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Topic: Sun Moon Confliction..
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Mama Mia
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posted November 17, 2005 03:37 PM
  
This is so strange but I have my moon and Venus Merc and Asc in Aqua but I have a Pisces sun. I noticed that anybody that seems really attached to me in a romantic relationship will get on my last nerve, but that is what Pisces like we like close nit stuff like that. But the guys that I attract and like mostly are like me love their space and freedom,but those are the ones that I want to pull close to me. I think it is a conflict in my Sun and moon. They are not at all in sync.. Anybody else Sun moon pushes them and pulls them..IP: Logged |
Gemini Nymph
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posted November 17, 2005 02:45 PM
As gem with a lot of Uranian in her and a Pisces moon, I can tell you that air with Pisces is an uneasy mix at times. Sometimes, for me, it works great: creativity, art, music, philosophy, spirituality...anything where my air and water strengths can find a common ground and work together. The problem is most of this in "loner" stuff, and doesn't help out with relating with others in an ongoing and intimate relationship. Most of my problems come from relating and getting along with other people. There is where my air and Pisces influences conflict. I want independence and I want intimacy. I like being affectionate, but I'm fickle and hate excessiveness and showiness. I want to truat and believe others, yet I'm inclined to be cynical and think people are generally insincere and "all talk." I think this may be a little harder for me since my moon and Sun actually square. But my Mars and NN are in Aqua, and my Sun aspects both my Aqua Mars and Uranus singleton in a Grand Trine, so I can't scape that erratic uranian vibe in my my chart.  So I feel for you. IP: Logged |
proxieme
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posted November 17, 2005 03:20 PM
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Most of my problems come from relating and getting along with other people. There is where my air and Pisces influences conflict. I want independence and I want intimacy. I like being affectionate, but I'm fickle and hate excessiveness and showiness. I want to truat and believe others, yet I'm inclined to be cynical and think people are generally insincere and "all talk."
Amen on all that.
I have a Pisces Sun trine (my 1st House) Uranus, sq Neptune, and quincunx Pluto; an Aqua Moon in the 3rd; and a Scorp Asc. I'm a regular Push-Me-Pull-You. IP: Logged |
SweetCappie
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posted November 17, 2005 04:38 PM
Oh yeah, I have the same push-pull issue. I'm the #1 example of contradictions. I have a Sun-Moon opposition, my Gem rising opposes all my Sag planets.
In romance, prior to me falling for the person, I'm detached, not too affectionate, inattentive, and skittish of making any committment (Venus Sag). It's like I want them to prove and show their feelings and interest in me, but I don't want to feel possessed by them (except sexually, Mars in Leo). However, when I fall for the person or become attached, I'm the total opposite (moon in cancer): sentimental, very affectionate, hungry for attention and affection, passionate, need lots of reassurances and security, willing to make deep committments, hard for me to let go if they leave me, but still independent (meaning I pursue my own hobbies without my partner). I think it's an emotional defense because once I really like or love someone, my feelings run very deep and then its hard for me to detach my heart and I get hurt easily. I surprise my lovers alot and most guys get scared by my intensity because I guess they expected me to remain the same (detached). ------------------
Cap sun, Cancer moon (1st), Gemini rising, stellium in Sag (7th house). IP: Logged |
pidaua
Knowflake Posts: 67
From: Back in AZ with Bear the Leo
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted November 17, 2005 05:01 PM
Hmmm....yes Mama Mia, I hear you  Although I have a Sag Sun / Aries moon (which forms a trine) I have that pesky Uranus in Libra (in my first house). It opposes my Moon and squares my natal Mercury in Capricorn. I feel that push me pull you in my life all the time. At times I want someone to be close, to possess me, but then I feel fenced in which makes me want to run. I want someone to give me my space, but not so much I feel I am on my own. I enjoy when someone is honest about how they may be a bit jealous, but that they trust me. In return, I can get slightly jealous as well - but only if they try to make me jealous. I call it the "I love you yet not at all" Meaning.. that I can love someone so completely, but it scares the hell out of me, so I talk myself out of it.. then back into it LOL... Moon in the 7th can be weird Add to that my Sun / Venus squares my natal Pluto conjunct Ascendant in Virgo. Lots of power struggles. It would be refreshing to find someone that can accept me for who I am and also trust me without the games. I am the one that ends up looking past their idiosynchrocies only to get caught under their critical view. Then again, I had been with people that had major doses of Virgo in their charts or Virgo moons. Most of my own planets have a hard time with that placement. The only way to deal with it is to intergrate those parts of yourself and keep reminding your heart that "Hey... am I really feeling like they are getting on my nerves or am I letting my own issues get into the way of this?" IP: Logged |
Planet_Soul
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posted November 19, 2005 04:54 AM
Oh yeah, I am a walking contradiction. My Sag stellium wants to be loud, flirty, raising hell, and doesn't give a hoot-to heck with it all. My Pisces Moon wants to be loving, committed, and gentle. Add in the fact that my Sag stellium happens to be in the Neptune ruled 12th, and you get me-a complex one indeed. My Capricorn first house is the grand finale, I want to appear serious, conservative, and classy (which I try my best to be) but sometimes I just wanna have fun. Boy, and when I do let loose all of the built up energy. It takes people by surprise every time. Very unpredictable. Like just before getting out of work today, I was laughing up a storm with some male buddies and my best girl pal with some racy talk. Summing it up, I think the Sun square Moon leads me to repress myself more than I should. All in good fun, and when its all over I quietly come back home to my peaceful Neptunian oasis of serenity.IP: Logged |
jkxx
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posted November 19, 2005 06:36 AM
Quite a few of those placements sound familiar, especially the guys with Cap planets/Neptune in the 12th. I have Sun/Moon/Mercury/Jup/Neptune/Asc in Cap, with the moon and mercury conjunct neptune in the 12th. (And on top of that Sun square Pluto/sextile Saturn, with Sat being in the 10th house). I just can't get around being serious most of the time or it takes systematic effort to get there, kind of like having to open some very heavy doors indeed. I can fantasize about stuff happening, but it seems reality's always too harsh/against me and a lot colder than what I imagine.IP: Logged |
astro junkie
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posted November 22, 2005 01:09 PM
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