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LILYGIRL
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posted January 07, 2006 04:04 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
before I put my head in the oven...

Is it possible to have a loving healthy relationship with your Mom if your Moon has nothing but squares. I am not kidding. This is when I want to go back and never look at astrology again.

Here I am having the only true lovefest of my life with my two children and at last, finally I go to analyze their charts. I see my daughter with all these lovely trines to her moon, but my son with this kind of chart 10th house Aries Moon (like his cousin Moon at the very top of the chart and a Moon ruled chart!) Sq Venus, Sq Ascendant, Sq Mars. Actually his only Moon aspects besides the screaming Squares is a beautiful fire faux trine with his North Node, Chiron.

In our synastry we do have closely conjunct moons, trine venuses, a sun and venus trine...and his Sag Sun, Vertex and NN sit smack on my Sag Ascendant. Sounds like so much karma this time out.

I don't really have the heart to post his chart but here it is. Just tell me this Moon situation isn't a doomsday recipe for us both. He is lovely, 13 with a 12th House Mars/Cancer Ascendant and a Scorpio Mercury (brilliant and already accomplished) and we are very close but we are indeed both intense and spar briefly on occasion! (both Aries moons and his Saturn in 7th House but a Sag stellium in H5.)

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LILYGIRL
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posted January 07, 2006 04:17 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
never mind...lol

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wilsontc
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posted January 07, 2006 07:03 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Lily,

As you know, a person's chart indicates that that is the way they "see" the world, the chart does NOT indicate that is how the world IS. So, although your son may "see" you (and all nurturing figures) as a source of stress (squares to the Moon), that does not mean you are doing anything to CAUSE that stress. That stress is in your SON'S reality, not necessarily in yours.

Also, as you know, in order to understand the nature of the dynamics between two people it is most helpful to use a synastry chart: so create a synastry chart and look at that to see of the real challenges between you and your son.

Let's use astrology to find out some helpful things in how your son sees you. The thing I notice AFTER the stresses to the Moon are Mars (being, also action) and Moon (home, also mother) in mutual reception (energy is intercombined) so you (the mother) help your son take action in the world. I also see Moon trine (energy goes easily with) North node (future goals), so you help your son achieve his future goals. AND the Moon focused in the 10th house (duty) is the focus of a T-square (strong energy) so you (as mother) motivate him to "do his duty" and be responsible in life.

As I mentioned, all of this is how his energies work for him, and are not necessarily directly related to the interaction between you (for that, see the synastry between you and your son for issues you BOTH can work on in your relationship with each other).

Finally, I remember that another person posted about how his mother, who was an astrologer, cried when she first saw his chart and how this person had never understood why. That chart also had squares in it to the Moon, but the person actually got along very well with his mother! So the person's chart is only ONE source of an inter-relationship with the parents. The second and more important one is...the parents themselves! ;-)

Maternally,

Tim

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LILYGIRL
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posted January 07, 2006 07:51 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thanks Tim. Once again a lovely voice of reason in my storm. The crying astrologer made me smile. This kid is my heart and extraordinarily gifted. We are close and the synastry is very strong, sort of scary. Between his Sun, Vertex and North Node sitting on my Ascendant, the Moon and other contacts...

You also said:

The thing I notice AFTER the stresses to the Moon are Mars (being, also action) and Moon (home, also mother) in mutual reception (energy is intercombined) so you (the mother) help your son take action in the world. I also see Moon trine (energy goes easily with) North node (future goals), so you help your son achieve his future goals. AND the Moon focused in the 10th house (duty) is the focus of a T-square (strong energy) so you (as mother) motivate him to "do his duty" and be responsible in life.

Let's just say that's hilariously dead on. He calls me his "manager/agent".

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hot_ice
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posted January 07, 2006 08:01 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
BANG! BANG!

*flees for cover*

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LILYGIRL
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posted January 07, 2006 08:44 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
What's bang bang mean?

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marsconjunctmercury
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posted January 07, 2006 09:00 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote

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posted January 07, 2006 09:51 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for MysticMelody     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
You asked them to shoot you... kids and their cap guns.... hehehehe

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