posted October 17, 2005 09:15 AM            

http://www.elysian.co.uk/ascendant.htm

posted October 17, 2005 11:25 AM              

You have Gem Descendent just lik me.
I kind of feel that pull when I see Gem guys.Since you are libra you would get along with Gem better.

Why don't you see the thread which is going on about "How many trines, conjuctions and opposites you have? " you might get to know more.

Anyways let us kow how are they both in person maybe we can help.

posted October 17, 2005 05:43 PM              

I have the sag rising too and can understand boring or timid. Give it time. I did not feel attracted to the Aquarius I am dating right away and it is reasonably good right now. It takes some thinking.

Geminis are pretty exciting stuff so he's probably hiding it away for later. I put my bet on sticking with one, and letting him develop for a while, say two weeks, or two weekends, and if doesn't seem to pick up, let that one go as a possibility and date the other one.

As long as you are perceptive and investigating one as mr. right you will find out the truth very quickly, then your heart has to come around on it's own. I find I can work too hard to stick with one if there are no other options, so maybe you are comparing too much?

See one as he is, not in comparison to the other. Geminis are never good enough compared to libra risings because libra is a competitive sign and once he finds out about the other he will compete and try and win you.

I was in a position like this and the libra rising went for me, knocked the gemini out of competition, and then said no on a relationship.
Better to be the one to make the decision based on your desire for long term, or longer term, all men say they want a relationship but some are...well..not right now..!

Good luck, I know it seems like a game, but make sure your fears are addressed first. (you are not timid so be honest with yourself) Once a man seems as if he's put your hopes for long term on the back burner it's time to let go and think of him as a friend. You can always come back later but your intuition is always correct. Then even if the other doesn't work out at least you can deal with him later.

I know, its' like a catch and release program. It's okay to catch the fish, but you can't take them home. Once you find a big enough fish, that you can take home, then that's the one.

In relationships your intuition is your best friend.