posted November 08, 2005 06:03 AM              

I ve read in Lindagoodmans love signs, that its a 6-8 relationship pattern and i am sure all u astro experts for sure know the benefits of that planetray pattern favourable vibrations. Can anybody sharing this 6-8 vibration combo share their expereinces ?? or does somebody know of people sharing the 6-8 pattern getting along super tight as lifepartners?

Besides we hav also analysed the relationship signs for both our charts and found that there were v few oppositions, sqaure aspects but quite a few trines sextiles &conjuncts which i understand are favourable and a good base for a harmonious life .isnt it guys

Few have pointed that they sense danger wen it comes to communication between sag and cancer. Godforbid we havent sensed or felt any communication bottleneck.Moreover my cancer man claims he hasnt faced any problem till now in communicating with me.

Is it too much of my typical sags direct ,ingenuous and at times blunt but guileless style of communicating or do u guys means the lack of open heart to heart communication between us? which is it.?

But seeing so many posts alerting the same problem , i am a bit tensed and really wonder if sag woman is a succesful combo for a cancer man.

In yet another post it is said"cancer and sag get along great but only as friends".Was this thought passed having in mind the oft repeated remark abt communication difficluties ,uncaring attitudes which sag may display or is there any other major bottleneck wen my learned pal wrote that ? plllllzzzzz clarify .

To top it all i am a firm beleiver of dear linda's love signs and hey guys hasnt she mentioned all good fairytale like things out there in cancer man and sagitarius woman ?? Atleast till now i guess our relationship has happened and been pleasant like wats she predicted.
And cancergg u definately are invited to my wedding...will let u know the venue and date once fixed !!

posted November 08, 2005 06:18 AM            

From my personal experience I can say that inconjunct aspect is the most difficult to deal with. The planets and points involved in a quincunx just don't understand each other, it is a separating aspect.

But you cannot estimate your relationship potential taking into consideration only your Suns interactions. All planets, synastry aspects and placements must be taken into consideration.

For instance I have Sun in Taurus which makes inconj aspect to Sagittarius and yet I love Saggies and get along well with them because I have supportively aspected Moon conj Neptune in Sag etc.

Or someone has Sun in Taurus in the IX, Taurus and Sag make inconj aspect but IX house placement gives Sag traits to this person.

Or you may have Sun conj Jupiter and so on.

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i am a bit tensed and really wonder if sag woman is a succesful combo for a cancer man.

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Just post your DOBs here

posted November 09, 2005 03:20 AM            

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Ranjani's Sun in Saggitarius and the guy’s Sun in Cancer

Your natures are so different that you are bound to clash at times. Very often when Ranjani feels the urge to travel, explore, expand, and follow a new star, the guy feels just the opposite: the urge to be close to family, to establish roots, to have children and provide for them, to be near close friends. Ranjani's desire for freedom and exploration is often at cross purposes with the guy’s need for security.

Ranjani tends to also be philosophical and detached about personal matters while the guy takes a much more personal, subjective, compassionate, and emotional approach to life. Although in theory your differences can complement each other, and sometimes they do, there are times when you will have to be very creative and imaginative to find ways to meet everyone's needs.

Ranjani's Moon in Virgo and the guy’s Moon in Taurus

Both of you derive security from contact with the earth (gardening, camping, living in the country), from working with natural materials (making bread, using clay, wood-working, using natural fibers) or from developing manual skills and practical expertise in some specific area. You are both rather cautious, carefully analyzing or ruminating over a possible change before proceeding. The guys, in particular, is rather slow to come to a decision and dislikes changes in the personal or domestic sphere, but once a choice is made, will go ahead with equanimity. Ranjani, on the other hand, worries, frets, and is very particular and difficult to please at times. The guy’s steadiness, even temper, emotional strength, and stability is very comforting to Ranjani at such times. Also, Ranjani does not 'let go' emotionally or sexually very easily, and the guy, who is more comfortable being sensual and instinctual, helps Ranjani to be more at ease too. The guy’s lazy, sloppy side can be very annoying to Ranjani at times. For the most part, however, you are quite compatible.

Sun Mutually Aspects Mars

Your relationship is extremely energizing and stimulating! The sexual attraction between you is very strong and fiery. You also have the capacity to be a dynamic, powerful working team, but if you fail to cooperate with each other or you get in each other's way, there is no limit to the anger and fury you can have for each other! The tendency to be combative and competitive with each other is very strong, so try to avoid inciting anger in each other and being so tactless and blunt with one another that you hurt each other's pride and feelings.

