posted December 23, 2005 02:56 PM              

"Concentrate perhaps more on what you think you want from another person.. what you think you need. Not so much who you would be "compatible" with." i just always wonder bout it. i really dont like virgo's and i cant see the reason why in my chart, yet my soulmate kind of friend a woman is a virgo. she is like my mother. so any comments are welcome
Planetary positions
planet sign degree house motion
Sun Gemini 18°13'55 07 direct
Moon Scorpio 17°04'05 12 direct
Mercury Cancer 11°52'28 08 direct
Venus Taurus 28°01'59 06/7 direct
Venus is technically near the end of house 6 and is interpreted in house 7.
Mars Cancer 12°37'01 08 direct
Jupiter Aries 22°25'35 06 direct
Saturn Sagittarius 17°50'32 01 retrograde
Uranus Sagittarius 25°00'43 02 retrograde
Neptune Capricorn 07°07'52 02 retrograde
Pluto Scorpio 07°32'43 12 retrograde
True Node Aries 09°04'10 05 retrograde

posted December 23, 2005 04:34 PM              

I need to be able to see the chart to interpret, so I appreciate your posting your birth information. I understand your confusion about relationships and see it in your having unaspected (strong energy) Venus (relationships) conjunct (energy is combiend with) Descendant (others). People with unaspected planets do not "connect in" with their planetary energy. As a result, they work extra hard at trying to "connect in" with their energy. This makes the energy VERY strong but it does not enable the person to "feel" the energy for themselves.

People with unaspected planets have a "test of faith" to go through. Even though they don't feel the energy themselves, they have to have faith and believe that the energy is there in them. With relationships with others so strongly emphasized in your chart, these things ARE happening to you all the time, you just may not be aware of them. Something you can try is to be aware of ALL the people around you and how you relate to them all...THAT'S strong relationship energy.

As to your other questions, you probably know VERY well which types of people you get along with and which you do not...even if you do not think of this as "relationships" in the formal sense. Trust that you know the answers to all your questions and see how easily relationships open up to you.

Relating,

Tim

posted December 29, 2005 02:51 AM              

"Perhaps you are having trouble finding or attaining something that you desire because you are not focusing." wow really are u a psychic or what. my biggest problem in life most definately. i always have this thing of however it may sound finding things that im interested in. getting attention just isnt good enough. its beyond frustrating.

"I think you need an equally multi-faceted partner." i agree with this one only question i have is. which is better a scorpio sun with a gemini moon, or another gemini with a scorpio moon, or at least trining moon or sun to mine? what would last longer? i know its not just the sun and moon that counts just wondering. for instance if its a aquarian sun pisces moon or whatever. my moon dont process the aquarius detachtment at all.

wilsontc
"People with unaspected planets do not "connect in" with their planetary energy. This makes the energy VERY strong but it does not enable the person to "feel" the energy for themselves." ive lately experienced it more intensely and as a result of frustration i tend to come across maybe sometimes too strong or not at all. really hard to deal with, but im learning.

Yang
i think about marriage yes i dont do it. to me its like the more u think bout things the better ill be at it. ive always experienced my life in that way so. most of the ppl i know got married very early in life and are very happily married. i just love to gain knowledge on things i think about marriage is one of the many things and im not the type that likes multiple relationships ill never will be. i tend to put all my energy on one thing at a time its always worked for me. thanx again for the replies.

posted December 29, 2005 10:17 AM              

Don't forget the Houses your potential partners' Planets are in when considering a "match". For example, you ask "Scorpio with Gemini Moon, or Gemini with Scorpio Moon?" - Just remember not to dismiss someone if their Signs seems uncompatible at first glance. Someone with their Sun or Moon in their 3rd or 8th House might be just the ticket. AND, consider that while the other person may not possess all the things you lack in your Chart which you need, YOU may be the one who possesses what the OTHER needs so much, that they will move Heaven and Earth for you.

I think sometimes we envision potential partners as something very static, when really, it is the joy in acheiving, overcoming and dreaming together which make up the most valuable of times.