posted October 24, 2005 10:35 AM              

If you had to choose between two guys for a date which would you choose and why?

Which would you date if you were me?

Guy #1:

ASC Aries
Sun Aqua
Moon Scorprio
Mercury Pisces
Venus Pisces
Mars Sag
NN Sag
Eros Sag
Psyche Gem

Guy #2:

ASC Cancer
Sun Sag
Moon Gem
Mercury Sag
Venus Scorpio
Mars Libra
NN Pisces
Eros Aries
Psyche Virgo

Me:

ASC Virgo
Sun Gem
Moon Pisces
Merc Gem
Venus Gem
Mars Aqua
NN Aqua
Eros Gem
Psyche Cancer

posted October 24, 2005 11:10 AM              

Testing by empirical means - 'tis the only way, or so my Virgo Asc says (doesn't want my sensitive Pisces moon to get hurt).

posted October 24, 2005 11:30 AM              

i have friend with aqua-asc and scorp sun .nice person but comes of as bit more force ful in comments , do u think - u would be able to handle that kind of person .

posted October 24, 2005 11:47 AM            

I think there would be more fluffy romance stuff with the first one and more non-fluffy sexy stuff with the second one.
guy #1: deep conversations, looking into your eyes and "understanding" you , complicated feelings
guy #2: good sex!

Go for #2! But that's just where I'm at now and that's just my take on the guys,
maybe you're in another place and I'm totally off about the connections.

posted October 24, 2005 12:14 PM              

Guy #1 is a poet and musician, and we do have deep conversations. He's got a great talent with words. He's got dark, emotive Scorpio-Piscean eyes, is short, pale and skinny with dark, messy hair. He's moody, little insecure and quiet. He looks exactly like the kind of guy you'd find sitting in the corner of a coffee shop on open mic poetry night, waiting to read he poems about his traumatic childhood. He's never been married and I think he's the romantic type far more than I could ever be. He's attractive to me in so ways and I'm pretty sure he's attracted to me, but I fear he's the obsessive type when it comes to relationships.

Guy #2 is a visual artist and a musician. he a lot older than me, and yet we have a lot in common. We have a lot of shared interests, even though our opinions vary. He's tall, in great shape for his age, with spikey (not dyed) red-blonde hair, sparkling brown eyes and a mischevious smile. He looks 10 years younger than his age. He's a weird mix of cautiousness and outgoingness, and he's a typical Sag when it comes to telling people about his talents and accomplishments. He's divorced, and is an idealist more than a romantic. I'm not sure if he's attracted to me beyond being friends, but I love that I enjoy being around him so much. I am worried that if I did ask him out, he's blow me off because I'm so much younger than him.

posted October 24, 2005 12:23 PM            

I like #1 for you... I know alot of Gemini/Aqua matchups and they have that death-can't-part-us type of love going on...
The scorpio moon kinda freaks me out as i refer to that as the monster in the closet type of moon... Mars in Sag sometimes has a problem w/committing but you should be quick enough to keep his attention....
This guy has me thinking John Travolta

#2 i like Libra mars- they like the verbal as well as the physical contact and being a Sag ... has me thinking the Kirk Douglas type....

posted October 24, 2005 12:46 PM              

Hope this helps,

posted October 24, 2005 02:02 PM            

They both sound pretty hot to me. Why don't you give them both a trial run?

god I need to stop advising people to do the type of thing I'd do... very bad

posted October 24, 2005 06:29 PM              

It seems that I (if I was GeminiNymph) would also not be too much of an adventure seeker - though a seeker of mental stimulations. Probably leaning toward more sedate festivities . . .

Guy #2 seems more physically active, creative, and would eventually become bored with just mental exercises and constant analytical dissecting. With his Venus in Scorpio, he'll flirt by being mysteriously sensual and leaving little hints, then pounce . . . I don't think an extremely literal personality would enjoy that and take it as a compliment.

posted October 24, 2005 06:35 PM              

You should go for Guy 2 in my opinion. Aqua men have a hard time valuing women in their life. It is more probable that you can have a fun, interesting, and lovey relationship with the second, altho there will be squares involved yet I think he is more probable to cherish you. Aqua will be impressed and deeply connected, attracted, but will never cherish you the way a Sag can.

(just my personal experience, I get along better with Aquas, WAYYYYYYYYYYY better than with Sag sun males).

posted October 24, 2005 06:45 PM              

I guess I'll just sit on this and see if anything develops. I don't get to see either of them often, and when I do, it's usually both at the sometime in a social setting. Neither have made any definite offers to get together with me, although both have hinted at it. I think Aqua guy's too quiet to ask me out directly (point against him) and Sag guy's a bit too flakey to realize I'm interested enough inhim to out on a date.

posted October 24, 2005 06:52 PM              

Guess you answered my question. Synchronism . . .

You have initiated before . . . so I am guessing you would like to take a chance at something different.

May be a mutual friend could give them a hint

posted October 25, 2005 10:47 AM              

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I guess I'm looking for another instant mutual attraction like my last relationship ...who, by the way, recently sent me a typically Cancerian "I still feel the same about you/thinking about you always" email that only adds to my ambilvance about seeing new people. *groan*

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posted October 25, 2005 01:03 PM              

Actually a mutual friend has taken up the cause on my behalf (which i just found out last night). She already has been prodding the Sag guy, cos she thinks I ought to go out with him. Turns out he's apparently interested but reluctant because he's a divorcee and a bit unsure of himself with the whole dating-again scenerio. He's also thinks he looks "old" (a hint of Sag vanity there? LOL) even though no one believes he's even close to his real age. Seriously he's 48 and he looks 35. We actually have so good contacts - his Venus trines my moon and DC and his moon conjuncts my Sun and Mercury - I guess with *his* moon conjuncting *my* Sun I probably ought be the one to initiate this, yes?

posted October 25, 2005 02:47 PM              

Since you described your Sag friend a little bit more, and him having Venus in Scorpio . . .

I personally think him asking you out would do wonders for his own self-esteem. Just imagine, him generating the courage to briefly overcome his insecurities to ask you out . . . and you saying "Yes!" would, I think, make him feel really good and proud of himself.

It's one of those special moments when he'll forget temporarily about his age, being a divorcee and shy . . .

posted October 25, 2005 04:26 PM            

Haha....oh..... hehe.

Yes, GN, I think what you've found out is what I always find out anytime I try Eeni meeni mini mo! It's self-reverse-psychology! You're letting fate (or us) decide so it'll help you make your own mind up. If the answer that is chosen for you, you are comfortable with, it's normally the best one. If you're a bit peeved it usually means you want the other one... so go for the Sag! Hope this gets his tally score up for ya!

BR- I like sleepovers can I come?
Actually, I haven't had one, like a 'proper' one for years... my god, my childhood is over!

Aphrodite! hehehe I love your little nightclub comments! Can I join you there?
*MNF buys you and the Scorp guy a drink and successfully barges in on everyone's conversations!*

hehe Sorry.