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gemini girl
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posted December 01, 2005 01:15 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
guys i dont want to seem like i always bring my problems here. i didnt know what i wanted. i didnt want to fall in love with this guy especially since he is an aquarius. first he started visiting like more than 3 months ago. then he started visiting me and not my brothers. i became attached some what cause he is around me everyday. its like he only sleeps at his house. he seems shy in a way. everybody says he is in love with me his guy friends teases him. just when i think ok now he is so into me, he says something that confuses me. the day before yesterday he asked me how he should ask a girl out if he likes her, so i said tell her straight he replied he is too shy to tell her. now this sounds so pathetic the part where he asked that. but here's what i dont get about him. he is like someone that pretends he cant understand french, meanwhile he speaks it fluently just so he can get the drift. if that makes sense. i really cant take this any more everytime he asks me if i like this guy or that guy. and today he acted in a so what no chalant manner. he isnt a player he is so serious and calculating. also when he is involved with someone he sticks till the other half lets go? is it just me or what. how can i figure out if he likes me. theres no way im gonna ask him.
when i asked his btime he said u ask too many questions about me why do u wanna know so lol that didnt work in any case thanx for just reading through. somehow helps to get it out of my system. i never felt one once of attraction, but now im insanely in love. female)
born on 9 June 1987 local time 04:25 pm
in Cape Town, SAFR U.T. 14:25
18e22, 33s55 sid. time 08:48:10
PLANETARY POSITIONS
planet sign degree house
Sun Gemini 18°13'55 07
Moon Scorpio 17°04'05 12
Mercury Cancer 11°52'28 08
Venus Taurus 28°01'59 06/7
Mars Cancer 12°37'01 08
Jupiter Aries 22°25'35 06
Saturn Sagittarius 17°50'32 01
Uranus Sagittarius 25°00'43 02
Neptune Capricorn 07°07'52 02
Pluto Scorpio 07°32'43 12
True Node Aries 09°04'10 05


HOUSE POSITIONS (Placidus)
Ascendant Scorpio 28°16'57
2nd House Sagittarius 23°48'46
3rd House Capricorn 16°03'47
Imum Coeli Aquarius 09°35'56
5th House Pisces 08°30'58
6th House Aries 16°10'54
Descendant Taurus 28°16'57
8th House Gemini 23°48'46
9th House Cancer 16°03'47
Medium Coeli Leo 09°35'56
11th House Virgo 08°30'58
12th House Libra 16°10'54

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and (male)
born on 9 Feb 1987 local time 12:00 midn.
in Cape Town, SAFR U.T. 22-00
18e22, 33s55 sid. time 08:27:21
PLANETARY POSITIONS
planet sign degree house
Sun Aquarius 19°36'30 04
Moon Gemini 25°06'21 08
Mercury Pisces 07°12'25 05
Venus Capricorn 04°14'10 02
Mars Aries 21°54'15 06
Jupiter Pisces 24°59'42 05
Saturn Sagittarius 19°08'09 02
Uranus Sagittarius 25°36'45 02
Neptune Capricorn 07°02'41 02
Pluto Scorpio 09°58'23 12
True Node Aries 13°10'20 06


HOUSE POSITIONS (Placidus)
Ascendant Scorpio 22°05'56
2nd House Sagittarius 18°51'17
3rd House Capricorn 11°21'44
Imum Coeli Aquarius 04°30'02
5th House Pisces 02°27'17
6th House Aries 09°13'54
Descendant Taurus 22°05'56
8th House Gemini 18°51'17
9th House Cancer 11°21'44
Medium Coeli Leo 04°30'02
11th House Virgo 02°27'17
12th House Libra 09°13'54

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Composite Horoscope midpoint method
PLANETARY POSITIONS
planet sign degree house
Sun Aries 18°55'13 06
Moon Virgo 06°05'13 11
Mercury Taurus 09°32'26 06
Venus Pisces 16°08'05 05
Mars Gemini 02°15'38 07
Jupiter Aries 08°42'39 05
Saturn Sagittarius 18°29'20 01
Uranus Sagittarius 25°18'44 02
Neptune Capricorn 07°05'16 02
Pluto Scorpio 08°45'33 12
True Node Aries 11°07'15 05/6
True Node is technically near the end of house 5 and is interpreted in house 6.


