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The Mutable Night Force
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posted October 24, 2005 03:25 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for The Mutable Night Force     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote

Mmkay, what's your Venus sign and your views on love?

I'm in one of those funny moods again, curious and willing to do some research!

So.... put down your Venus sign and any other info you think contributes to what you're saying obviously....

1) If you like someone do you -compliment them lots and express how much you like them, or
-rarely compliment them, for fear of them guessing your feelings.

2) Do you promise to do silly/special things someone (of opposite sex, oh, or the same depending on what's your type...) asks you
-only when you are attracted to them
-only when you love them
-only as long as you know them!

3) Do you find you can be in love with more than one person at a time?

4) Do you think about someone constantly when you like them or only when you are with them?

Don't feel obliged to answer the questions- I'm just trying to kick start the topic

Me- Venus in Leo
1) I compliment people loads when I like them!
2) only when I'm attracted to them
3) Not exactly the same time, but the same period of time, yes
4) Constantly.

Thank you for all replies...!

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pixelpixie
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posted October 24, 2005 03:30 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for pixelpixie     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Venus in Sagittarius. *conjunct Neptune in fifth house

1)I compliment tonnes, and often.

2)when I am attracted to them, cusping on if I know them.

3)Yes.

4)Constantly

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The Mutable Night Force
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posted October 24, 2005 03:49 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for The Mutable Night Force     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thanks pix!
Neat, so far I have a Fire Venus trend of two! lol

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pixelpixie
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posted October 24, 2005 04:07 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for pixelpixie     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
la la la la la lets go peeps!!!
I want to hear all about the rest of you!

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beebuddy
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posted October 24, 2005 04:08 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Venus Cancer 8th house (Plac.)

1. Little compliments, nothing too showy. Baby steps.

2. I'm the one doing the asking usually.

3. No.

4. Think about them when they are gone and ignore them when they are with me (unless of course we are interacting at that moment).

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Isolaede
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posted October 24, 2005 04:24 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Isolaede     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Venus in Gemini in the 7th house:

1. I do compliment, but only very carefully at first. Baby steps as Beebuddy said. I’m generally afraid of overdoing it and making it clear how crazy I am about someone. And I’m VERY hesitant to express how I feel about them. I didn’t used to be this bad, but I’m so gun shy these days. I still can’t quite bring myself to tell my Cancer man that I love him after a month of going out – I think it all the time, but I just can’t say it yet.

2. Yes, I definitely do little special things when I’m attracted to and when I love someone. Like I cook dinner for someone I like, buy them their favorite little foods, or get them little gifts. I tend to mother them when they are sick, etc.

3. No I don’t think I can be in love with two people at once. I put SO much energy into love, and tend to get tunnel vision. I can’t imagine falling in love with someone different while I was with someone. The only notable exception to this rule, is if the relationship was going bad in a horrible way but I didn’t have the heart to end it, I might start to withdraw emotionally and notice other potential mates. But I’d never DO anything with those people.

4. Yes, I think about people I care for constantly, almost to the point of distraction. When I’m in love it’s like the entire world goes away. When I was younger it used to be hard to focus at work. I’m older and wiser these days but I still think about my love incessantly. : )

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Gemini Nymph
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posted October 24, 2005 04:37 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
9th house Venus at 4 Gem, conjunct Saturn at 29 Taurus, opposed 3rd house Jupiter at 28 Scoprio and 3rd house Neptune (singleton) at 1 Sag and trined 1st house Uranus (singleton) at 9 Libra. Got all that? LOL.

1) I'm very cautious with compliments if I am attracted to them, at least at first. I hate my compliments being mistaken for insincere flattery.

2) Only if I'm attracted to them or have feelings for them. I admit i can be a bit of dorrmat int his way at times, but it's more my Pisces moon I think than my Venus. When I do love someone, I don't relaly promise - I just do stuff, often spontaneously, for them. My VenusGem makes me very perceptive in what kind of things I can do for another without asking them ahead of time or what kind of surprise gifts I can get them. Of this ofdten leads otme being taken advantage of.

3) Um...I'll pass on that one for now...

4) Depends on whether I'mbored with them yet or not.

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The Mutable Night Force
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posted October 24, 2005 04:54 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for The Mutable Night Force     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Yey

Thank you also to beebuddy, Isolaede and Gemini Nymph for their contribution!

Isolaede- What sun sign are you? Is it Cancer by any chance?


