posted November 16, 2005 06:44 PM
Hey Zero, I started a thread not long ago about people who have stelliums in their chart (involving personal planets) and whether they are attracted to others of that sign.You fall under this category. You have your Merc/Venus AND Mars in Aquarius. You were bound to end up with an Aqua lol Not mentioning your moon in Libra which trines Aquarius. It seems like a nice and exciting relationship to me.
It looks very similar to one of the examples I gave on the other thread, where he was: Virgo/Libra moon/Libra Merc/Libra Venus (leo asc conj mars) .. She was Libra/Scorpio moon/ Scorpio Venus/ Scorpio Mars ..and they lived happily ever after..well mostly happily lol
In your natal charts you both have Venus/Mars conjunct (you didn’t post the degrees, so just going by signs). In your case, this conjunction trines your moon. In her case it conjuncts her moon. This says you’re both very comfortable with your sexuality, with your emotions and expressing them and you’re both quite confident and well rounded in the relationships/romance area. She is more sensitive/emotional/watery – Pisces. You’re more wacky/experimental/lighthearted.. but she understands this side of you, having an Aqua sun. You’re both probably attracted to the fact that you’ve found someone who is just as comfortable and happy expressing themselves sexually and romantically.
You have a cross-aspect/double whammy ..between your Suns and Mercuries. This very nice for mental compatibility. Your Sun (a singleton) and her Mercury are in Capricorn. Her Sun (also a singleton) and your Mercury are in Aqua. You understand each other and can communicate quite well, which is more that you can say for most people. You both feel misunderstood on some level, but you understand each other quite well. You’ll often find common ground in conversations and they will, most times, flow easily. You support each other’s egos and admire each other from an intellectual stand point (not only a romantic one).
So, in a nutshell, it looks great to me! The only problems “might” (but they won’t be major) arise from the fact that you have a singleton in water (Saturn).. She has a singleton in air (her sun). This is *more* cause for attraction, but it has a warning label attached to it. I’ve seen this so many times, in my own life and in my friends’ and family’s charts, and basically most charts I looked at.. People crave what they don’t have and they’re very attracted to it. You don’t have much water, so her sensitivity and real genuine emotion, which she expresses a LOT, from crying at Walt Disney cartoons lol to telling you how much she loves you..is something you’ll find very appealing. On the other hand, her sun is the only air in her chart. I’m sure she loves your friendliness, your ability to really lift her spirits and completely snap her out of a depressive watery mood she might be in. She’ll love your sociable streak, your wacky ideas.. most everything you do (the AIR in you) will appeal to her. So this is great, as long as you can strike a balance. Best case scenario would be for you to learn from her emotion and become a bit more sensitive and for her to learn from your light-hearted logical approach to life and become a bit more detached and happy. The warning label is.. if you don’t try to understand this side of her and try to be more sensitive (watery).. she might get hurt long term (with all that Pisces)..and if she doesn’t learn to detach more and be a bit more airy, like you are..long term you might feel suffocated, and what you felt was “sweet” to start with might end up quite annoying to you…that watery emotion that you can’t really understand..
So try to learn from each other instead of bickering, because you do complete each other element wise..
It looks great overall!
PS. I Forgot to mention, because your sun in Capricorn is your only earth.. you will feel as though she grounds you quite a bit. She has a stellium in Capricorn, so a lot of times you might feel she’s very down to earth and someone reliable who will be there for you, no matter what.