posted November 13, 2005 09:39 AM              

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Just wondering if Pisces guys like quality time alone sometimes. The reason is that I seem to come to the conclusion that they disappear then reappear as if nothing happened. I know as a fire sign, I can be impatient and need to be more patient but is it just me or does anybody else feel the same way. Appreciate opinions on above. Thanks everyone.

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posted November 13, 2005 09:47 AM              

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Hi Aries

Oh my goodness YES - well I’m a female but yeah. I need my alone time.
I need to listen to music by myself, or play the piano, or read or study astrology. That kind of thing.

When my confidence has shrivelled up - or if someone’s stressing me out - I need some alone time to recharge emotionally.

But you know, alone time doesn’t always have to be spent alone. I don’t mind someone there - as long as they don’t make noise or move around a lot.

I like me so sometimes I want to be around only me and they call us modest

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posted November 13, 2005 10:18 AM              

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Thanks Water Nymph for your reply. It has been so helpful to me. As you are a pisces, I hear the true facts and I am delighted. Thank you.

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posted November 13, 2005 01:05 PM              

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I know this pisces male...very cute...
When I think of him...the first thing that comes to my mind is how often he disappears and reappears as if nothing happened !!!
Also, he doesn't open up easily...I ask him a question and he just doesn't answer...but he does it in such a way that seems he forgot to answer or he just didn't hear it ! Also, he has a tendency to say Big things...Once he told me " I Love You " and that he fell in love with me as soon as he saw me, then left because we live in different cities, and I heard from him months later ! Not even a message !
The point is when he says sth he acts like he means it but after a while it's like he forgot it !!! I really can't understand him ! Oh, and he likes women very much !
Generally speaking, he has a very good heart and is adorable but I can't take him seriously...
BTW, he has told me he likes to be alone at times and that he is shy but hey, I like to be alone too and can be shy as well but I never say I Love you unless I mean it ! He is a real puzzle or simply confused !
So, AriesPink, disappearing and reappearing happens a lot !hehe
WaterNymph what you do is normal, I do that too. I need time to think or recharge emotionally as you say. Also, I like being with myself too ! hehe but this is very different from disappearing without explaining at all ! I think one has to look at the whole chart...being a pisces sun is not enough, right ?

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posted November 13, 2005 01:20 PM              

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IknowUcappy
Ahhh true

But when you say disappear - do you mean forever, or temp? and if temp - long or short.
I disappear for a few day - but that’s it. Anything longer, you’ll hear from me before I leave.

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posted November 13, 2005 01:25 PM            

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mmmmmm, I only have my Venus in Pisces, but I know that when I want alone time, I'll do anything to get it. I can't stand it when I want to be alone, and someone's in the room with me. It drives me up the damn walls.

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posted November 13, 2005 01:39 PM              

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definitely yes...whether you're a guy or girl, pisceans always need some time alone.

Taurus in 12th, Moon in Scorpio in 6th, Asc. in Cancer...

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posted November 13, 2005 01:57 PM              

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I know U Cappy,
Excellent reply. I too find the same problem with pisces guy. They say something then they do not mention it the next time. Weird, but it happens. It is like, did I imagine it in the first place.

Thanks for the reply, much appreciated.

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posted November 13, 2005 04:42 PM              

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To> IKnowUCappy/AriesPink

I'm on the same page as you are, but I have a Pisces Moon. They say that having this they become psychic or become telepathic (Jean Grey did this in the comic-book world). I could be one of the two, but I don't predict the future, I just have these mysterious vibes.

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*Sun: Leo, Moon: Pisces, ASC: Capricorn

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posted November 13, 2005 04:49 PM              

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I have Venus and Mercury in Pisces, I think and feel like one. I also have my Sun on the cusp at 0 degrees Aries.
I absolutely need alone time, Don't worry often times he may be be thinking about you, sorting out spiritual issues, maybe just needing some time to be creative and contemplative. I will bet he always returns refreshed, happy and willing to give you his complete attention.

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posted November 13, 2005 06:47 PM              

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Charlotte, what a lovely reply. You are so right, he always comes back and when I read your reply, it was so so comforting. I so needed that assurance and you are very kind. THANK YOU.

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posted November 13, 2005 11:14 PM              

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Pisces is like a fish in an ocean... They are always afraid of being caught... Don't push them hard. Just stay there and they'll never leave you.

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posted November 14, 2005 03:42 AM              

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Hey , AriesPink , I'm so glad my reply was helpful ! I say the same thing too ! " Did I imagine that or what" ? hehehe
WaterNymph, he disappears more than a few days !!! And I should emphasize on the fact that I don't push him or expect anything from him at all ! I believe in the "let live" philosophy...but hey there are some limits...I have pisces in my chart as well...and I Love that...but I also know that respecting others is imperative...whether you are a pisces or an aquarius for example...
Here's to the Phantom Pisces guys !
( not all pisces guys are included ofcourse...I bet there are many mature pisces males out there... )
BTW , this guy has moon in scorpio.