Okay, 5th question-

5) If you can tell someone likes you a great deal does it make you think
- that you like them more too
- that you like them less
- that you always liked them but it's only now you realise it!
- you don't like them any more or less but keep talking to them for the flattery... hehe

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Mystic Gemini
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posted October 24, 2005 05:27 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Mmkay, what's your Venus sign and your views on love?


My venus sign is Taurus.


1) If you like someone do you -compliment them lots and express how much you like them, or
-rarely compliment them, for fear of them guessing your feelings.


Both. I better get that attention back dammit.

2) Do you promise to do silly/special things someone (of opposite sex, oh, or the same depending on what's your type...) asks you


-only when you are attracted to them
-only when you love them


3) Do you find you can be in love with more than one person at a time?

No.

4) Do you think about someone constantly when you like them or only when you are with them?


Depends on what type of feelings I have for them.

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Hexxie
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posted October 24, 2005 05:44 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
venus in scorpio in the 5th~

i usually magnetically attract those who i like and who like me mutually. if i have to pursue, which i will if i have to, i am pretty direct cuz i'd rather know than be stuck wondering.

1) i only occasionally compliment, and only if i really mean it.

2) i only do silly things / special things for those whom i love.

3) i cannot be in (romantic) love with more than 1 person at a time. love to me is all or nothing and i will not deal with someone who does not think the same way. scorpio intensity i spose.

4) i think of my special someone randomly throughout the day but it's not constant.

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Hexxie
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posted October 24, 2005 05:52 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
OMG that was my 200th post!

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MAGUS of MUSIC
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posted October 24, 2005 05:55 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote

Venus in Sag, 8th house

comjunct Neptune, sextile Pluto in Libra.


1. I will state a comlpiment jere and there when first geting to know them, based on what ever I like about her. After that I will chill out for a while on the asskissing.. Atleast when we arent in the bed room.


2. I try not too promiss anyhting, prefer to just surprise her with nice things, or romantic setups.


3. Yes, but not quite like how alot of peaple would take that.

4. On and off,, the one of my hearts affections could be all over my mind 24-7 for weaks,, and then if I get caught up in things, she may cross my mind only once a day or so, till my mind is free agian.

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AcousticGod
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posted October 24, 2005 06:22 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for AcousticGod     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
My Venus is in Sagittarius also conjunct Neptune. *nudges Pix* Mine is in the 7th. Sag in the house of partnerships, imagine that!

1. Nope. I don't compliment tons, or often, which really makes my compliments seem even more sincere I would think. I am known to dote on certain romantic interests if I'm having fun. If they're flirtaceously telling me how great they are at whatever it is they're doing, then I'll undoubtedly play along. Otherwise my primary means of flirting is eye contact followed by a hint of a smile. Sometimes followed by a sweet question of some sort. I think these mannerisms of mine are born of my relationships with water signs. I think if it were a different element I might be forced into trying other tactics. I've been bold on occasion, and just outrightly told a person what I think of them, and that works too with some.

2. I'm not one much for promising things in general. More difficult to disappoint that way I suppose.

I will engage in sillier things than usual for a chance at love, though. I actually appreciate someone wanting to include me in their fun. Now if it's just a friend whom I'm not interested in, then I may hesitate, but if it's a fun friend or an interest then I'll generally go for it...
...unless I'm pouting for some reason, and then I'm really no fun for anyone.

3. Interesting question.

I can certainly be interested in more than one person at a time, and I suppose I can love aspects of more than one person at a time, but to actually love love a person for me kind of precludes anyone else from receiving those emotions from me.

To try to split my attention between two honest-to-god lovers would be too much complication for me. I'm not cut out for being a player. I would worry too much about one finding out about the other. I'd also fret quite extensively about which one I'd want if I had to choose, because inevitably you're going to have to choose at some point.

4. Yes, absolutely. I get tremendously distracted by thoughts of my exciting love or relationship.

5. Awesome question!

If I know someone likes me a great deal, then it certainly gives me pause to consider the possibilities. The outcome of my pondering can be any one of those answers. Typically it makes me appreciate the person more [at a minimum]. I think they must be worthy of some of my attention to feel this way about me. It's only rarely that I attract the attention of someone I'm repulsed by, so I think in general a person will get more consideration from me if they somehow express that they're interested. That extends to both genders I think, too. I won't stop being friends with a gay guy just because I know he's interested in me. I'll likely become more of a tease in those situations. There's no harm in it.

I love these group participation threads. Good job!

