posted December 20, 2005 11:28 AM              

for Salisa (female)
born on 11 June 1985 local time 11:55 am
in Fairfield, CA (US) U.T. 18:55
122w02, 38n15 sid. time 04:07:05
Planetary positions
planet sign degree house motion
Sun Gemini 20°46'26 10 direct
Moon Aries 06°43'22 08 direct
Mercury Gemini 25°57'12 10 direct
Venus Taurus 05°01'48 09 direct
Mars Cancer 01°33'43 10 direct
Jupiter Aquarius 16°53'19 06 retrograde
Saturn Scorpio 22°55'46 03 retrograde
Uranus Sagittarius 15°47'04 04 retrograde
Neptune Capricorn 02°33'41 04 retrograde
Pluto Scorpio 02°10'39 03 retrograde
True Node Taurus 17°47'37 09 direct

House positions (Placidus)
Ascendant Virgo 07°08'27
2nd House Libra 01°34'20
3rd House Scorpio 00°45'07
Imum Coeli Sagittarius 03°46'42
5th House Capricorn 07°40'44
6th House Aquarius 09°12'11
Descendant Pisces 07°08'27
8th House Aries 01°34'20
9th House Taurus 00°45'07
Medium Coeli Gemini 03°46'42
11th House Cancer 07°40'44
12th House Leo 09°12'11
Major aspects
Sun Conjunction Mercury 5°11
Sun Trine Jupiter 3°53
Sun Quincunx Saturn 2°09
Sun Opposition Uranus 4°59
Moon Square Mars 5°10
Moon Square Neptune 4°10
Moon Quincunx Ascendant 0°25
Mercury Conjunction Mars 5°37
Venus Sextile Mars 3°28
Venus Trine Neptune 2°28
Venus Opposition Pluto 2°51
Venus Trine Ascendant 2°07
Mars Opposition Neptune 1°00
Mars Trine Pluto 0°37
Mars Sextile Ascendant 5°35
Jupiter Sextile Uranus 1°06
Neptune Sextile Pluto 0°23
Neptune Trine Ascendant 4°35
Pluto Sextile Ascendant 4°58

posted December 20, 2005 01:39 PM              

You have Pluto (transformation, also sex, power) opposite (energy is over-excited by) Venus (relationships), so power in a relationship is exciting. The challenge, as you are most likely aware, is that the power which excites you is actually your own, but you tend to see the power as occurring "outside" you. Once you acknowledge and accept your own power, you will not any longer admire those people who are trying to oppress and/or overpower you, for you will no longer need these people to access your own power. You will be able to be powerful all by yourself!

Powerfully,

Tim

posted December 20, 2005 10:58 PM              

My best friend has Venus/Mars in Aries. She gets very attracted to the bad boy "look"..but she still wants someone nice and sensitive (on the inside) she's a Pisces.. Though, it's kinda strange with her it's either one extreme or the other..either bad boy or shy nerdy guy.. Right now she's with someone who's more of a bad guy..

posted December 21, 2005 04:15 AM              

being a Gemini/scorpio (similar to Gemini/aries), i feel similarly and mainly because i like the traditional 'macho' men, but also like to think i have some kind of power over them (back to tim's point). i also have venus opp. pluto.

with saturn in scorpio i have had issues with my father. i never had confrontation with him but was never close or comfortable, and he was kind of a sadistic person who liked to give others pain and make them cry etc. sometimes i find myself getting into these kinds of relationships and then i say...WHOA! back off!

i think the Gemini sun allows me to stand back and look at the situation logically and eventually back off.

with neptune in cap tightly squaring mars in cancer u are bound to have unrealistic ideas and expectations regarding men. they may be more dogmatic than you expect (1st house sq. 5th)

Jupiter in Aqua will make rebellious types attractive to you, and also men of irrational temperament and high intelligence.

with a wider orb for merc. opp uranus (gem-sag), you might find that you also like men who are not completely honest with you, or may be reclusive. they may be complicated puppies who dont like to share their emotions with anyone, and with that inquisitive merc in Gemini you feel that you may be the 'detective' to dig out the 'sensitive' man within the beast (also a trait of Pluto in scorp, another one of my placements).

posted December 21, 2005 10:16 AM              

This side gets out of balance and needs something rough to get us back into the real world. So we pick mr. gritty and verbally nasty to bring us down a bit from the clouds.

