uranus (12th), Asc stellium

posted October 16, 2005 10:56 PM              

Unless you'd like to post pictures of the charts - those are endlessly fascinating (and infinitely more understandable).

A good place to ask questions about *very specific aspects* is Node-o-Rama.com , but only if you're slightly brave.
DO NOT ask about a whole-chart question or for an interpretation. If you do so, that thread will be locked and you'll receive a warning. If you do so repeatedly, your head will be posted at the front gate as a warning to all others.

posted October 17, 2005 03:27 PM              

I have a good relationship with my Mother and was never Sexually Abused. So I'm not sure if there is a correlation?

I am Ultra Sensitive very Empathetic and very aware of everything around me, I absorb everyone's Pain!

But I have a Grand Earth Trine with 0 Virgo Venus,1 Capricorn Mars and 8 Taurus Saturn. My that saves me a bit?