HOUSE POSITIONS (Placidus)
Ascendant Scorpio 25°11'27
2nd House Sagittarius 21°20'02
3rd House Capricorn 13°42'45
Imum Coeli Aquarius 07°02'59
5th House Pisces 05°29'08
6th House Aries 12°42'24
Descendant Taurus 25°11'27
8th House Gemini 21°20'02
9th House Cancer 13°42'45
Medium Coeli Leo 07°02'59
11th House Virgo 05°29'08
12th House Libra 12°42'24

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Mystic Gemini
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posted December 01, 2005 04:06 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Wow alot of similarities. Cool.


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Blind my eyes I cannot see
Lost my soul but found my heart
Again a time, when I shall start

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sangeetha
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posted December 02, 2005 09:07 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
that's sad....one more girl caught up with an aqua guy like me....my deep pity for you...

But the good thing is gemini ad aqua work out very well...and the best part is that his moon is in gemini(which is your sun)so you should not be having that much problems...

you have mentioned that his friends and others tell he is in love with you.....you should be happy that he has shown this much of his feelings outside....90% of the aquas don't show out much that they are in love...

you should understand and give him a lot of time and space for him to pick up courage to come out...
jus act normal to him....don show ur anxiety out(the anxiety you have about whether he loves you)...i'am sure he'll get crazy because your normal and open up!

let me know what happened then!!!
bye

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sangeetha
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posted December 02, 2005 09:11 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
forgot to add something


yes aquas confuse you...the moment you think he is so much into you ...he will do some nonsense thing that almst means" you are no big deal for me"......

you can't help it....
hope you put up with that!

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gemini girl
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posted December 03, 2005 03:09 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
thank you so so much for replies this man is seriously messing me up. the last 2 days he keeps saying he doesnt care. whats up with that even if its something little like if i say something like my dad will be furious at me if this or that happened hed just reply that. it is so unlike him, and he totally does that i couldnt care less act thing whatever its killing me. whats wrong with me. i cant be that ugly lol.its just that i cant understand how on earth for 3months he is around me almost 24/7 and then suddenly his behaviour towards me change like crazy. guys do u think that if other ppl says like his friends that he is in love that there can be truth to it. he totally denied it thats what my bro. says since then hes been acting so strange. yesterday he got angry at me and almost kinda shouted the following damn u really know how to mess me around because u dont tell me when to take a turn (he drove me around town), but i did tell him. after that i almost cried in front of him. i got out and he asked if he should come with. so i went alone to the shop. when i got back he kept asking if im angry at him. i just replied no. guess its the scorpio rising brooding thing cause he didnt believe me. then later he asked if i didnt make u angry did i make u sad, so i told him it doesnt matter forget it. i could see he felt really bad bout it. wasnt a big deal, but i sensed something more than just the impatience due to poor direction. anyways i dont know how to get through or out of it lately i went through bad breakups. i just recovered and feel ok to fall in love and i think i did. what to do?

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Planet_Soul
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posted December 03, 2005 03:36 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Well,

The Aqua I was with for over a year, used to always say he liked my independence. He loved it when we'd be in the middle of a conversation, and I had to let him go to get things done, etc. Almost like he liked the chase maybe? He was turned off by girls throwing themselves at him (not to imply that you are doing that) and that were clingy (my life revolves around you). So I don't know, maybe he has picked up on the vibe that you like him, and he's testing you? Trying to push you boundaries to see how you react? Just from what you say, it seems he does like you Maybe you shold just continue being nice to him, but don't wear your heart on your sleeve. Go out and have fun with your girls, and limit the tiem around him see what he does next.

