posted December 28, 2005 03:00 PM              

Venus 7th -this location indicates that your relationship is based on a great deal of personal affection for each other. While this location doesn’t guarantee a good loving relationship, it certainly helps. The two of you will share your deepest emotions and feelings with each other. Together you will form a tight nit team, willing to face the world as a single unit. The only danger here is the tendency too maybe be too nice to each other. Never allow your desire for tranquility to keep you from expressing your thoughts on important issues within the relationship. When you first came together, you did so with an ease that few couples could manage. Your travel from meeting each other to being intimately together was fairly short term. Which is not to say either of you was easy, just that you learned a great deal about the other more quickly than most couples. The main task for the two of you is staying honest with each other. The one thing that would kill this relationship the fastest would be for one of you to loose the trust of the other. And honesty isn’t just about not lying, its about actively searching for truth, acknowledging your own warts openly, and staying focused on your relationship. The two of you can draw support from other soulmates, couples with similar experiences, that help you handle situations in your lives. They will help you broaden your perspective by sharing their experiences, and just being your friends.

Mercury 6th - – indicates that the two of you must expand a great deal of mental energy on problems or tasks that you work on together. Planets in the 6th house tend to emphasize duties and responsibilities that take away from the personal pleasures of a relationship. The two of you bring strong mental abilities to your life and environment, energies that can be used to help others. Communications is important here, so that you both know your responsibilities within the relationship. The task of Mercury in the 6th house is that you will work the best when you use your intellect to help others.

Sun 6th - the 6th house can be one of the more difficult placements for your composite Sun, because it indicates that there is not an equality of giving and taking in this relationship. In other words, one of you will be short-changed in this relationship; giving everything while the other just takes. There is danger here of resentment building over time, because no one likes to always be the one giving in a relationship. Questions about what each of you is actually getting from your relationship will arise and create discord. The only key to this relationship is one of you accepting the situation and becoming in essence the servant of the other. That’s very hard to handle on an ego level, unless you can come to understand that service is the highest form of faith. It’s a rough road to travel for anyone, but one that can cause tremendous growth in the person serving the other. If you consider life a one time shot, the payback for such behavior is not there, however if you believe that your spiritual growth over many lifecycles depends upon your faith and actions, you may be able to handle it. The point to remember is that what you do, you do for your own spiritual growth, not for the other person. They merely provide the means to the end.

posted December 28, 2005 03:23 PM              

My 8th house is in Aquarius in my natal chart

His natal descendant and jupiter are in Aquarius

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Gemini sun, Cancer rising, mercury in Gemini, moon in Taurus *29, venus in Taurus, mars in Libra