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Topic: Is my moon to blame?
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Winged_Feet
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posted October 26, 2005 12:32 AM
 
I already posted this in the soul union section but i figured i would post here as well.I'm wondering if my moon (gemini moon in 9th, singleton) is to blame for my lack of a love life. lol {virgo sun, virgo rising...libra venus/sag mars.)
People always want to "hang out" with me, but as far as relationships go, Im wondering if my air moon has something that keeps someone from wanting to commit. Just curious. Do you guys know anyone with a Gemini moon that you'd rather "hang out" with rather than date or have as a girlfriend/boyfriend or spouse? Any insight is welcome. IP: Logged |
beebuddy
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posted October 26, 2005 12:47 AM
Quick answer, NO. My momma has been married for god knows how long and she has Gemini Moon in her chart. I also have a friend who has a baby on the way that has this placement.Long preachy answer, it isn't BECAUSE of any one placement or another that anything is the way it is. Look at the chart as a blueprint and go from there. What will you do with it? IP: Logged |
Winged_Feet
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posted October 26, 2005 01:00 AM
I know...for the most part. But it's easier to blame something in my chart sometimes because it feels less harmful.And my mom has gemini moon as well, but I figured the "older generation" was luckier somehow. hehe I know Im wrong. Im just a little pessimistic after being lead on by someone. (guy) 
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beebuddy
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posted October 26, 2005 01:19 AM
You're just bummed for the moment. It will pass though  Promise. IP: Logged |
Pop Producer
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posted October 26, 2005 01:37 AM
Your chart seem to have some "cold" signs... Virgo and gemini are too mercurial and detached from love... Maybe people react to this, or you prefer to hang out with "cold" people because passionate people scares you in some wayAnd BTW with gemini moon you can easily have TWO girlfriends/ boyfriends  so it's not a very solitary placement... IP: Logged |
Winged_Feet
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posted October 26, 2005 03:12 AM
I was lead on by a Capricorn sun, Sagitarian moon, aquarian venus and aquarian mars. Which was pretty recent.
I've actually been involved with triple water signs before... (Pisces sun, Scorpio moon, Pisces Rising Aquarian Venus Libra mars) but distance (miles) keeps us from making it a reality. We have mutual feelings though.
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dogstar
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posted October 26, 2005 08:39 AM
in my experience men with virgo moons are distant and very mental they love to talk but are not to emotional and mushy. im not sure of gemini moons but the sun geminis are very loving caring people and open as well. also if your moon is square in any of these relationships to the other persons moon that could be what your feeling as we feel through our moon sign and project ourselves into the world through our sun sign if they are square to each other there is more trouble with relating emotions to people for example what u feel inside(your moon) may not be what your showing on the outside (sun) more info on that on cafe astrology.hope i explained it right.IP: Logged |
sthenri
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posted October 26, 2005 10:30 AM
Hi, I have a Sag mars and have this issue too. Maybe you attract a lot of air signs and they are not big on commitment. My ex has Gemini moon and I found him to be very sweet and loving, but difficult to pin down on decisions. It's true I don't think of commitment when I think gemini moon but not always. It could be your work or area of life you are hanging out in. Be true to yourself and show your passions, be honest with others.I am sure my ex can commit, but he was so sweet, he had a tough time expressing rough emotions. Be sure to let it all hang out, emotionally once in a while. Natasha
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Mama Mia
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posted October 26, 2005 10:40 AM
My lil one's dad has a Gem moon and he cannot committ to tieing his shoes. did I mention that he has his moon in the 12th house also. He is so deliusional too. A hot mess is what I call it. Has nothing to do with you WF. Time is all can say on your situation be patient. IP: Logged |
The Mutable Night Force
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posted October 26, 2005 11:49 AM
Winged_Feet, tell me more... I know a Cappy Sun Sag Moon at the moment and you've got me a little worried!Can we empathise? IP: Logged |
whiterabbit
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posted October 26, 2005 12:37 PM
I think Natasha may be onto something, it seems likely that you attract people with heavy air placements. The two individuals you listed both have Venus and Mars in air signs- Aqua/Aqua and Aqua/Libra. Even though things would perhaps be different with the Aqua/Libra if they lived closer, it does show a trend in your life of attracting those who exhibit air qualities in their love lives. The problem may be that you are projecting those qualities as well- and they may be quite contradictory to what you are really feeling and desiring. This seems to be common with Gemini moon individuals. Plus you are a Virgo- Mercury's rulership often makes Virgos appear flighty and uncertain when really they are quite convinced that they want something specific (a commitment, for example).
I have a Taurus Sun/Gemini Moon friend and she has this problem. Also a Capricorn Sun/Gemini rising friend with similar issues.
My chart is very air-dominated and yet I have had so many Virgos in my past- and had this trouble with all of them. There is often this thing that happens between earth signs with an air moon or ascendant and airy people where they feel they are very compatible and on the same wavelength, but in reality they need different things at that time.
Also, there is the possibility that those you are attracted to also want a commitment, but they think that you don't. Make sure you are projecting your real wants and needs. It can be so key sometimes. Good luck! IP: Logged |
nove731
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posted October 26, 2005 05:49 PM
I have the opposite of that placement.Moon in Sagittarius in the 3rd House. Hey, at least you have people that want to hang out with you. I'm at a loss for that usually. IP: Logged |
Aen
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posted October 27, 2005 04:24 AM
I also think Natasha and Whiterabbit are in the right track. I know Gem Moons Fire people and they'd [b]flee[/] for the mere idea of commitment. A Leo girl with Gem Moon needed 3 ys of solid convincing that stable relationship doesn't need to be a prison. Well, he is a Sag with Libra moon so he understands the concept of private space really well too.It looks that the Mercury ruled Sun, Moon, Asc people (and I gather you have all three) have or at least give that vibe that tells about curious mind, sense of humour and need for intelligent discussions but the fact that they might also need and want emotional nourisment, hugging and commitment can get lost. Perahaps voicing more openly what you want? ------------------
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astro junkie
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posted November 07, 2005 11:14 AM
Winged_Feet -I think it's not so much the Moon in and by itself - it's that you have the Sun in Virgo/Moon in Gemini combination. This one is not easy when it comes to relationships. You may end up in serial relationships, and I bet at least one of them will be with someone who is a bit overbearing and controlling. You may not really attract the types who seek security or predictability - but that's not bad in and by itself either! You may give off the vibe that EVERYTHING is interesting - that you can relate to almost everything as well. The types who seek security may see it as "stands for nothing, falls for anything" ... You are UBER-Mutable. So you will probably be more attractive to someone who needs a partner who can bend to their needs. Either that, or just be prepared for a life full of changes ALL THE TIME. PS: Get your rest! As for the Moon in Gemini in general - I get on with them well. Although I seek security in a relationship (deep down that is) - I've never felt comfortable with someone wooing me to death. If you can provide others with that same gift, but also be reliable and steadfast when it comes to the important matters OF THE HEART, then one could not ask for more. ------------------
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