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BlueTopaz124
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posted December 03, 2005 09:30 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for BlueTopaz124     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I agree very much, it looks to me like he is seeing how you are under pressure or when pushed. Don't put up with bad treatment from anyone, though, but what's best is continue living your life, go out with girlfriends, etc., and see where it goes from here. I would give this advice to anyone, though, and not just someone dating an Aquarius, male or female.

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wilsontc
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posted December 03, 2005 10:44 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Gemini,

In doing relationship comparisons, the first step is to understand how each person approaches relationships. This can be seen by looking for Libra, Venus, and the 7th house (all are about relationships) in each chart. In your chart, you have Libra modifying South node (easy goals, the past), indicating that relationships can hold you back from achieving your goals in life. You have unaspected Venus conjunct the Descendant (others). People who have unaspected planets can not "connect in" to the energy of the planet, as a result they tend to "overdo" the energy of the planet. With unaspected Venus you may tend to "overdo" relationships, getting into relationships to be in a relationship, rather than because that is the best thing for you. As mentioned, this possibility is increased because of Libra modifying South node.

Your friend has also Venus modifying South node. And he has Neptune (spirituality, also confusion, deception, idealization) conjunct (energy is combined with) Venus, indicating that he may be confused about relationships, may decieve others about relationships, and may idealize relationships...always be looking for the "perfect" relationshhip. The house positions can't be known without a definite birth time.

The next thing to look at is the relationship chart (your chart is in the middle and his is on the outside). The first thing to look for in relationship charts is any connections between the Sun and Moon by themselves. The Moon can't be determined, again because of the lack of a birth time, but your Suns are in aspect to each other, indicating a "connection" with each other. The next thing to look for are the aspects made between Sun, Mercury, Venus, and Mars (also called "personal" planets). There is more stress in your personal planets connection than easiness, and ALL connections to Venus (yours and his) are stressed, indicating stress in the relationship on both sides.

While you may or may not decide to get involved with this person, you might want to consider how this relationship is going to help YOU. Instead of relating simply to be relating, sit down and decide what are the pluses and what are the minuses. If you can find more pluses than minuses, then go for it! But if all you can see is endless stressful encounters such as you had in the car with him, you might consider letting him go and going out with someone who makes YOU feel good.

Relating,

Tim

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For information on basic astrological chart interpretation see:
http://www.geocities.com/wilsontctc

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gemini girl
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posted December 04, 2005 03:20 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
wow, guys i dont think ive ever had advice that felt more right for me at the time. thank you from the bottom of my heart. im blind cause im wrapped up in something that i only wanted to be a friendship. tim i wish i had ur insight thanx for making astrology seem so easy really its beyond interpretation, i love ur replies. BlueTopaz124 very good advice i also agree with the testing me under pressure thing. although i wouldnt have seen it on my own so again thanx so much. im just gonna live my life like he isnt in it. see if he makes an effort to be around me. cause he is the one thats been walking after me not the other way round. i unfortunately fell for it. tim what u said bout my relating to relationships its so true couldnt believe what i read. right now i have a strong need to be in one with someone like him. cause he is so secure its almost unreal how loyal he is ive never had that. anyways he never treats me bad or unkind. thats exactly what i like bout him he always comes up for me if someone isnt nice with me. he is very sensitive towards my feelings. it was like it wasnt just cause i dont tell him soon enough when to turn off, but anyways thanx again.

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gemini girl
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posted December 04, 2005 11:27 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
last night he called all sweet and innocent wanting to know if he can take me to town today.when i replied: what if i make u angry again he said he already forgot, why do i still remember. i just thought how aquarian.lol i have no clue how i should act one of my best friends hes a gemini with cappy moon, gave the advice to not talk too much. ill see how it goes.

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LeylaLeFay
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posted December 05, 2005 01:52 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Is everyone on this board involved with an Aqua man?

