posted October 31, 2005 10:26 AM            

I went into this dept store where my aunt works and he also moonlights as the security guard. We saw each other but I totally ignored his as I do never made a ounce of eye contact towards his way. I felt him though looking at me and grinning trying to figure things out.

So as I am leaving just finish paying for my things I hear over the intercom my name being paged and I look around cause who could be paging me I am by myself. I knew that it was him but why would he page me bc he is right over there. BUT when I turned around he was gone. So what he did was page me and ran out the door as I was approaching the service desk. As I approached the service desk the phone ast the desk was ringing I knew that it was him calling on that phone but no one at the desk answered it. He called twice on that phone too.

I stood there for about a minute no one showed up I thought he was prolly gone come from the back or something. So I say skip it I start heading to my car. I this point I am angry bc I feel like I am a grown as women don't play me. SO I call him on my cell phone which he did not tink I was going to do. And when he answered the first thing I said was UH DON"T PLAY WITH ME he was like huhn I said it again. He ws like I just wanted to say hi. Mind you this was his way I guess of breaking the ice so that we speak to each other in the gym when we see each other. TO be honest I am not sure if he was playing his games or was he really being sincere about wanting to say hi to me and was just to scared and insecure to do it in the mature way which would have been to just say hi in my face..

posted October 31, 2005 10:41 AM            

quote:

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Men become old, but they never become good. - Oscar Wilde

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I just love this quote

edited* I think you should try as much as you can and move on MM, there is more strength in letting go than holding on. Every time you are trying to let go it hurts like hell but eventually someone better comes along

Love and strength to you!

posted October 31, 2005 11:01 AM              

I've said this here before - I'm saying it again: Taurus will play emotional power games to get you do what they want (and Taurus also often likes to take your stuff to control you too - god, that drives me crazy. This is how ALL my friendships with Taureans have ended). Leo plays ego games and "I can top that" games to make you feel small and powerless, and thus more easily controlled (and my brother, a Leo-Aries-Scorpio, is a black belt in that). Scorpio of course plays psychological games to make you feel insecure and confused, so you're more easily manipulated and controlled. And last, but certainly not least AQUA plays HEAD GAMES - Aqua probably is the worst, because Aqua figures out your weaknesses on a rational, detached level, adn then exploits it. Aqua can belittle your intelligence, manipulate your emotions, prey of your phobias, or attack your ego, hell I once even had an Aqua take my stuff and hold it hostage, just like Taurus would do - and still be able to come across as disinterested and removed, which is part fo the Aqua game. So while you're all in a frazzle over something some Aqua did, they seem completely untouched or unmoved, given them the appearence of being in control.

posted October 31, 2005 07:54 PM              

I hate to generalize about star signs, but it really is striking how many aqua men seem to play these head games - judging by the number of desperate posts in this forum and from experience (sob!)

Classic example, both my best female and my best male friend are aquas. The female is very aloof when interested in a man, but doesnt play these perverse head games as my male aqua friend.

As friend he's what anyone would wish for, I love him to bits, but cant believe how he acts when he's interested in someone. Insecure beyond belief even though everyone thinks he's brilliant, charming, Mr. Wonderful.

Women who have treated him like dirt he's pining after for months/years. However, if she's genuinly interested in him he's playing these stupid games.

For instance latest example, he's started taking me along to this pub on Friday evenings where a young woman helps out. She clearly likes him, he clearly likes her (which unfortunately isnt as obvious to the girl as the friend at his side...) What does he do? After having gone to this pub for weeks alone on Friday evenings /or with male collegues, becoming friendly with this girl in the process, he then starts taking me along.He pretends he and I are a couple and pulls this whole story on her about him needing her advice about how he should ask me to marry him. Next time we are there, there's a guy she seems to be very friendly with, he kisses her on the cheek. My friend freezes, wants us to leave immediately, 'see I told you she really isnt intersted in me, we are never coming back to this place again'.......
I think the fixed sign aspect also plays a negative part in them not listening to anybody when they are 'fixed' on an opinion. I was talking my head off trying to convey this girl's point of view. What did he expect, he was pretending to be engaged to get married, what aspect of the whole mix was acting to attract????

posted November 01, 2005 05:34 AM              

Well I definitely know where I stand then.

posted November 01, 2005 09:55 AM            

This is true to go out of the way as he has done to get my attention means something. He is the type of person that has a indirect way of talking but I get it as maybe other ppl don't. He owes me an apology for past behavior and he knows it,plus he is going to have to confess to me how he is feeling that is what all this is about it is just a matter of time b4 he does that.