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posted November 14, 2005 05:22 AM              

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Pop Producer,

I loved the reply, "Just stay there and they'll never leave you". I will remember that phrase all the time. Great reply.

IknowUCappy,

I am the same as you, never say anything and the same thing happens. Good to know, I am not alone in this one. As you say, not all pisces are the same. I never expected such a good reply, brilliant.

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posted November 14, 2005 07:05 AM              

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Im a Pisces guy, and I require time alone. I like to live amoungst it all sure, but if I dont get say a day or so a week for just me, to dream and to unwind or just to roam the inside of my head.... i get a little destructive and frustrated...

We must dream.... We are nurturing the start of a companionship with something very big, bigger than anything or anyone you can conceive and it takes time and thought to do it....

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posted November 14, 2005 11:01 AM              

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i am pisces ( sun, moon, mercury, venus saturn in pisces) I like time alone to reflect and think. I dont like too much company. Time alone help to clean away the foggy film of mental stress and daily problems. I appear spacey sometimes even in meetings.My boss has told me about this spaciness. He do not know i am pisces.

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posted November 14, 2005 08:49 PM              

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Umm, thats making me think n think...basically I spend lot of time alone, for myself and so can't decide if being with someone special will make me still have some time without her or not..maybe not...maybe yes ... will have to wait and watch ... probably I would like to have quiet moments even though someone is out there .. speaking & understanding without words you know ... going into the piscean dream/imaginative/thoughtful world.
And surely when I am concentrating on some task/work, I really like to be left alone to have my full concentration on it.

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posted November 14, 2005 10:17 PM              

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Hey AriesPink, maybe have some quiet moments along with him and check if he lets you in his quiet world, everytime he disappears (I mean even if you are there, he can have his quiet moments). ... go some place quiet, mountains, not-so populated beaches and hear his quietness. I know it would be quiet difficult for an Aries, to keep quiet Lol .. I think it won't be keeping quiet forever, when he returns back, he should be all ears for you

Hey IUKCappy, thats funny .. maybe his meaning of 'I Love you' is different, maybe he likes you and loves you because he likes you .. he he I dunno what I am trying to say Ever asked him what does he love you for or the meaning of love for him. Just kidding .. as you said all pisceans are different

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posted November 14, 2005 11:03 PM              

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I'm a Pisces moon and I need lots and lots of alone time. I get overtaxed by other people. Pisces is very "absorbant" of other people's vibes and it just gets to be too much.

Another thing, since you're an Aries - Pisceans (Suns and moons) aren't so good at focusing on one person. Aries tends to want to be the center of their partner's world, and you're not going to get that witha Piscean. Our minds, hearts, ear and eyes are very open. We take in everything. We're a lot like Aquarians in this sense, but lacking that cerebral detachment, so we sense everything and *feel* engaged by all of it all the time. When it's a good feeling, i's like being intimate with the cosmos - when it's a negative feeling, it's like being bombarded. As you can imagine this can get exhausting (one reason why we need alone time) and beause we consitantly distracted by what we sense and feel, not so good for demanding partners.

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posted November 15, 2005 03:49 AM              

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Sometimes Pisces guys can't help but be alone. Even when surrounded by people.

If you connect with the deepest part of people, its only rarely that you can communicate with the side they put forward.

And as GN said, the weight of knowledge we carry can be so very overwhelming that withdrawal is a survival mechanism.

Swerve

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posted November 15, 2005 05:11 AM              

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Great replies from everyone. Delighted.

Gemini Nymph, you are right with being an Aries. I tend to think that the world revolves just on me and my little world. I am learning though to be patient and I think that it is paying off. Reading your reply, I am gaining much more insight on pisces and learning from same.

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posted November 15, 2005 05:20 AM              

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[quote]We're a lot like Aquarians in this sense, but lacking that cerebral detachment, so we sense everything and *feel* engaged by all of it all the time.[quote]

Its emotional detachment, not cerebral.

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posted November 15, 2005 05:30 AM              

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I think GN meant that descriptively Oddball, not literally.

Swerve

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posted November 16, 2005 04:57 AM              

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misterhank , you have a pisces moon ! May I ask you...how do you behave when you are in love ?
villy ,this guy is mysterious...as a matter of fact, I have asked him...he believes in love, he is romantic , and he is clear on what he means when he says it...but after a while it's like he has amnesia ! Hmmmm...the truth is I haven't let anything happen between us...I don't really trust him because of this instability in his behaviour. Anyway, not all pisceans are like that .

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