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bleakbeauty
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posted October 30, 2005 04:39 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I was wondering whether someone would have a look at my bf's chart and mine and let me know what they see.

mine: http://www.astro.com/cgi/chart.cgi?rs=3&btyp=w2gw&&cid=zzifilejUy9bo-u1129514650

his: http://www.astro.com/cgi/chart.cgi?rs=3&btyp=w2gw&cid=zzifilejUy9bo-u1129514650&nhor=2&go.x=19&go.y=10

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wilsontc
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posted October 30, 2005 09:48 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Beauty,

In doing relationship comparisons, the first step is to understand how each person approaches relationships. This can be seen by looking at Libra, Venus, and the 7th house (all are about relationships) in each chart. In your chart, you have a Libra stellium (collection of energy) focused on the Midheaven (outer world), so your relationships are "outer world" oriented. Pluto (transformation, also power) and Saturn (duty, also strucuture) are involved so the relationships have to do with Power and structure in some way. A challenge of Pluto is that is is either use BY you or ON you: if you do not someway take power IN the relationship others could take power AGAINST you in the relationship.

Venus is in its own sign (strong energy) in a "fate degree" strong energy, so the urge for relationships is strong. However, Venus is opposite (energy is over-excited by) Pluto and Saturn, so power and structure issues are even more important. Venus is also trine (energy goes very easily with) Neptune (spirituality, also idealization), so you could idealize relationships and not see them clearly.

There is nothing in the 7th house so you do not focus on relationships as "relationships": relationships are a means to get something else.

Your friend has Libra modifying Pluto, so he also needs to have power in a relationship. However, the energy flow is easier for him.

Leo (self-expression, also dating) modifies Venus, exalted by being in the house of its exaltation (very easy energy), so he does well with "dating relationships". He has the same Venus-Neptune/idealization issue as you do.

He, as with you, has no energy focused in his 7th house.

The next thing to look at is the relationship chart (your chart is in the middle and his is on the outside). The first thing to look for in relationship charts is any connections between the Sun and Moon by themselves. There are no strong connections between the Sun and Moon, indicating that there are no strong "compulsive" ties between you: each of you could break off "clean" if you decided to. The next thing to look for are the aspects made between Sun, Moon, Mercury, Venus, and Mars (also called "personal" planets). Here there are MANY easy connections between you, indicating an ease and comfort with each other when you are together. There are some indications of possible conflicts, but with the ease your interactions together, you should be able to work these out.

All that I would think could be an issue is power: make sure that each of you has a "say" in the relationship, and that it is NOT all your say or his say, but some commonly agreed upon "power sharing".

Relating,

Tim

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sweet_face
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posted October 30, 2005 10:33 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Wilsontc,

that reading sounds interesting, Could you do one for me please?Only if you want to.

Me:

Planetary positions
planet sign degree house motion
Sun Taurus 08°51'09 04 direct
Moon Aquarius 13°06'31 02 direct
Mercury Taurus 29°18'38 05 direct
Venus Taurus 15°07'52 05 direct
Mars Cancer 00°00'21 07 direct
Jupiter Gemini 09°09'35 06 direct
Saturn Capricorn 13°53'46 01 stationary (R)
Uranus Capricorn 05°10'09 01 retrograde
Neptune Capricorn 12°19'19 01 retrograde
Pluto Scorpio 13°56'35 11 retrograde
True Node Pisces 02°24'14 02 direct


House positions (Placidus)
Ascendant Sagittarius 29°43'09
2nd House Aquarius 04°03'16
3rd House Pisces 11°11'34
Imum Coeli Aries 15°16'17
5th House Taurus 13°23'54
6th House Gemini 07°11'17
Descendant Gemini 29°43'09
8th House Leo 04°03'16
9th House Virgo 11°11'34
Medium Coeli Libra 15°16'17
11th House Scorpio 13°23'54
12th House Sagittarius 07°11'17

Major aspects
Sun Square Moon 4°15
Sun Conjunction Venus 6°17
Sun Trine Saturn 5°03
Sun Trine Uranus 3°41
Sun Trine Neptune 3°28
Sun Opposition Pluto 5°05
Moon Square Venus 2°01
Moon Trine Jupiter 3°57
Moon Square Pluto 0°50
Mercury Quincunx Ascendant 0°25
Venus Trine Saturn 1°14
Venus Trine Neptune 2°49
Venus Opposition Pluto 1°11
Mars Opposition Uranus 5°10
Mars Opposition Ascendant 0°17
Saturn Conjunction Neptune 1°34
Saturn Sextile Pluto 0°03
Uranus Conjunction Ascendant 5°27
Neptune Sextile Pluto 1°37


