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sandra_b_5
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posted October 17, 2005 05:51 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I was wondering how from your experience men with a strong aquarius influence (in this particular case he has sun, venus and mars in aquarius/ his moon is either in late pisces or early aries) might act when they are attracted to a woman. Ive read communication, friendship etc. are all big themes for them.

What about acting aloof and ignoring the woman in question? Or is this likely to indicate just the opposite i.e. that the woman is of no interest to them.

The reason Im asking – Im incredibly attracted (physically+emotionally) to an aqua man at work. When I first started at this job a couple of months ago, he used to stare at me with incredible intensity, but even back then he never made an effort to come and talk to me. Something which seems to be his second nature with everyone else!

Initally I was friendly (Im a Capricorn with a strong Jupiter + venus influence in my chart) and chatty. With time Ive become so uneasy around him that now I also act aloof. Ive actually started wondering whether he cant stand me.

Any experience with triple aquas and how they might show interest?

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Mama Mia
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posted October 17, 2005 05:54 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Mama Mia     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Keep acting or being aloof he likes that its backwards I know but they are backwards type. Wheeewww he is a piece of work I know. Gotta go running but I know that someone will come along and let you know all that we know and some. There has been so many threads on these Aqua men. Go to the search and put in anything about Aquarius men and see what comes up. Good Luck!

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WaterNymph
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posted October 17, 2005 06:10 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
My ex Cappy had three signs in Aquarians - his Moon, Venus and Mars.
The guy was completely outta his mind ( in a safe, sane way ) which I loved.

“Keep acting or being aloof he likes that its backwards” so true - and I’m slooooooooooow - so it took me some time to get that. Maybe the reason he was interested in the first place, was due to my lack of consideration - I sometimes ignored him when he was right there.
I didn’t do it on purpose, or to hurt him…I just thought - well if he has nothing to say, why bother him. Plus I was so absorbed with my own world…I forgot he existed - I’m a diva baby.

Hmmm…no wonder it ended *sigh* lol. He never demanded attention - just expected it :/
MM’s advice is great…maybe just don’t go OTT like me but then mine was a Cap

*edited
God! My post looks like it was written by a drunk mad man lol oh my…today is one of those days.

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sandra_b_5
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posted October 17, 2005 06:41 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I did browse some of the postings on aqua-men, but I got the impression that most information was on relationship headaches with aquas.(AFTER 'a frienship' has already been established - so problems with them withdrawing, acting unemotional, plain weird etc.)

My little headache is figuring out how they act BEFORE 'a friendship' is even established w somebody they find attractive.
In that respect all I ever read is, aquas will be chatty, want to be your friend.

So while I might be well advised to act aloof at any stage, I'm wondering whether him acting aloof now isnt a sign of 0 attraction? (A cappy acting like this in the early stages is a sure sign of interest.)

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posted October 17, 2005 06:44 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for whiterabbit     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
As Mama Mia already mentioned, every once in a while there is a big rush of messages with titles like "WHY ARE AQUA MEN SO UNEMOTIONAL!??!" or "HELP WITH FICKLE AQUA", etc.
Here's a link to one from this August, entitled "Understanding AQUA Men: Add your_______": http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum1/HTML/006278.html

Have fun. Oh, and erm.. good luck!
Having the moon in a sign other than Aquarius- especially if it's in any element other than air usually makes them have less of those characteristics that drive women mad around here.

As I've probably already written somewhere, my first love was an Aquarius Sun/Moon/Mercury/Venus but I didn't have too much of this typical trouble. I do have A Sun/Venus/Mercury/Jupiter stellium in Aqua, so that makes it easier for me. I would definitely have to say that the only women who don't complain too much about these men have a lot of Aquarius in their own charts- especially if it's Sun and Venus.
In any case, I hope things clear up. The ladies above me have given some great advice and you should check out the thread I linked.

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posted October 17, 2005 08:57 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Rede411     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Sandra - I'm in the same boat you are... I'm dealing with a Sun & Venus Aquarius but I have an Aquarius moon so we seem to play the same games back and forth. That link is absolutely fantastic, so please check it out!! I think Aquarians have tendency to do the opposite of what they feel, just to distract you from knowing what's going on inside them....guilty of this myself sometimes..it's a defense mechanism. Hope this helps!!

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posted October 18, 2005 09:58 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Mama Mia     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Yes I have my moon,venus,mercury and Asc in Aqua and it was hard for me to figure out this one Aqua guy that I was so crazy about who I knew liked me but was sending mixed signals. Well here it is a year or so later and I know all that I need to know we are over but he still has the hots for me and since I have learned I play his game better then he does. IT is not just a game but now I really could care less and it bothers him so much.

But b4 all that we had a great friendship they are by far the best at being friends.
This guy likes you that is why he acts like a robot. They study you too so be aware of that. When they like you and is feeling emotional they tend to be very quiet. Put it like this it is when they like you that they have the hardest time and act liket they don't. If he did not like you it would be easier for him to approach you. (no emotions) Let me know if you need to know anything else.

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posted October 18, 2005 01:09 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Rede411     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Mamma Mia,

Isn't it true that Aquarius moons are rather unemotional anyway?? I think maybe they do have emotions....but they're too busy over-anylizing them to even acknowlege them! Maybe that's why they do the opposite of what they feel because they don't trust/understand the feelings. Having an Aquarius moon myself, that's the best thing I can come up with.

