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Topic: Anyone want to translate Cancer-speak for me?
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sthenri unregistered
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posted October 21, 2005 07:28 AM
Lots of confusion this morning. received a love letter from a Cancer/Leo moon man who I am friends with. We never dated because after a few one on one outings, I could tell I wasn't ready for a relationship and he was making the moves on me physically. Not getting upset about it, I remained friendly and I respect his emotional tenancity, warmth, and faith and kindness most of all.It makes me uncomfortable because I can see what he means, but I can accept his faith in me and return the admiration. I feel the letter needs a reply and I am falling for an Aquarius right now so I am okay in terms of romantic love. I am not going to hurt his feelings by saying that, and I don't even know what will happen with the Aqua in a year from now after I move. I told the Cancer I was moving but he still wants an answer to the love letter. Some of the wording is a little strange and I need help understanding? Would someone look at a few lines for me by email? At one point he says he wants me in all my splendor...then mentions a time when we laid together and kissed deeply... I am confused because that never happened. What does it mean when he talks about events that didn't happen, confusing! Natasha Taurus Cancer Moon IP: Logged |
Tigerlily Knowflake Posts: 59 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted October 21, 2005 09:05 AM
I'm a Cancer/Aqua Rising. I'd be happy to help. Can you get my email from Randall? I wish there were a private messaging system here. IP: Logged |
cancerrg unregistered
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posted October 21, 2005 10:43 AM
i am a taurus moon . as far as i can guess , he was trying to show u a picture that actually never happened . may be thats a way to capture your imagination and make u see him there in that picture . thats a normal thing , i feel , for cancers . never been in a situation like this . other thing that might be important is , his writting skills , i dont cancers are very good at it . they are knowledgeable but thier forte doesn't lie in the wriiting skills . i make a lot of such mistakes when posting . may be thats why , i come out as more blunt and confusing at times without my wanting to be so. btw , u can always mail me , if u feel like.IP: Logged |
LILYGIRL unregistered
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posted October 21, 2005 11:34 AM
Is English his second language? Astrology aside---the little that you posted made me think that. If that is the case, issues with verb tense (past versus present versus future) are very common.I have never known any Cancer men--well except my child who is Cancer ascendant and mars...but he's only 12..LOL... IP: Logged |
sthenri unregistered
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posted October 21, 2005 12:35 PM
Tigerlily, cancerg, lilygirl, he's Irish from Ireland living in Boston. blunt is good, his venus is in gemini and mercury and moon are in leo, mars in sag. He's my age so he has a libra stellium, and no earth unless it's his ascendant-time of birth unknown.He is very talky so I thought it was because of his venus in gemini, he mentions he thinks of me as classy, special, and someone who could smooth out his rough spots, he loves parties and wants to be with someone elegant but he does think i am rigid and argumentative sometimes when he wants to be spontaneous. I can't tell if he is proposing marriage to me or wants to change his life. If he is proposing, I want to respond in a sensitive way, I don't want to hurt him. my email is innerchildtheone@yahoo.com, anyone with an interest can email me and I will email back keeping your address confidential. Thank you, Natasha
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Isolaede Newflake Posts: 15 From: Sunny CA Registered: May 2009
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posted October 21, 2005 01:55 PM
Hey girl: I just sent you an e-mail. I'd love to help out. Before seeing the e-mail though, my suggestion would be simple honesty. Explain that you are in love with someone else, and you feel it would be disloyal to them for you to spend any time with this cancer. Loyalty is a big thing for Cancers so he should understand. Although that Leo influence is tricky. IP: Logged |
sanfranciscojim1 unregistered
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posted October 21, 2005 03:27 PM
i'm cancer/sag moon. i have a cancer/leo moon friend....over the years i've completely scrapped the old monogomy model..it's just not natural...i've become a fan of polygamy....the 'mother' thing about cancer might allow us to see multiple relationships like children or something....a nuturing, compassionate perspective...i think it's a very delicate balancing act..but it seems the standard options , based on who-knows-what, are unrealistic....IP: Logged |
SecretGardenAgain unregistered
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posted October 22, 2005 01:52 AM
hey natasha dont mean to sound like a practicality-pimp here, but could it be possible that : 1. he was drunk when he wrote it 2. hes mixing some making out/humping with another girl hes had you know....it happens. Love SG IP: Logged | |