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Isolaede
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posted October 24, 2005 06:26 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Isolaede     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Mutable: I am indeed a Cancer sun sign. : ) Is it that obvious? LOL

Let’s see… to answer your fifth question: If I can tell someone likes me and I return their admiration it gives me the courage to be far more demonstrative of my appreciation. I can compliment them more, and express more of my feelings for them. Knowing someone likes me brings me out of my shell in that respect.

However, if I don’t feel that kind of connection with someone and I know they like me it makes me pull back. I don’t want to encourage their affections, or use them, and then ultimately have to hurt them. I’ve had this happen with close friends before, and them liking me doesn’t make me think any less of them. I just pull back to avoid hurting them.

When I say “That kind of connection” what do I mean? I can generally tell in the after spending a few days with someone if they are someone I could form a relationship with. It has everything to do with a soul connection. If it’s there, then I know it from the start and there’s always a chance that at some point down the way I could be in a relationship with that person. If I don’t sense it, if they don’t make me feel “safe” then no amount of admiration on their part would lead me to returning their affections. The heart is just too fragile of a thing to take risks with.

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whiterabbit
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posted October 24, 2005 06:39 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for whiterabbit     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I love these threads too, they're so much fun!
ok, let's get down to business..
Venus in Aquarius/4th house/conjunct Sun& Mercury/sextile Saturn/opposing Moon/square Pluto

1. I compliment them a lot about neutral things that don't have anything to do with something that could be interpreted as me having feeling for them. Like- their art, or their field hockey skills (hehehe), or how cool it is that they're building some weird creation. For some reason I never tell people I'm attracted to how physically attractive I find them. Unless we're dating and hence comfortable (and there's no need to pretend that they don't drive me crazy with their ways and looks- yeah I think this is some weird Aquarian shite...*sigh*). Actually, even in serious relationships I'm not big on compliments. Except when it comes to their carnal skills. I always feel weird telling a man that he's hot. I tell women ALL the time, however. I love complimenting women.

2. If I am attracted to them I would do something only if I know the feeling is mutual. I did a 12 page hand-written astrological report for this fellow that I was working with. We had been flirting all year, however. Sometimes I randomly give flowers to boys, even if I don't like them. I like flowers..

3. hhhhmmmmmmmm... yes

4. constantly (I think this has to do with my Scorpio Mars and Pluto Square Moon and Venus and Mercury and Sun)

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whiterabbit
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posted October 24, 2005 06:46 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for whiterabbit     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
oooh, and

5. If I was very attracted to them for a long time and I found out the feeling is mutual, I would probably be thrilled and even more attracted. But if it was just a little crush, I would be a little put off.. lol.. thrill of the chase, right?
edit: MNF, remember we talked about Woody Allen's words in Annie Hall? Not wanting to be part of any club that would have me for a member? lol.. yeah.

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Hexxie
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posted October 24, 2005 07:24 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I think i'll add that my Venus in Scorpio is also Conjunct Uranus (in the 5th). It makes for interesting weirdness in love which i absolutely do love, heh.

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posted October 24, 2005 07:30 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Venus in Pisces

1) If I like someone, I give them lots of compliments.

2) I do promise to do silly and special things even if I just know them.

3) Yes, I can be in love with more than one person.

4) I think about the person constantly, but it's a constant that comes and goes. When I am with the person, I am thinking of him but sometimes I mentally drift away.

5) If I can see that someone really likes me, what do I do? If it is genuine sort of affection, I welcome it with open arms. One can't always control what another person is feeling sometimes. I acknowledge their affections and say thank you.

If a guy is sexually attracted and doesn't have the manners to be polite and does rude things - I will confront him and tell him this sort of behavior is not welcome.

If a guy is just sexually attracted, and nothing else, hmm well . . . my own thoughts are that sexual opportunities are a dime a dozen and feel fortunate that I can pick and choose if I am in the mood for an experience and nothing more.

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WaterNymph
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posted October 25, 2005 05:00 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hey MNF

Venus Aries 1st - Conj Mars, Trine Jupiter & Uranus.

1. Depends - if I know them well, lots and lots of compliments.
If I don’t know them that well - I’d never compliments them lol until I feel comfortable around them.

