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~jane_says~
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posted January 09, 2006 05:19 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ~jane_says~     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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posted January 09, 2006 05:33 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
hi there....O Lord , save our souls! lolz

i am all smiles reading ur mail..i shall pray 4 u to get the answer for this one

i can imagine what u r into..
i had decided to keep my self single so that whenever my crab decides to come back he should find me where he last left me..

but i guess u r much ,much stronger that me to have moved on with ur life... i wish i get the strenght to rise above it all!

if u r happy with ur present love ..pls dont mess it up,
u know how it is with cancerians..(a very very unstable, uncertain, insecure ride)

wish u all the best in love n life..

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posted January 09, 2006 05:37 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Mama Mia     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
They do come back don't they...Never had one that did not. Follow your heart...

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posted January 09, 2006 05:38 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for pixelpixie     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Venus is still retrograde. It often signifies old flames rethinking things....

Give it some time before you respond if you do... everyone goes through life and learns things.. doesn't necessarily mean you have to open that can of worms..
I imagine he wanted to test the waters before opening up, so rather than cowardly, I think it took great guts to think about someone and then follow through, right out of the blue....

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posted January 09, 2006 06:14 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Isolaede     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hello there:

I wouldn't worry too much, Jane. I'm about as Cancer as they come and I've seriously considered contacting my ex this last few months - not because I have ANY desire to be with him again (I’m madly in love with another man now), but simply because I worry about him. Cancer's are remarkably sentimental and caring people (speaking in broad, general terms - I know some Crabs are not). You’ve probably been on his mind lately – which is completely natural during the holiday season – and he’s just pinging you to see how you are doing. There is a chance part of him misses you in a romantic sense, but if you are very clear how incredibly happy you are with your current relationship then you shouldn’t have any of these “Cancer stalker” incidents people keep describing.

I hope this helps!

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~jane_says~
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posted January 09, 2006 07:07 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ~jane_says~     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
THANKS GUYS FOR YOUR RESPONSE SO FAR...PIXIE YOU ARE RIGHT...I WOULDN'T HAVE HAD THE "BALLS" TO DO SUCH A THING, ESP AFTER SO MUCH TIME..

JANE
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posted January 09, 2006 07:17 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I had an old best friend of mine do the same thing. I hadn't talked to her in almost two years and all of the sudden out of the blue she calls me up only the day before yesterday. I didn't even know venus in retrograde could do that. To tell the truth I feel very odd about the whole thing.
I hope things work out for you

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posted January 11, 2006 12:29 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ~jane_says~     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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posted January 11, 2006 12:33 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ~jane_says~     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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posted January 11, 2006 12:43 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for pixelpixie     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Wow.
Did your currrent man do this with your consent, or did he let his insecurities rule him and do this without your knowledge until afterwards?

You are allowed, I would think, to wonder about people who have been in your life, on a friendship capacity. As long as the lines are drawn... as long as you are committed and honest with everyone,Your lover cannot rule you like that.
It is quite disrespectful of your feelings.
I would have a huge problem with that facet of it.... but then I have issues with privacy and being my own person and trust and sharing in an equal way.
Yes, it is nice to be loved to such a degree... yet.... also I am glad you recognize that is his insecurity, not protection of your best interests.
I would talk to your current beau about his issues with it, and let him know if you intend to email or get into contact with your old friend.. keep him involved so he sees you are simply concerned and curious.
His needs can't eclipse yours, or else resentment will build.
It very simply will.

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posted January 11, 2006 01:01 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ~jane_says~     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
nothing is coming up on my computer argggh

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posted January 11, 2006 01:31 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for pixelpixie     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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I tell you what, sometimes I think I'm obsessed or insecure because I find it hard to let go - but that is a bit beyond my reach.

Poor old Cancer probably didn't know what hit him. Maybe he had some intentions, but that wasn't the way to shoot him down.

Not your fault I suppose really, but you current boyfriend seems a little "unhinged". That was your decision to make alone.

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~jane_says~
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posted January 11, 2006 06:16 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ~jane_says~     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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posted January 12, 2006 04:01 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ~jane_says~     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
what happened to my post?
I thought it was here last night..hmm
be back.

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posted January 12, 2006 07:42 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Write back. You never know.

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posted January 13, 2006 02:52 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hi Jane,


I have similar issues w my partner ): I care about him very much, but constantly reassuring his insecurities can be draining and exhausting. Remain true to yourself so you don't lose yourself.

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~jane_says~
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posted January 17, 2006 08:42 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Remember that Cancers' memories are notoriously vivid. It's probably very difficult for him to forget about you completely because there's always something out there reminding him of you. Having a Cancer Moon myself, I can understand this. It's difficult to give up movie stubs, and the like.

He MAY need a nudge into the future, rather than trying to recover a special feeling between you, which was IN THE PAST. You have to decide, in which way would you be doing him the greater favor. You have no problem sort of going back and forth in the time machine, but it's not the same for Cancers. You must consider that.

There are still past experiences which feel just as raw as they did years ago, yet, going back to relive it would NOT make it any easier unless I knew that a relationship would be free and easy. Or else, it will just open the wound again.

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