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Topic: I'm single again..and..err..liking it?
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MoonPixie Knowflake Posts: 128 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted December 18, 2005 04:02 PM
So... my Virgo boyfriend and I broke up again..for the third time this year.Now, I definitely am happier because I hated dealing with our bullsh*t relationship, but I've started to realize that I'm super bored now that I don't have a "significant other". What's wrong with me?? I'm 100% sure I don't miss him, but I think it's in fact worse: I miss the attention. I don't want to think that I can't stand being alone, but sometimes.. I wish I had someone to cuddle. I feel selfish saying this, but I want attention!! *sigh*..
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MoonPixie Knowflake Posts: 128 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted December 18, 2005 04:04 PM
I forgot to mention that I'm only 17 and that that relationship was my first "serious" coupling.IP: Logged |
freebird unregistered
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posted December 19, 2005 12:20 AM
Hey ! Moon Pixie... Just find some friends to be with again. You are beautiful and you don't need a boy to make you feel special....IP: Logged |
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posted December 19, 2005 03:48 AM
hey Moonpixie..Even i had a break-up with my virgo boyfriend recently and i was having the same problems..im 16yrs old myself and after our break-up i felt really lonely and bored.. but then i realised i dont need guys to make me feel happy and wanted..all you need to do is hang out with our friends and who knows who you might meet there??
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posted December 19, 2005 12:03 PM
MoonPixie -You don't want JUST attention. You want to feel comfortable with whoever is giving you the attention. But the more you take on the responsibility for your own feelings, the less you'll notice how much attention someone else is paying to you. What you're experiencing about yourself becomes MORE important. ------------------ ... it's better to light a candle than curse the darkness IP: Logged |
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posted December 19, 2005 07:01 PM
AJ i wish u to know dat wht u just said, really sink in my heart N' soul, its very useful to me. i will take it everywhere i go and everyone i meet, just like an AE card. LOL I really should be responsible of MY OWN feeling, stop blaming how other make me feel. Its a common mistake, but we can correct it if we put our mind to it. btw, MP, i know how u feel trust me, its kind of rough for me as well, my bf is also a virgo, these folks are just know how to draw u to the wall.... i hope its for the best, take some time on ur own for a little. treat urself really well, then u will know wht to do next.
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MoonPixie Knowflake Posts: 128 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted December 19, 2005 08:58 PM
Thank you so much guys for your advice. AJ, I love you now. :-)I've been spending time by myself... actually talked to him at lunch today... he said that he said that if we ever got back together that he'd only come back if i wasn't so busy with work all the time.. i highly doubt that's soon, lol, so i don't think we'll be getting together. i'm in one of those train of thought moods.. IP: Logged |
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posted December 22, 2005 10:18 AM
Good!------------------ ... it's better to light a candle than curse the darkness IP: Logged |