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pisceangirl90
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posted October 19, 2005 06:42 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
i loved this virgo guy for four years before we started going out. we got really close and then suddenly he just broke up with me. when i asked him the reason he said that someone in his school found out about us and it spoiled his reputation. thus, he broke up wid me because the school i attend is considered very 'lame' in his school. he is now going out with a popular girl in his school because it helped him get his reputation back. He says he does not like me but i know he does but he still wants to go out with that 'popular' girl even though he doesnot like her. How can he be so insensitive? or was there something wrong with me? i just cant get over him...i cry all the time. our relationship was just perfect....but at the same time i have lost respect for him because he cant stand up for what he wants..i thought virgos were very understanding people...how did he become so artificial?

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Iqhunk
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posted October 19, 2005 06:59 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
He may have some hard aspects related to Capricorn or Leo in his chart. Just plain Sun Sign is useless, you need to get the full birth info including time and date to analyze. I think you should just avoid such people who judge on basis of reputed schools than inner being. Go see the movie "Legally Blonde" for some comfort.

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GemStar
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posted October 19, 2005 07:22 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Write it off to IMMATURITY...one day he will think differently-believe me. So sorry that he made this mistake, yet, it is one lesson he will learn the hard way...let him go.

Remember that you have a lot to offer...and you do not want to give it to a shallow person who is so easily swayed by what others think. He needs to grow up and you must let him do so...it will take some time. I know this is difficult and hurtful at your age, however, nearly everyone has experienced this in their life-especially in high school. What I CAN tell you is that there will be many more guys and better ones than you can ever imagine in your future...have blind faith in this fact and trust that the right one will be led to you.

Let go of the shallow Virgo...and remember that the karma you give in life comes back to you...hold your head up high...and always remain a Lady.

Good Luck! Everything will be fine!

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pisceangirl90
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posted October 19, 2005 07:31 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
thanks iqhunk for your helpful suggestion ! i dont know his true birth time buti know his birthday. he has

sun in virgo
moon in cancer/ leo/virgo
mercury in libra
venus in libra
mars in virgo
jupiter in cancer
saturn in capricorn(retrograde)
uranus in capricorn (retrograde)
neptune in capricorn(retrograde)
pluto in scorpio
chiron in cancer

Ive tried avoiding people but i mean one cant know how the other person will turn out. but ill try my best to know people before i get close to them.

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pisceangirl90
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posted October 19, 2005 07:56 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
hey gemstar.. thanks for being so understanding. i know he is being shallow and feel worried cause people might use that against him. but its his life and im trying my best to move on :-) .

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Iqhunk
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posted October 19, 2005 07:58 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Did you see his retrogade planets in Capricorn? I guessed something wrong in his Capricorn department, but he is soooo retrogade Capri-CONNED. All the drawbacks of stuffy, status concsious and anal retentive Capricorn in his chart and this energy is opposing his Jupiter [Expansion] and Moon [Psyche, subconscious, emotions, sensitivities]. I think he is a moron to let a Pisces girl go, you could have made him happy lifelong. Also, a beautiful advice from Gem above too for you. Be happy and stay positive, you will find a much better boy. 100000000s out there!

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posted October 19, 2005 08:18 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for cappyme     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
hello pisceangirl90 . I agree with Iqhunk, he is too concerned with his image and such people are not worth your time. This must be really hard for you, and you'll get over him eventually, all I can say is, good you broke up with this man who chooses his reputation and can't be himself, maybe he is facing some insecurity problems, but you made the right decision, now you should sit back, and let karma work it all out, let him go on his path, and let his soul heal, while your a very nice female, you can do much better than that, chin up, there are millions of much better guys there, look at this as an experience which taught you something, towards the end of this I'm sure you've learnt different things and become much stronger. Enjoy life and be free!
Love and Light .

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Life, n.: A whim of several billion cells to be you for a while.

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sthenri
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posted October 19, 2005 08:37 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hi sweetie!
My stepson is a Virgo and I have to say while a wonderful person, he is into superficial women. Usually blondes who are younger and dumber, or ones that help him set up house. He just doesn't have the security as a man to be with someone who is older and more mature than him. Virgos do well with children and like to be in charge, as they get older and get more responsibility the men mature and become caring about their family.

My uncle is another Virgo who I am very close to but he has a blind spot about his women. His wife is a very superficial Cancer who chooses to stay that way to make him happy. She would prefer to work in a career but is aware of what that would do to their marriage so she has affairs and causes trouble to act out. They are working on it together, but the reason he married her is because she was already pregnant, therefore committed.

I really do not believe he is that great at romance, and doesn't know what he wants except for security.

Your ex virgo is very much into the security of knowing he will be "okay" because he can't see hopes and fears in you that are his. Right now he believes a good person has no hopes or fears and that's not realistic, that kind of security will bite him in the butt. That popular girl will dump him and he will come back to you for a conversation.

It's good that you are so caring and loved him, let him go be what he is, and someday he may turn into a genuine person. In the meantime, examine other social circles.

I really point to his Venus in Libra which wants to fit in more than anything Cappy. My little brother has a strong venus in pisces in the 7th, and he is outrageous at the things he will do to get noticed by popular kids. He will steal, borrow, say anything, date any girl as long as she is makes him feel good about himself. What he is looking for is someone level headed to balance him out, because he is so easily swayed.

