posted January 01, 2006 09:30 AM              

My dislikes are that when out socializing it holds me back as far as letting loose and being as outgoing as i can be when i'm comfortable, but when i dont know many people around depending on my mood and transits im usually pretty low key about getting to know people and it makes me seem unapproachable. Also I hold back my feelings really badly, I never ever show my true emotions. Usually because i'm too scared to show someone how much I love them because I fear they dont love me as much as i love them, this goes for friends, family, and guys.

I do have some likes though ;D Venus in Virgo makes me very very selfless. Which may be viewed as a bad a thing but I looov doing little favors for people I care about, and i love making them happy. That's all that I can think of rite now, it being 7 am and me being exhausted.

Ciao and

posted January 01, 2006 10:46 AM              

As I've matured, I'm able to bite my tongue and learn to slow down and listen in order that I may be a more effective lover. But the frustration remains, Venus in Virgo DOES make you want to totally give yourself up to someone. It's difficult to find someone who will accept that and at the same time doesn't assume you are a sucka. It requires you find someone who can accept your gift without taking you for granted or getting a big head over it.

On the positive side, it forces you to remember to sacrifice yourself for a higher power, rather than for a fallible human being. It would be EASY for those with strong Virgo influences to be a nun and I've seriously considered doing just that many times thoughout my life. Still do sometimes. Example: Mother Teresa who had Sun, Mercury, Mars & Juno in Virgo. Her Chiron in Aquarius helped her bring her humanitarian plight to the masses with enthusiasm and charisma.

posted January 01, 2006 01:15 PM              

Once I'm with someone, it's all good. It's just getting to that point. Talk about wanting to commit, but not wanting to give up your freedom! That's my Venus in Gem curse and it drives me bonkers!

On the other hand, I'm influenced by a Virgo rising which conjuncts my Pluto in the 1st house. I can be one of the pickiest, critical and most reserved ppl ever.

I am also alot of fun, love to make ppl smile and laugh and have a certain charm that ppl seem attracted to. That's the best part of Venus in Gem

Simone

posted January 01, 2006 01:24 PM              

Pretty much the same though, expect too much, proud, stubborn. Just to less of an extreme.

My ex b/f has Venus in Leo and he did withhold affection but made up for it other ways. Commitment is key for Aries and Leo, we are emotionally committed.

posted January 01, 2006 02:43 PM            

It's a very odd placement. For me at least. It seems like the crazy wacked out people always follow me around, and it makes me really...avoidant? Hah. I don't know.

posted January 01, 2006 11:37 PM            

Being drawn to the wounded bird-types...so much depth of emotion it hurts...the weirdest bouts of fickleness ever...the list goes on and on.

posted January 02, 2006 01:44 AM              

hopeless romantic, jump right in.. something been working on curbing in later life, caused me no end of woe..

my cancer rising keeps me grounded, cautious ? Leo moon has it's say also.. moon is prominent, at war with mars?

(mars in gem 12th house, merc Taurus 11th) some balance there Saturn in sag in a grand trine -lots of fire