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Topic: Am I wrong for doing that????
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Mama Mia
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posted November 16, 2005 04:53 PM
  
I met this Libra guy a lil over a week ago right. We talked on the phone all week and was supposed to go out on Saturday. Well he did not call and I did not call him either. To be honest when I woke up Saturday morning I was not feeling like being bothered with him so him not calling me was right on time. Anyway he called me first thing Sunday and has been calling me damn near non stop since. Here is the killing part I have not answered my phone one time he has been calling and leaving messages. I do not like him and I do not want it to go any further. He has called me like 5:44 in the morning a block call of course I knew that it was him bc he has to be at work at 6:00 am. I just thought after one or two unreturned calls he would get it and just stop calling me like a normal person. Finally this is it I am tired of him calling me so I sent him a text and asked him nicely please stop blowing up my phone I have decided not to do this. I really do not feel like I owe him anyhing seeing that I do not know him at all we have only been chatting for a few days. He strikes me as possesive. Those type of guys scare me all the time. He has Venus in Scorp so I ca see why. I am Pisces I hate to hurt ppl's feelings but he just would not stop it...Anybody understand what I am saying.. IP: Logged |
sue g
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posted November 16, 2005 05:20 PM
Absolutely girl.....I think you did the right thing.....God, he sounds very persistent....Venus in Scorp....mmm...i have that, so I understand what you are saying.You didnt do anything wrong or owe him anything...and he shouldnt be so selfish to call you that time of the morning too...that aint normal behaviour is it ?? Good luck Love
Sue xxxx
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Mama Mia
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posted November 16, 2005 05:36 PM
Oh no that is not normal behaviour at all. He is a trip and he can keep it moving. I do not like feeling like I am being possessed.
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Neptune's Muse
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posted November 16, 2005 05:54 PM
You did the right thing!  I have had a similar experience with a couple of people, the obsessive type, I have no clue why I attract these stalkers, but there was a LIBRA as well, and he wouldn't stop calling and he didn't get the message either, even after I told him to stop calling me, it was sort of beyond him, lol, So yes, you did the RIGHT thing! Asbolutely! IP: Logged |
Lauren
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posted November 16, 2005 07:25 PM
MamaMia, reading your post the first thing I thought was Scorp Venus lol..and he HAS IT Reminds of my Libra disaster, it's a few threads bk under "infantile behaviour".. When I stopped talking to him, he also called a LOT. Most times I didn't pick up. The couple of times when I did pick up, he kept silent and said nothing and then hung up :| One time at 3 am, he called drunk and woke me up and all he said was "just wanted to hear your voice", and hung up AGAIN.. This had stopped for a fair while, which I was very happy about, until a few days ago when I got an anonymous email telling me my BF is cheating on me.. which I later found out he SENT (this is all in my other thread).. I definitely think you're doing the right thing. I dislike possessiveness, and someone trying to pressure me into something.. It really bothers me. I don't know what it is about Libra/Scorp Venus.. He can be very nice and he was for agess bk when I didn't have a bf.. BUT Gosh when things don't go his way, he can be pretty horrible. IP: Logged |
Mama Mia
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posted November 17, 2005 10:01 AM
Well he called me again after I sent him that text. I guess he did not get it or he ignored it so I told him over the phone to please not call me again. How about almost 10 o'clock my phone rings but it was a private call I don't answer those he called 5 times in a row, the last time I answered and he hung up. I know that it was his crazy A$$.. uuuggghhh I am so glad that he does not know where I live so so forth.. IP: Logged |
Yang
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posted November 17, 2005 03:48 PM
Well, he does sound very possesive. Tell him that his possessiveness is something that you don't like, and if he denies it, just tell him about all the times he has phoned at odd times. If he carries on, threaten him. Tell him you will do something which will terrify him, so that he doesn't want to know you anymore. I know that this is extreme but, if he STILL carries on, opt to change your number.IP: Logged |
future_uncertain
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posted November 18, 2005 09:43 PM
pSyCHo!!!!I'm thinking that if you continue to ignore him, he'll get bored and move on. Whatever you do, don't answer the phone...unless it is to tell him that you've put a trace on your phone and plan to take him to court for telephone harassment. And if you make this threat, follow through. I know what this is like, except it wasn't/isn't a stranger. It really sucks and feels terribly unfair. It's so creepy! Good luck to ya!  (And turn off your ringer so that whacko can't disrupt your sleep!) IP: Logged |
Lauren
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posted November 19, 2005 03:41 AM
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tell him that you've put a trace on your phone and plan to take him to court for telephone harassment
that's actually a great idea.. IP: Logged |
pisceangirl90
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posted November 19, 2005 05:06 AM
Hey!!well im a piscean too and i dont like very persistant guys either..  and if hes still calling you i think its better if you called him back once more and let him know exactly what you feel VERY CLEARLY.. and even if then he keeps calling :s ..tell him you will call the police or something. Its impotant you tell him that you do not like him calling you at odd hours and if neccasary you could use a serious tone to get the message thru.. Good luck with the freako!!! :d IP: Logged |
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