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Topic: Sixth house sun
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Mellon Collie unregistered
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posted December 03, 2005 12:36 PM
Hiya ya'll. I am new here...so let me introduce myself first:I am a pisces born on saint patrick's day. I have my moon in cancer and my asc in sag. Does anyone here has any experience of a long term relationship where the sun in the composite chart was in the sixth house? I don't know that much about synastry and astrology but I read in a report that it is supposed to be very bad. Can anyone confirm that?
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sthenri unregistered
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posted December 03, 2005 06:01 PM
Hello Mellon Collie! Why the name? I am also a Cancer sun, sag ascendant but Taurus Sun.My ex a Libra and I have composite sun in the 6th and we both have sixth house suns- It's very hard for us to get it together without a goal, we have to work together and be very communicative. However it's just as hard with anyone else- Both of us find it impossible to live alone, and seem to only be happy in a relationship so it worked for us-one thing I am not happy about is his sarcasm and less than honest dealings with finances (merc scorpio conjunct neptune) This can work out, it really matters who capable you are of depending on someone and being independent at the same time. Natasha
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Mellon Collie unregistered
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posted December 03, 2005 09:24 PM
Hi Natasha,Thanks for the reply. ah,the name...I'm a big smashing pumpkins fan and mellon collie is the name of one of their albums. I am actually quite new to all this astrology stuff...My bf wants us to get married but for some unknown reason I am not willing to take the next step.My bf was seriously hurt when I expressed my feelings about us getting married. I was kinda trying to come to a decision about the whole affair when I took out the synastry chart...and what I read in that report kinda made things worse. We have: Moon Conjunct Saturn sun and venus in the sixth house. Venus Opposition Uranus My case is quite similar to yours ...this relationship seems to take a lot of work from both of us, he always reacts the wrong way to things I say or do.Communication is a big problem. For me it's kinda emotionally draining...I am just not sure if I am ready for the long haul. IP: Logged |
sthenri unregistered
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posted December 04, 2005 11:28 AM
Work on getting love and approval from each other right now and build loyalty. You need to both build a home life together first before taking that step, and you can tell him that you want it to last and so there are things you can do together.I recommend this site http://www.marriagebuilders.com There is an emotional needs quiz that helps you decide whether or not you are both emotionally prepared and emotionally compatible. Read the discussions group too, Good Luck, I know I hate living alone yet I find getting the settled feeling in my stomach that everything is going to be okay-hard. Natasha
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dorkus_malorkus unregistered
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posted December 04, 2005 12:11 PM
hehe side note...mellon collie and the infinite sadness is a sweet album!!!IP: Logged |
Mellon Collie unregistered
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posted December 04, 2005 10:07 PM
Hey Natasha, I think that's great advice. I would like to do exactly that...but to my cancerian bf that's not acceptable.He says I am just being a coward about the whole thing and of course it just goes to show that I don't love him enough.Right now we are going through all the clever emotional manipulation techniques in his repertoire...lol,kinda fun to watch though...that is if you are not at the receiving end! Thanks for the link,I'll check it out. lol, Dorkus, I couldn't agree with you more...that's my favorite album.Funny thing is I recently found out that 2 members of that band share my BD...hmm, maybe that's why I like their music so much. IP: Logged |
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posted December 08, 2005 12:51 PM
Welcome Mellon Collie I'd have to say "Gish" is great!
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