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Hecate unregistered
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posted October 18, 2005 01:19 AM
Hello, long time no see everyone.I'm developing a slight crush on one very adorable guy friend that I have. We've known each other for some years now, but have recently been getting closer. He's lots of fun, not the most handsome but his personality is beautiful. Very charmismatic. I really enjoy our conversations, and just when he was beginning to open up to me-he suddenly clammed shut. He recently asked me if my ex boyfriend is still in the picture, which he isn't. After, that incident he's still friendly but very aloof. I have no idea why? My ex and he used to work together, but they were never friends or anything of that sort. Argh, I just don't know how to go about this. I like him, but now I'm wondering if I just imagined attraction on his part. I'd really be thankful for any astro. insight on his chart. Thanks y'all. R Sun Capricorn 21°23'50 08 direct Moon Leo 20°07'26 03 direct Mercury Aquarius 09°18'15 09 direct Venus Aquarius 06°20'21 09 retrograde Mars Libra 11°14'22 05 direct Jupiter Scorpio 07°32'31 05 direct Saturn Libra 21°55'07 05 direct Uranus Sagittarius 03°13'49 06 direct Neptune Sagittarius 25°32'29 07 direct Pluto Libra 26°50'22 05 direct True Node Cancer 22°26'21 02 direct House positions (Placidus) Ascendant Gemini 21°58'03 2nd House Cancer 13°35'07 3rd House Leo 05°11'41 Imum Coeli Virgo 00°31'36 5th House Libra 03°10'00 6th House Scorpio 13°10'28 Descendant Sagittarius 21°58'03 8th House Capricorn 13°35'07 9th House Aquarius 05°11'41 Medium Coeli Pisces 00°31'36 11th House Aries 03°10'00 12th House Taurus 13°10'28
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astro junkie unregistered
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posted October 20, 2005 12:41 PM
Hey Hecate -This person may be eccentric. Difficult to understand. Sometimes it is worth ones time to figure it out, but really, only if the other person is interested in the same way. What do you think? ------------------ ... it's better to light a candle than curse the darkness IP: Logged |
whiterabbit Newflake Posts: 0 From: Registered: Sep 2009
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posted October 20, 2005 01:22 PM
Hey Hecate, it's often easier to flirt and be friendly when we know the person is attached, or not interested in your gender. I recently met a guy that I was certain was gay. But I was also very attracted to him. So- I flirted a LOT and told him things I would never tell a straight guy that I am interested in.. and then I found out that he's NOT gay and I got all uncomfortable and started avoiding him. Why? Because I felt foolish- embarassed.. it's silly, but that's how it goes sometimes. When there's potential for a match, most of us act quite differently than we do in other circumstances. Maybe the aloof thing is what he pulls when he's trying to get you and he's only friendly and chatty when he thinks it's platonic. Coming from another Leo moon w/ Aqua Venus and Mercury- I do that all the time. Yes, I know.. 6th grade.. but what can I say it's the Leo pride and Aqua backwardness.. IP: Logged |
Hecate unregistered
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posted October 20, 2005 01:31 PM
Hi, thanks for your replies. AJ, yes he's very eccentric and funny. The other day, he burst into a fit of tap dancing amidst a crowded store and broke out singing. The shock on some of those expressions was classic He's lots of fun to be around, and has an unusal group of friends who are all a little out there. He has a more serious side, and I'd love to discover its depths. The catch is, I'm not sure how interested or not he is in me. One day he's attentive the next he just waves from across the room. Time will tell. WR, so do you think its the Aqua influence? I know what you mean about the flirting, I've doen that myself a few times. Flirt and gush at some seemingly unattainable object of desire, and then ran when they seriously responded. IP: Logged | |