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posted January 09, 2006 05:03 PM            

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Me and a girlfriend were talking and she was telling me that women find Pisces men hard to understand. I was like WHAT?? They are so easy to figure out she was like I know right. She is too also a Pisces. Pisces men do nothing for me, well except my lil Pisces son who can melt my heart sometimes. :-)...

Anyway what is your take on the Male/Female side of your sign? Have you ever dated or did it work? what was it like.

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posted January 09, 2006 05:06 PM              

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thanks for starting this thread.
i'm a cancer and i really really like some cancer males, and i've always wondered what it would be like to date them... i think it could be really amazing and beautiful, cause we could relate on such a level, but also, it could get... i don't know... stagnant, and overly emotional, but, we would have a great understanding of each other...
whaddya you guys think!

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posted January 09, 2006 05:09 PM            

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i am a pisces sun and have always wanted to date a pisces man, figure it might be cool to hook up with someone as way out as myself, however, i tend to attract air signs boo, hoo, what's up with that?

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posted January 09, 2006 05:13 PM            

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Hippichick: Same here I always fall for the Air guys. I was reading your post about you and the Aqua guy and honey let me tell you I do understand the magic you two share been there still there actually but handling things good. What is your moon and venus sign. I have my moon, merc,venus and Asc in Aqua so that is what explains my attration and vice versa. It is something..

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posted January 09, 2006 05:19 PM            

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mama mia, know what you mean, my mars, jupiter and mercury are in a close stellium in aqu in 3rd house with saturn in also in aqu in 3rd. moon in taurus, venus in pisces, but like the last degree and minute of pisces, asc scorpio, that may explain why i am drawn to them, i guess it explains why they are drawn to me as well!

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posted January 09, 2006 05:24 PM              

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I am a Gemini married to a Gemini. It is odd. On some levels, mostly mercurially we get each other and alot of stuff is cut through on its own. Steps are skipped . But on others levels I find it very isolating and even unfulfilling. For one thing i have lots of Gemini friends men and women (Gem Descendant). The common denominator is we get each other very well, fluidly--but there is little or no sexual tension. Great for friends, bizarre for married. I have been married 14 years.

Of course you need to look at the whole chart! My husband has a LEO stellium but he has a repressive Saturn in 12 on his Ascendant. Our composite has a loaded 6th house... competent but snoring. LOL.

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posted January 09, 2006 05:26 PM            

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ps mama mia, any adivce for dealing with that emotional detachment and lack of regard for feeling? thanx!

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posted January 09, 2006 05:29 PM            

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Girl it may not be easy for ya but the best thing is to ignore it. I went through a roller coaster ride trying to figure out what the heck. Once I started to ignore his butt the tables turned..

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posted January 09, 2006 05:32 PM            

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thanks, mama mia, liz greene in "astrology for lovers" suggests "out aquarianing" them, i can do this and have, just seems so stupid!

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posted January 09, 2006 05:34 PM            

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Out Aquarius them is right. We are so past that and it is stupid and I let it go. I am to mature for all that..

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posted January 09, 2006 09:34 PM              

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hmm I don’t mind Aries guys.. even the scary ones lol. They're never like that with me. They're very nice to me usually.
I never fall in love, I never feel all that attracted.. but I feel comfortable and I like talking to them. They're very funny.. similar to Gemini, they make me laugh.

I also like air guys because it's so easy to be around them. They don't act weird or macho or overly dramatic or.. all those things my Cappy moon doesn't like. I’m not usually attracted to Gemini or Aqua.. or Libra (to start with).. I genuinely just like them as friends and think they feel the same way. With Aqua and Gemini I’m usually right.. though there was one Gemini guy lol..but apart from him.. they truly just see me as a friend…and I love that. Libra on the other hand decides to tell me, months into the friendship that they’ve liked me for ages. It’s happened three times now with three different Libras. The exact same scenario. Two of them were welcome, the other wasn’t. They also start acting differently, almost like they’re putting the moves on. With my bf, I found this very sweet and I started to see him in a different light.. so eventually I fell in love with him.. and I’m really glad we started going out because I couldn’t imagine this last year without him. But yeah, it’s a long dragged out process with Libra.. it doesn’t just happen.

With Pisces on the other hand it *did* just happen.. straight away. I can’t think of any other guys of any other sign who had a real impact on me, that fast. With Pisces though, I’m in same situation as you MamaMia.. because usually they have stelliums in Aries.. and I have my Pisces MC/Jupiter/Mercury/Vesta.. and Merc is my chart ruler..plus my Mars/Neptune conjunction in the 7th on DC.. It pretty much screams Pisces/Aries combo lol We have a lot of conjunctions and double whammies in synastry.. so I guess that’s why it seems so attractive.

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posted January 09, 2006 10:03 PM              

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I have my sun in scorp and have dated a few men with the same sun. (No woman though I did sleep with one scorp fem with cancer moon)The longest relationship so far in this life has been with a scorp male who broke my spirit and hart. But we had grate sex and grate debates on life, death and rebirth.
1:1 sun sighns I think can be fanastic or distructive.

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posted January 09, 2006 11:17 PM            

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I've read that same sign relationships are best between Cancers, Air signs, and occasionally fire signs.

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posted January 13, 2006 06:48 PM              

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I am Virgo and I dated a Virgo on-and-off for six years. Somehow neither of us could bring ourselves to make that final commitment... looking back, our 'detached' kind of relationship smacks of pure virgo-ness to me (although my mars in Aqua and his Sag moon probably didnt help us).

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posted January 13, 2006 09:14 PM              

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i dated another cap for 6 yrs, i didnt want to got for cap,i do think they might be on the boring side (depends on the chart). but this guy has quite a bit of aqua, so it helps, we had lot of good conversation. but other than dat no spark! so no i wouldnt date another cap, unless hes very ambitous or successful. LOL
yes true, lot easier to understand each other though

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posted January 14, 2006 12:59 PM              

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oh, i get along famously with water women especially cancers !
there always is an insatnt wavelength , i have never had to rty for it .
even earth and air women are good too !

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posted January 14, 2006 04:13 PM              

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I have dated several guys in my own sign of Cancer and the liason does have some magical elements very cozy,romantic, dreamy,liquidy and a bit of a looney adventure,too
But, if both crabs decide to go into their respective shells at the same time...

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posted January 14, 2006 04:52 PM              

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As soon as i find out a guy is gemini i just have to run in the opposite direction...
i mean i cant imagine myself dating a gemini guy....
we would be quadruplet touble!!

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