For him discipline works wonders, I literally threaten to kick him in the ass and he respects me, his love comes from respect and hardness. So be hard, cool, and distant!

Take Care, and Hugs to you,
Natasha
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pisceangirl90
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posted October 19, 2005 08:50 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
hey guys thanks for such positive replies and i seriously feel much better but the question is if he does come back to me wat do i do? i dunno if i should accept him back- which i am likely to do cause i care a lot about him and would hate to see him hurt or should i jus remain his good friend with the fear he might hurt me again?

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virgolibra69
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posted October 19, 2005 10:49 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Piscesgirl,

You are Opposite anyway, and Opposite do not attract, to different!

I agree with all that Capricorn Energy stuff, Capricorn are very Superficial and care greatly about their public standing and reputation, they usually marry Up, usually for Money, never for Love!

His Venus is in Libra and that's not compatible with Pisces either!

Sun and Mars in Virgo they are also very insecure and care about what everyone thinks about them!

"Mars in a women's chart describes the kind of man she will attract, while Venus in a man's chart defines the type of women he's in tune with."

Look at your Mars! Connections between the Sun and Moon also illustrate how the msculine and feminine principles work together.

Capricorns tendencies are a big Headache they are very stuck, stubborn, set in their ways!

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Sun Virgo 29,Moon Aquarius 25,Cancer Ascendant 25

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SweetCappie
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posted October 19, 2005 11:27 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hey I'm a Capricorn and I would never marry anyone for money, the thought of that repulses me, I want true love not a big bank account. I am so independent, I rather earn my own money than ask anyone for money. I only have my Sun in Capricorn (close to the Sag-Cap cusp) so maybe that's what makes a difference? Anyways, I think we are very misunderstood.

I hope you find a great guy who will treat you kind & with respect. You are young, and with time, you will feel better and wonder what you ever saw in this guy.

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Cap sun, Cancer moon (1st), Gemini rising, stellium in Sag (7th house).

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cancerrg
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posted October 19, 2005 12:44 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
forget him !
he was'nt worth your love and respect .

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pisceangirl90
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posted October 19, 2005 12:50 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
hey,

i thought opposites attract, cause thats wat everyone sayz and besides we got along really well. we had the same interests. i guess the only difference in us might be our way of looking at life.... guess everyone has a different opinion...

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Rede411
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posted October 19, 2005 12:52 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Rede411     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Blah! What a jerk....and heck no you can't be friends...a friend would never misteat a friend like that. Tell him to dunk his donuts elsewhere....course the humor in all this is that he'll prolly come running back to you once you stand your ground & ignore him. I've been in your shoes before...with a Virgo too...Hang in there!! Sending Happy Thoughts your way!!!!!!

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pisceangirl90
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posted October 19, 2005 02:44 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
hey,
u know i cant avoid him cause he lives in my building and still calls. He is insecure and one of my friends told me that by his placings he is supposed to be really insecure and tends to make mistakes and then regrets it. Is that true?

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sthenri
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posted October 19, 2005 03:26 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
piscesgirl, I met a gemini sun sign who was very much like this, I was in the same spot. I cried and when he came up to me he would say stuff like "how's it going?" ignoring my pain. He would probe me with his eyes to see how much he could get away with while never seeing what I wanted from him. He was always looking for something from me. Now it took months of avoiding him but it was worth it as I took that time to really think about what I needed from him that he couldn't give.

When you are worried someone is coming back you can't take care of yourself. So now is the time to take care of you, and he is playing games. Like the song says shake it up. Do things for yourself, stay really busy, if you run into him, you will always know where you have to go. Don't try and see him. Then in a few months practice saying to him, have a nice day, it's better if I go now..and walk away.

If in trouble look around for other people and talk about their lives, then when he tried to tell you about his personal life, mention the places you have to go to next, and say there is a point to why I am here..I am going somewhere...then wish him luck and then keep walking VERY fast away. don't look back.

Its' better for his immature ego if you don't stay friends because you have to let him chase whatever dreams he has and you have different goals. So if you are truly in love with him let him go do his thing which will take a while, at least a year.

IF he was going away to Europe, or on a trip and you couldn't go, you wouldn't hold him back right? Think of him as somewhere else and take a vacation from worrying about his state of mind. He's like a little boy and he is acting as if you are his mother, not his g/f. You need to be a girlfriend not someone's support. To be happy with yourself as a woman, you need to be the woman and have a real man. (one that needs pursue a goal in life that doesn't involve depending on women)


Natasha

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sVirgo
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posted October 20, 2005 10:13 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for sVirgo     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hi Pisceangirl90!!
I am virgo, I did exactly what your friend did it with you.
Though I am not bad from my heart. I don't know that I will be ever able to ask forgiveness from the person. Yes, you are right when he will come back to you whether you will accept him or not.
Let me tell you Virgo criticize themselves first so this question might had come to him too that whether he can face you again or not after what he did it to you.

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pisceangirl90
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posted October 21, 2005 07:03 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
hey svirgo
well he actually insults me alot because he thinks i have forgiven him. which i have not and never will. in his conversations he wants to talk about his girl but wen i talk about any guy gets annoyed and starts swearing. i dunno if he actually has any feelings....so i guess everyone is different. i think u should apologise to the person...ull feel much better

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