Ranjani's Moon conjunct the guy’s Mars

There is a dynamic, almost aggressive quality to your relationship. A good outlet for this energy is competitive sports and outdoor activities. You enjoy challenging each other and competing against one another. You also have the ability to accomplish a great deal together and make a dynamic working partnership - as long as you can refrain from arguing with each other. Sexual and physical attraction is also very strong and 'hot'. If your sexual relationship is not satisfactory, you begin arguing with each other; in this relationship, frustrated sexuality turns to anger. Assuming that there are no physical impediments, the potential for becoming pregnant is high, so it is essential to be scrupulous in the use of birth control methods if pregnancy is not desired.

Ranjani's Mars opposition the guy’s Sun

The physical and sexual attraction between the two of you is very strong. You are attracted to one another's strength and integrity. You may also enjoy competing with each other in games. However, be wary of a tendency to become rivals or adversaries, trying to out-perform each other.

Ranjani's Sun square Ranjani guy’s Mars

This is a passionate relationship, but also a rather aggressive and combative one at times. Sex may be a bit rough, crude, or insensitive as well. You stimulate each other both in sexual and non-sexual ways, but you are also inclined to irritate each other. As long as you don't end up fighting and competing with each other, you can accomplish a great deal together. However, the aggressiveness of this relationship is prone to foster anger and hurt feelings - so be careful not to incite hostility in each other.

Ranjani's Moon sextile the guy’s Sun

You are drawn to one another because you instinctively understand each other. There are strong feelings of belonging, closeness, and acceptance between you. You blend and merge with one another very easily and a strong mutual interdependence is likely to develop very quickly. The guy, especially, feels affirmed and strengthened by Ranjani's support and 'backing'. Because of the deep affinity between you, you are more motivated and more able to overcome any problems or differences that arise in your relationship.

Ranjani's Venus trine the guy’s Sun

Yours is a congenial and enjoyable relationship, for you both like, love, and appreciate one another, and make special efforts to please one another. You also share a similarity in tastes and enjoyment of leisure activities and pleasures.

Ranjani's Jupiter square the guy’s Sun

Enthusiasm, optimism, and good will are very strong in your relationship. Ranjani is able to see ways that the guy can grow, expand, and develop in material and concrete ways as well as in attitude and inner ways. Ranjani, however, may try to push the guy too hastily and be deceived by unrealistic expectations, resulting in foolish joint speculations and unsuccessful ventures. Try not to let your shared enthusiasm and optimism spawn unrealistic hopes and expectations.

Ranjani's Saturn square the guy’s Sun

Ranjani must be very careful not to harshly criticize or judge the guy. There is a strong tendency for the guy to feel blocked, frustrated, and discouraged by Ranjani. Typically, Ranjani will feel surprised by thei guy’s feelings of frustration and anger, and feel that the guy is just being overly sensitive to criticism. There is an element of truth to both viewpoints: Ranjani tends to be too critical of the guy and the guy tends to be too sensitive to the criticism; the combination can be disastrous! The guy may try to ignore the problem, but ignoring the problem will not cause the problem to disappear. This is a relationship that can help both of you mature a great deal; you are able to build a secure, stable life together and face many challenges and responsibilities together that you have been trying to avoid. However, the tendency to become overly concerned with your responsibilities and be too conservative, cautious, and restrictive towards each other must not get out of hand, or you will both feel severely confined and restricted by being together.

Ranjani's Uranus trine the guy’s Mercury

Your conversations are spirited and often exhilarating. You spark each other to view situations in a new light and you inspire creative, original, inventive ideas. This relationship inspires creativity and originality, and a fresh attitude towards life - and you should share a very interesting life together.

Ranjani's Pluto square the guy’s Mercury

Your conversations have a deep, probing quality. There is a strong tendency to attempt to coerce your partner to understand your point of view and agree with you. Ranjani may attempt to dominate Ranjani guy’s thinking, or radically alter Ranjani guy’s view of things.

Ranjani's Ascendant trine the guy’s Venus

Romantic attraction is strong and you both deeply admire and appreciate each other. Romantic or sentimental gestures, such as bringing home flowers, come naturally to both of you and this love affair is very important to both of you - and could possibly lead to a long-term relationship or marriage.

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Well, I think this relationship is not the easiest one, you may be very attracted to each other but I am not sure if it works in the long run.
If it is very important to you and you want to know more you should turn to a professional astrologer or you can also post your question and dobs at http://www.astrologyweekly.com/forum/

posted November 09, 2005 03:02 PM              

I think it's all down to mutual aspects and the willingness of the people involved to make a good go of things.