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gemini girl
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posted December 05, 2005 12:26 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
everyone except me. im dead today i showed him my friend. he likes her, and so he wants her no. he also just told me that his friends has this crazy idea that his in love with me, i just laughed. saying they r so funny. i told him that i love his honesty. that he is so non pretending then he looked at me saying i can pretend u know. so he kept saying that he wants a g/f cause he is bored. so was he playing me cause i couldve sworn he liked me. im crying lol i shouldnt be. i didnt like him i started liking him cause everyone said he liked me. today he act so different. its like dark from light. help me i need to get him outa my system so bad. its hell,cause hell be around me.

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proxieme
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posted December 05, 2005 12:27 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Lela - I'm married to one

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Cardinalgal
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posted December 07, 2005 07:45 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Oh Gemini girl, welcome to the world of the Aqua man!

Firstly, have a good cry and get the frustration out of your system. 2ndly, try and take comfort if you can from the fact that you're not the only one whose ever been caught up in the emotional minefield that is a relationship with an Aqua!

They are wonderful, fabulous people who can tantalise, fascinate and delight and as your 'friend' they will do anything for you. They just don't operate their emotions in the same way as many of us and therein lies the confusion/misunderstanding/hurt.
Now please understand that I'm talking very generally here - everyone is the product of their own individual astrology/up-bringing etc so this is not by any means a guaranteed fool-proof guide to Aquas!

However your Aqua friend, sounds very much to me like he's doing the typical Aqua trick of acting like he's not interested in you just when he's absolutely totally interested in you, so as to put you and everyone else off the scent! Perhaps he does like your friend - Aquas tend to like everyone because they're interested in the whole of the human race. And also I notice he's got a Gemini moon which can be a very changeable placing in terms of emotional attachments formed with others. But from the way he's tested your reactions to things and spent every minute he can possibly spend around you, I would put money on him being rather smitten with you.

I think everyone who's suggested that you do your own thing for a while and spend time away from him is very wise. That's what I'd do - not to play games as such but simply to see what else is going on in the world besides him.

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i didnt like him i started liking him cause everyone said he liked me
It sounds like you need some time out to really determine whether it's him you truly want or whether it was just fun and intriguing to have a mysterious admirer? Time away from the situation will also mean that he gets a taste of what it's like not to have you around... if he comes seeking you out, then I think you can pretty much bank on the fact that it's you he's interested in. If not, then you've had a wonderfully interesting time knowing each other, and now you can move on to your next experience/lesson/challenge

Enjoy this break from the whirlwind briefly... take stock of what and who it is that you truly want in life. When you know you can ask the universe to send it to you. And remember to ask, knowing you shall receive - the universe always delivers to those who ask

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gemini girl
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posted December 14, 2005 01:33 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
hey thanx so much for the replies. i had to format my pc took a few days to get everything back together again. at least got it all right.
Cardinalgal
quote "take stock of what and who it is that you truly want in life. When you know you can ask the universe to send it to you. And remember to ask, knowing you shall receive - the universe always delivers to those who ask"
so love this advice ur amazing.
i took a break from him for 4 days then he called me. it seemed like forever, since we spend so much time together. so last week he worked for bout 2 days. didnt see him then. he asked me why do i go on about the other girl he already forgot bout her. then he kept on saying im jealous. and on purpose kept asking bout her. he is kinda back to normal. something really bothers me he keeps on saying that i dont understand what its like to be like him. he thinks my family is wealthy. i think he likes me, but why would he keep on talking bout other girls like in asking me advice on how to ask girls out. if i think he should ask a girl out only next year when he's settled in cape town. he confuses me, i think im really in love. and i cant take being in love with an aquarius they are almost too great to be real in a match for me, yet i need security. another thing i dont get we r so much alike in a way. it seems like we both attached to the other, but thats what it stays. sorry repeating myself. im going nuts. thanx anyways

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