posted December 21, 2005 12:22 AM              

In doing relationship comparisons, the first step is to understand how each person approaches relationships. This can be seen by looking for Libra, Venus, and the 7th house (all are about relationships) in each chart. In your chart, you have Libra modifying Uranus (friends, also rebellion), so you may want to be "friends" in most relationships (close but not TOO close). You also have Libra modifying Pluto (transformation, also power), so you may get power through relationships. You have Uranus square (energy needs to be combined with) Venus, another indication that you want to have some personal "space" in relationships. You have energy focused in the 7th house, so there is a focus on relationships.

He has no Libra energy. He also has Pluto square Venus, indicating he may tend to "overpower" others in his relationships, or may feel overpowered by others, if he has not yet discovered his own power. His houses can not be known without an accurate birth time.

The next thing to look at is the relationship chart. The first thing to look for in relationship charts is any connections between the Sun and Moon by themselves. There are connections between the Sun and Moon, so there is a "connection" between you. The next thing to look for are the aspects made between Sun, Moon, Mercury, Venus, and Mars (also called "personal" planets). There are many easy connections with your personal planets, but there are many challenging energies as well. One of the most challenging is his Mars (being, also action, anger) in stress aspect to most of your personal planets. This could result in him gettting angry at you at times. Combine this with his tendency to "overpower" in relationships and this could be an issue. In addition, his Saturn (duty, also restriction) is opposite (energy is over-excited by) your Venus, indicating he could be restricting to your relationships in some way.

You may want to keep most relationships "free" from too many attachments, while he may want to have power in his relationships. Also, his anger and restriction could be most uncomfortable to be around. The challenges are many in making this inter-relationship work.

Relating,

Tim