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Topic: why do I care so much? why do I jump into things feelings first so quick?
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carlfloydfan
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posted November 29, 2005 11:25 PM
 
I know it's a problem and I need to stop. Knowing is half the battle of course. I'd rather be detached emotionally and even intellectually until I really get to know someone. I just can't see the point in continuing to make an effort with strangers when so many come and go in my life so quickly. Is it to much to ask that things be give and take equally? I am a huge believer in that with emotions, sharing my writings, ect. I will offer myself completely as long as the other person does as well. But just that feeling deep within, of hurt when it feels like someone has come (and gone for no reason) is awful. Not to sound arrogrant but I believe I feel (both positive and negative) stronger than most people. and boy does that thumping heart of pain suck big time first thing in the morning.....always first thing in the morning too or late at night when I am ansy but left with nothing to do but HW. here is my chart for reference..maybe it signifies a tendency to feel to strong to soon about friends and girls. Sun Scorpio 14°27'27 09/10 direct
Sun is technically near the end of house 9 and is interpreted in house 10. Moon Aries 21°58'46 03 direct
Mercury Sagittarius 00°17'00 10 direct
Venus Sagittarius 21°11'35 11 direct
Mars Capricorn 23°15'42 01 direct
Jupiter Capricorn 09°48'50 12 direct
Saturn Scorpio 18°31'15 10 direct
Uranus Sagittarius 12°03'54 11 direct
Neptune Sagittarius 29°32'06 11/12 direct
Neptune is technically near the end of house 11 and is interpreted in house 12.
Pluto Scorpio 02°34'03 09 direct
True Node Taurus 27°26'17 04 retrograde
House positions (Placidus)
Ascendant Capricorn 22°49'14
2nd House Pisces 08°13'45
3rd House Aries 18°27'54
Imum Coeli Taurus 17°21'45
5th House Gemini 09°39'49
6th House Gemini 29°58'17
Descendant Cancer 22°49'14
8th House Virgo 08°13'45
9th House Libra 18°27'54
Medium Coeli Scorpio 17°21'45
11th House Sagittarius 09°39'49
12th House Sagittarius 29°58'17
Major aspects
Sun Sextile Jupiter 4°39
Sun Conjunction Saturn 4°04
Moon Trine Venus 0°47
Moon Square Mars 1°17
Moon Trine Neptune 7°33
Moon Square Ascendant 0°50
Mars Sextile Saturn 4°44
Mars Conjunction Ascendant 0°26
Saturn Sextile Ascendant 4°18
Neptune Sextile Pluto 3°02
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Dark Sider
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posted November 29, 2005 11:40 PM
the heart of pain is normal for us, there isnt anything wrong with it. Ive had it and will have it agin, So will you.Why do you care so much? this leads me to think you've noticed others who dont? am i correct in that assumption? if so then i wanna let you know that i did too. Its part of your depth. pure and simple, even for us complicated scorps. Jumping into feelings. Agin the same with others. These are what make you what/who you are and there is no reason to change them ever. If you try to feel and do as others then you can loose yourself, and you dont want to do that. Be you. People comming and going in your life is normal to.Ive felt how meaningless some relations can be, here one minute gone the next. It can be despairing to be honest. Focus on those that are around you the most. IP: Logged |
astro junkie
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posted November 30, 2005 02:48 PM
I had to laugh first, cuz I saw your Moon in Aries, and your Mercury & Venus in Sag - and you ask "why do I jump into things so quick?"(sorry) Well, there's part of the clue ... Also, your Moon is in the 3rd House, and your Venus is in your 11th. This is not a bad thing. Lot's of room for plenty of creativity (plus the freedom and gumption to do it!). ------------------
... it's better to light a candle than curse the darkness IP: Logged |
Stargazer
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From: just left of center
Registered: May 2009
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posted November 30, 2005 03:51 PM
Hi! I'm a Virgo/sun female... but i also have an Aries Moon in the 3rd and cappy Asc.
I also have Mars and Neptune in Scorpio.I think that you should look at this as a good thing.... People will come and go.. lots of people go through life being detached and really picky.. (Believe me i'm a virgo.. i've got picky down!)
I'm thankful for that Aries moon it adds a huge dose of courage to the plate... its offered me lots of opportunities... Don't stop making the effort.... it will have been worth it when you one day look back.
I think we attract those who come into our lives... your friends, lovers even enemies are all your mirrors... they show you things about yourself that might otherwise have missed  IP: Logged |
taurean_scorpion
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posted November 30, 2005 04:09 PM
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I just can't see the point in continuing to make an effort with strangers when so many come and go in my life so quickly. Is it to much to ask that things be give and take equally? I am a huge believer in that with emotions, sharing my writings, ect. I will offer myself completely as long as the other person does as well.
yeah, i get you on that... maybe you get bored too easily and have trouble finding the person that's creative and and always "on the go" as you are. You need to able to speak to your partner about philosophy and religion for you have great interest in them and they are a big part of your life...you need to have a "spiritual" connection w/ them. am i right, or no? just give it some time....and as much as you're into meaningful relationships, others are too; just remember that everyone's different and not all are into "pouring their feelings out" so quickly...it's hard getting to know someone by being detached. just start by asking questions about "their" life and share your experiences, etc...and slowly things will change. you probably won't do this w/ every person you meet, obviously...choose a person you're interested in and start from there. hope i helped...
btw, I also have Jupiter in 12th, Mars in 10th, similar to your mars in cappy, and pluto in scorpio... Ah...i feel like my mind's wandering off a bit. Taurus in 12th, Moon in Scorpio in 6th, Asc. in Cancer
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