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posted October 18, 2005 02:01 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Mama Mia     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Yes that is true Rede411 I can seem unemotional sometimes but really I am flooded with emotion. And yes we do tend to over analyze everything. But I am a Pisces the real deal always comes out with me..

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sandra_b_5
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posted October 18, 2005 08:52 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Many thanks to all of you. Did read the recommended link and Mama Mia, I was actually looking forward to coming home tonight to go online and bug you with more questions…

The irony is that just as I was trying to get answers through astrology, I got them in real life. I was trying to figure out whether he is attracted to me or might dislike me. After tonigth I now know it’s neither – I am just a non entity to him (don’t know whether this is what you call it in English, somebody who is invisible to you, of know significance.)

As I mentioned earlier this man is a collegue of mine and we both work in a government body where you frequently give receptions. He was the organizer of one such reception tonight which I attended together with another collegue of mine.

As we walked in he came up to us, greeted my collegue and immediately introduced him to his co-organizer from another government body. Not one look in my direction. The four of us were standing together in one circle. Him talking to the woman and my collegue without ever acknowledging me, never bothering to introduce me to this woman despite me standing right there with them. As he was talking to them he kept moving, so that he eventually stood right in front of me, showing me his back. He had gradually pushed me out of their circle! It probably sounds like Im overreacting , but the work I#m in is all about social etiquette, youd never ever do this sort of thing with somebody you respect.Never!
Even my best friend who is a female aqua and who of course got the full account (poor thing) did admit that there is really no room left for a positive explanation.

What does really shock me is how one person can be so incredibly attracted to the other person - who doesn’t even see you. Must be the fact that his sun and venus are both in my 8th house (although I had always hoped that this might be felt by both the house and planet person), my venus (conjunct his sun and in my 7th house) and my moon (chart ruler) are both heavily aspected by his planets. Also, his Uranus and his Pluto are conjunct my moon.
So sorry for rambling, will stop now.


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Mama Mia
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posted October 19, 2005 09:56 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Mama Mia     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Sandra he sounds like a effing jerk..However it is a smoke in the mirror type thing. He knows that you are attracted to him and trust me he is attracted to you too. Oh how they play games. Don't let it bother you. He may be married also do you know it that is true or not. IGNORE him totally all the time and watch what happens. Also he can sense how you feel about him especially if it is deep..

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posted October 19, 2005 12:43 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Rede411     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I second what Mama Mia said ...he does sound like an effing jerk...BUT Aquaruis is not normally rude/unkind unless he's hiding his emotions or really likes you. In any case, rude is rude especially in the Business forum. Ignore him outright, and if he initiates a conversation I would first ignore him and then say "Oh, were you talking to me?" but that's just me....

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posted October 19, 2005 12:43 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Rede411     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I second what Mama Mia said ...he does sound like an effing jerk...BUT Aquaruis is not normally rude/unkind unless he's hiding his emotions or really likes you. In any case, rude is rude especially in the Business forum. Ignore him outright, and if he initiates a conversation I would first ignore him and then say "Oh, were you talking to me?" but that's just me....

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sandra_b_5
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posted October 19, 2005 07:12 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
He’s generally a typical aqua, friendly and interested in everyone. Generally polite, even with me.

Later that same evening he came up to me to quickly tell me he was leaving to have (business) dinner w. someone and what to do to wrap up the reception. So his rudness earlier, wasn’t a conscious act, but just a sign I’m not on his agenda of ‘important people’ and plain invisible to him.Why would I be invisible? 2 possible explanations 1) he doesn’t respect me professionally. 2) Looks wise I’m not his type .

1) might be the case if he completely misinterpreted certain situations 2) is definitely the case. As he was manoeuvring me out of the circle, he was hyperactive and flirting with this co-organizer who happens to be a voluptuous blonde (sexy, loud, super confident). If she was perfect she’d be a young Kathleen Turner with curves. I’m the sophisticated, aloof, mysterious type.(I’m always told). If I was perfect and a goddess I’d be Catherine Deneuve.Unfortunately, not exactly the same vibe, is it? I have no reason to doubt there’s absolutely no attraction from his side...even if he used to stare.... Probably aqua curiosity.

Mama Mia, why do you think he might sense how strongly I’m attracted to him? Are Aquas known for their intuition, or do you blame that on the 8th house connection?

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Mama Mia
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posted October 20, 2005 09:49 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Mama Mia     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
EXACTLY Aqua's are known for their deep,deep intuition they can know your deepest desires sometimes b4 you do. They are very mystical guys. And the killing part is when you have deep,deep intuition too like I do 2 ppl like that together is amazing. When I was dating the Aqua guy that I mentioned above we use to read each other all the time. I loved that a relationship with no words having to be said. I am into mystical stuff like that. I miss that too have not had anything like it since..

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sandra_b_5
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posted October 20, 2005 05:31 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
you still seem to really like this guy, maybe worth reconsidering...not an everyday connection.

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Mama Mia
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posted October 20, 2005 05:48 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Mama Mia     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Yeah but he is immature and not ready to recieve me yet, he has some more life lesson first. I am ok with it all. That relationship is one that will all stand out though..

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