posted December 30, 2005 09:59 PM            

anyone have any insight into his chart?
are there are clues as to why he would act like this? He has a lot of Pisces in his chart with a few 12th house placements...but he has Aries Rising and a Gemini Moon...I don't know. I'm confused.
help would be greatly appreicated.

thank you!

his info:
2/21/1983
las vegas, NV
8:37 AM

posted December 31, 2005 05:02 AM              

I too am acting cold on someone towards whom I am getting attracted. And reason for acting cold is though I have an attraction, I don't want any relation with her (due to other xyz reasons) and if I don't act cold I feel that it would cause both of us get more involved. Maybe something similar in ur pisces case.
I will be cold knowingly as I don't want to get into a relation where I can't give my commitment.

posted December 31, 2005 10:52 AM              

I pulled his chart up, and can you say take a deep breath.

These are the aspects that caught my eye:

Venus closely conjuncts Mars--which can be full of artistic grace and expression. it can act as an amazing attractor. It can give a great deal of charisma coupled with assertion in love and relationship. But note that this conjunct is not only in Pisces but in the 12th house which may confer all sorts of passivity and secret feelings and behaviors. This is blatantly exacerbated by the square to Neptune. The Neptune not only squares the Venus but the Mars. So he MAY be grappling with repressed sexual desires, sexual anxiety and fears and deception, possible dishonesty and duplicity around issues of love and sex.

Also notice the Pluto and Saturn close knit bond in the 7th House. Saturn in 7th carries its own seriousness and restrictions but with Pluto you get a fierce focus, reserve, tenacity. Self disicipline and an ability to make a decision and stick with it (ie not speaking to someone).

Sun square moon in terms of sign---Wide Square aspect but still I would expect the usual turmoil and inner stress associated with this aspect.

posted December 31, 2005 11:17 AM            

Lol... too true

posted December 31, 2005 01:44 PM            

what you both said sounded exactly like my Pisces! no matter how long he trys to avoid me, he always ends up willing to talk to me again sooner or later...but it always seems to happen eventually. I've always thought we've had intense heavy karma that draws us back together.

I actually talked to him last night and told him that I was suffering and so was he so why can't we just make peace with each other. He told he he could make peace with me, but it won't change his suffering. *sigh* I don't know, it's like he wants to cling on to it. I am trying to move on with no bad feelings...I am finally able to get over all the hurt I've been through with the Pisces and am happy..I even met a Gemini last December and we're talking about getting married....we've been playing this game for years...on again/off again...he wants to be my friend, then he says he doesn't..it's very draining for me. I just want things to be cool and for us to be friends if we can..if not, then one last time to talk to him to settle everything doesn't seem like too much to ask. But maybe it's too much for him to handle. he can be very melodramatic, so I don't know. I'll always love and care about him, I just hope we can work something out.

posted December 31, 2005 01:51 PM              

it seems like the more attention you give this guy the more it holds you in the past...

posted January 01, 2006 04:38 AM              

So thats why even if you two make peace (frankly I didn't get what you meant by peace) he won't be able to take you 'just a friend' but something more. The reason could be he still has love for you and being friends with someone you love is beyond his understanding (you can say Mine as I too had a separation and it was hurting to understand her statement that lets be friends. Its still irritates me understand how can I be just a friend with the person whom I love and the person also had loved earlier ...)
He wanting to be a friend and then not a friend - Wanting to be a friend at some moment might be due to he trying to understand the situation and thinking that you might be happy by being a friend & also he wud not loose you completely by being a friend. Then not being a friend might be due to above reason I mentioned that how could he be just a friend.
I think he might cling on to the suffering for long time unless something else takes place in his life to remove that hurt.
Yes it is too much for him to handle. If you have no intention of being something which he wants, then its a pity that nothing can work out here.
Frankly if you have nothing left for him, its no point making peace. Either you be with him completely (if you still got something for him) or if you don't have anything for him, just leave him (as Pixie mentioned).

posted January 01, 2006 04:55 AM              

almost
as stubborn
as the
bull
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might
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but more
prone to
drain

dont
you
think
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posted January 01, 2006 07:51 PM            

By 'make peace' I just meant I wanted to confront the situation and put it to rest in a peaceful way and leave each other's lives on good terms (if possible). Didn't mean to confuse you. I like to remain friendly towards old loves because I always think it is such a shame to share all this time with someone then, just dismiss them out of your lives as if they mean nothing--or the love/memories you had didn't exist. I can't do it. People are too important to me. Maybe it's my Venus in Cancer or Taurus Moon.
Or maybe it has to do with the fact that he was my first love and I've known him since I was 14 (I'm 23 now). We have a history. Like I said if nothing else, I'd like to be on good terms because I know we cannot be more than friends.

It hurts a little that he cannot be my friend, but at the same time I understand why he keeps a distance.

thank you again villy for the kind wishes, I hope you have a wonderful new year...and I can only hope the year brings some joy or enlightenment to the Pisces.

pink, I agree with you.