Him:

Planetary positions
planet sign degree house motion
Sun Leo 22°08'04 04 direct
Moon Sagittarius 20°49'26 07 direct
Mercury Leo 03°49'55 03 direct
Venus Libra 07°44'40 05 direct
Mars Capricorn 11°28'39 08 direct
Jupiter Pisces 21°05'52 11 retrograde
Saturn Sagittarius 03°06'58 06/7 stationary (D)
Saturn is technically near the end of house 6 and is interpreted in house 7.
Uranus Sagittarius 18°25'28 07 retrograde
Neptune Capricorn 03°17'00 08 retrograde
Pluto Scorpio 04°48'31 06 direct
True Node Aries 22°53'22 11 retrograde


House positions (Placidus)
Ascendant Gemini 05°29'34
2nd House Cancer 00°17'30
3rd House Cancer 23°13'49
Imum Coeli Leo 18°18'30
5th House Virgo 19°01'45
6th House Libra 26°38'21
Descendant Sagittarius 05°29'34
8th House Capricorn 00°17'30
9th House Capricorn 23°13'49
Medium Coeli Aquarius 18°18'30
11th House Pisces 19°01'45
12th House Aries 26°38'21

Major aspects
Sun Trine Moon 1°19
Sun Quincunx Jupiter 1°02
Sun Trine Uranus 3°43
Moon Square Jupiter 0°16
Moon Conjunction Uranus 2°24
Mercury Sextile Venus 3°55
Mercury Trine Saturn 0°43
Mercury Quincunx Neptune 0°33
Mercury Square Pluto 0°59
Mercury Sextile Ascendant 1°40
Venus Square Mars 3°44
Venus Sextile Saturn 4°38
Venus Square Neptune 4°28
Venus Trine Ascendant 2°15
Jupiter Square Uranus 2°40
Saturn Opposition Ascendant 2°23
Neptune Sextile Pluto 1°32
Neptune Quincunx Ascendant 2°13
Pluto Quincunx Ascendant 0°41

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wilsontc
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posted October 30, 2005 01:12 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Sweet,

Give me the birth date/location information of you both and I would be happy to!

Requesting,

Tim

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bleakbeauty
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posted October 30, 2005 06:07 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thanks alot!

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sweet_face
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posted October 31, 2005 05:16 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
M3:April 28 1989
Katy,Tx
11:51 p.m.

H1m:August 15 1986
Houston,Tx
1:11 a.m.

Thank You soooo much Tim!!!

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wilsontc
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posted October 31, 2005 11:49 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Sweet,

Per the previous post in this thread, I will look at the relationship energy of your both first. In your case, you have Libra modifying Midheaven (outer world), so you have a need to "relate" to the outer world. You have Venus opposite (energy is over-excited by) Pluto (transformation, also power), so you have a need to be powerful in a relationship. If you do NOT take the power in the relationship, others could over-power you. Pluto energy is either used to empower YOU or used by others to get power OVER you. With Venus in the sign of one its rulerships, the relationship energy is strong.

With Mars (being, also action, anger) focused in the 7th house, you may attract angry partners or you may feel a need to have an aggressive approach to relationships. However, since Mars is in the sign of its fall (very challenging energy), relationship conflict could be uncomfortable for you.

For him, he also has Libra modifying Midheaven. He has Venus conjunct (energy is combined with) Nadir (inner world), so his relationship energy is very personal and intimate for him. With Aries (being, also action, anger), there may be a need to "conquer" in a relationship: after the conquering is over, it may be challenging to maintain the same level of interest in the relationship. There is no focus of energy in the 7th house and so he does not have relationships for the sake of having relationships: there is always some other reason FOR the relationship.

There is a connection between the Sun and Moon, indicating a possibly compulsive attraction to the relationship. There are a few easy connections between the personal planets, but mostly stressful ones. Particularly Mars opposite Mars could indicate a tendency to fight or for each to aggressively pursue their point. Also Mars square (energy needs to be combined with) Venus indicates possible anger in the relationship.

Overall, there are few Venus connections to him and mostly stressful Venus connections to you, indicating little relationship attraction for him and stress in the relationship for you. While all of these issues can be worked through in a relationship, it might be helpful for you both to clarify what you want out of this relationship, if anything. If you are both just dating without any real future plans, then no discussion is necessary.

Relating,

Tim

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sweet_face
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posted November 01, 2005 04:22 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thanx tim, It is Very inSightful. i'LL come to you if and When im in another relationship.lol.

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astro junkie
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posted November 07, 2005 12:13 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Welcome bleakbeauty

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