It can be overdone, it's best to know your limits and remember you are only as strong as your weakest link.

Even if that weakest link is wanting to be strong, and good-because as a person with lots of Venus and Pisces influences, I have to make myself get down to earth and get nasty with myself in order to keep the bad boys away.

The bad boys never get nicer and just get progressively badder and meaner. Often the ones I find are very nasty and verbally abusive which leads me to use my gemini in mercury talent for talking back.

Possibly we need to be less compliant because being too docile leads to depression? If you tend to being too compliant and submissive then it's clear that you are looking for another part of yourself.

Personally I see myself as the villan now and I can be both good and bad without guilt. It's scary sometimes but that's how it is.

Example-
Cancer b/f calls me up
Him: Where you've been?
Me: Working to 1am at a call cente for extra $
Him: ******** no one works till 1am
Me: That's disrespectful to me and I don't let anyone talk to me like that
Him: Where were you really, out running around, I think you are lying!
Me: I was working, get off your butt and come watch me
Him: I have work to do
Me: You are being nasty and uncommunicative so I am hanging up now. I've had a long day and other people are down on me too
Me: Hanging up.

So the end of the story is that I called up to say sorry for being frazzled and he apologized for bugging me when I was tired. He also said I won't wait in line forever, so he was being bad out of feeling insecure-which is good. At least I know why he was being a jerk.

Sometimes I can't tell why someone is bad, and sure it's easy to glamorize something you don't understand.

Lots of married people think I have the greatest life, but they are idealizing-then they think up things I may be doing that are bad. When you are insecure about getting your own needs met, and are not living with a rational goal and belief that drives you everyday, it's easy to focus on other people. This is especially true for those with lots of air in their charts, like myself and my b/f.

He has mars in libra, which is how he relates to others-too much air because it hurts us both, his verbal cuts, and my daydreaming.

There is no cure for the bad boys except to get a bit of glamour in your own life-paint, draw, create posterboards, have a glamour job, something like that-my b/f throws big parties-

it's a must to do something to nourish your glamour self.

posted December 21, 2005 11:17 AM              

Your personality is that of a peoples person.You are outgoing,sociable and a bit unconventional.You are allso quite self confident,extremely vocal and lively.Most people are attracted to you because you are so accepting and fun to be around.

Your venus being in Taurus means that you are a take it easy kinda girl with earthy passions and desires.You love the act of sex,love,commitment and togetherness.Your partners will tend to be earthy and real,somewhat intense and grounded and possessive.You will seldom pick out someone that you feel you cant trust with your life as you tend to be extremely demanding in love.

posted December 21, 2005 02:16 PM              

It represents fantasy, rebellion, selfishness, crudeness, revenge, anger...you get the picture.

Someone who seems to be free from restraining this is VERY attractive. Its who we want to be. The power plays always come into things as well and that Cancer Mars of yours I would guess could give you a sweet buzz at being dominated for periods (though I can't imagine you would truly let yourself be dominated disrespectfully for too long).

Its like hanging on the precipice and the thrill of not having control over events for a moment and an uncertain conclusion. Very stimulating I would say.

posted December 21, 2005 05:34 PM              

It's almost like men's nature to rescue damsels in distress syndrome.

I think it is as fundamental as that.

posted December 22, 2005 03:56 AM              

i kind of took your question literally, and started analyzing your chart (after your prompt for people to analyze it again). Then everyone else went on a different track and you did too.

oh well. i probably misread the question.

posted December 24, 2005 12:04 PM              

I agree with miss_muffet as well.

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I think most women are attracted to the bad boys to begin with. It's our mothering nature. We tend to believe that there is a good man inside the bad boy just ready to cry out for rescue ... and then we wake up from the dream that is really a nightmare!

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I've often wondered that myself, and it's my latest conclusion as well. When it comes to relationships, women have some extra talking points. We are a little more complex. So what else to do with all that complexity, except SHARE IT ... we need to share all our usefulness in all its glory in order to experience womanhood to its fullest.