2. Asks me to do something silly/special???
I would immediately think they’re using me. So therefore - NO! Attraction, or no attraction...I don't care.
If they’ve done things for me before - or somehow earned this…then yeah, sure…no problem

3. Oooo interesting…I dunno. I can’t honestly, hand on heart, say I‘ve ever been in love. I‘ve loved…but that‘s different. Maybe I could - I have a big heart jp

4. If I really like them - then constantly.

5. I like them more

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Cassy
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posted October 25, 2005 05:57 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Cassy     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Venus in Sagitarius 7th, conjuct Jupiter & Neptune in 7th, sextile Pluto in 4th

1. compliment sometimes but seldom express how i feel. working on it though
2. when i'm in love
3. yes
4. constantly

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Peri
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posted October 25, 2005 06:15 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Peri     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
LOL WaterNymph I just had to copypaste your answers! Venus conj Mars in Aries! YAY!

Venus in Aries in II - Conj Mars, sextile Jupiter, trine Saturn & Neptune/Moon, opposition Pluto, inconj Uranus.

1. Until I feel comfortable around them.

2. I would immediately think they're using me. So therefore - NO! Attraction, or no attraction...I don't care.

If they've done things for me before - or somehow earned this� then yeah, sure no problem

3. Never

4. If I really like them - then constantly.

5. I don't like them any more or less

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Lauren
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My Venus is Aries/Taurus in the 11th

1. I wouldn't mind someone guessing my feelings, as long as it isn't *said*, just hinted. I wouldn't compliment lots but I would compliment occasionaly, when I truly mean it.

2. Only when I'm in love

3. Not really

4. Constantly

5. If this hadn't happened to me I would've probably said that my feelings would stay the same and I wouldn't like the person any more or less..but it has, and I always felt like it made me like them more. Maybe it's because I find it really sweet when someone really likes me so it makes me feel lovey dovey towards them, even if I'm not -in love- with them. It's more like a feeling of appreciation. I appreciate their feelings. But then again, I think most people would feel the same way. Everyone likes being liked

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Venus in Scorpio, sextile Saturn, Trine Moon House 10/11

1) I take things very cooly at first, only majorly compliment when I've been w someone for a long time and I sincerly mean it.
2) I don't make promises, if I get in the mood for TLC then I will if not then I don't. Once again this usually applies only in a serious relationship. lol I guess my aloofness makes it backwards, they are usually the ones doing things for me
3)Love at the same time? Hmmm thats a tricky one. I love intensly having eyes only for my special one, but if things get boring and mundane than yeah I'm guilty of having a wandering eye from time to time. I wouldn't call it more crushing than love though. Shoot loving just one person can get complicated enough, can't fanthom the thought of loving two...
4) Only at the very beginning, attribute that more to my trance like Moon. My Venus is more of an Ice Queen lol.
5)Naw I won't get emotional w someone just because they do w me, but I'm flattered by it. I might analyze and wonder if they would be a fun date, but won't go for it strictly because they like me. Have this happen a lot since I have many guy friends.

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posted October 25, 2005 02:00 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Stargazer     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
What a great topic!

okay here it goes... my life is a soap opera and here is why.....

Venus in Virgo rx (lucky me)
Sun in virgo
Mercury in virgo
Jupiter in leo
All the above mentioned are in my 7th house!
it is crowded in there to say the least!
Sun trine moon -Sun conjunct Merc- Sun conjunct Venus

1.My moon is in Aries and mars in Scorpio which helps me out lot... I am not afraid to express myself and or to make the first move....i do however find compliments in short supply ... i am most definitely not gushy...

2.Being a virgo and service oriented, i am very curious early on as to people's likes and dislikes and have a knack for anticipating needs and wants... i usually don't promise this.. i just do it... age has taught me to be cautious... i really need a great deal of trust to be involved before i invest myself.... fear of being used

3. yes

4.constantly

5.flattery is great but its gotta be real.... if not, its all good but won't get you anywhere. I like to be chased!

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posted October 25, 2005 02:12 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
OH OH this is FUN! Im gonna go again and re-word the original post and answer the 5th question.

Venus Cancer 8th house (placidus) Venus is trine Uranus and Ascendent and squared Pluto (Naughty)

ok...

1. Little compliments, nothing too showy. Baby steps because there is some fear of rejection. This fear is amplified by the fact when I like someone I REALLY like them.

2. I like to (playfully) ask for stuff, usually little favors. It's a way of "testing" actually. If they do my bidding they must love me! YAYYY!

3. No. And I question the possibility of anyone being able to do two things at once. Love is a quality but my loyalties are for one only.

4. Yes I think constantly about my wife when she is gone. We once spent a year apart and I rarely left the basement because I was looking for her emails and crying softly while I licked my wounds. When she is around I like my own space. Go figure.

5. If someone likes me a great deal the first thought is 'What the heck is wrong with this person!?" and then I run like crazy and look for someone a little more mysterious.

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