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Topic: A Cancery friendship or a Cancery slightly more-than friendship?
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The Mutable Night Force Knowflake Posts: 122 From: England Registered: Oct 2009
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posted January 11, 2006 02:39 PM
Does anyone know how to decifer a Cancer's feelings, ie. How do you know if they're just being nice or if they like you? This isn't incredibly specified to me, I'm curious as well. Anyone else wondered?eg. Cancers are said to be sensitive, so if he seems to really care about your problems and lend a sympathetic ear, is that just natural him or does it mean anything? Similarly, say a Cancer says "I like talking to you, you know that" as his explanation to texting you... wait, I can't think of an answer to this one. I just need an impartial view because my Virgo/Cappiness makes me reluctant to think "No, it's just me he likes cos I'm wonderful!" since I know that's not true. I don't know... what if a Cancer is just generally being really caring and lovely, does it reflect on how much they like you or are they just a nice person? Also, are they likely to get jealous if they think you like their friend more, regardless of their opinion of you? That's all... Thanks IP: Logged |
victoriasgirl1 unregistered
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posted January 11, 2006 06:35 PM
Wow, this one's really tricky MNF. As a Cancer woman, I tend to hide in my shell if I'm not sure of the situation or someone else's feelings for me. It is natural but it doesn't mean he doesn't have feelings for you either. (Nor I suppose should you take it that he does.) I think jealousy is more an indicator of having feelings for someone. Why become upset if there are no feelings involved? I think it would help if you got to know him better before deciding if he does/doesn't. Then you'll be able to put all this into context.(:Hope that helps! ~M
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silvermoon unregistered
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posted January 11, 2006 09:27 PM
It think the texting is a good sign that you may be liked more than usual ( for a Cancer, that is). We tend to like to schmooze with the object of our affection from cozy, sequestered space...silvermoon IP: Logged |
histrionix unregistered
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posted January 12, 2006 12:59 AM
Friendship 1st, the Golden Cancer relationship rule. Don't rush into analyzing emotions, words, intentions, go with the flow, and get direct when you noticed they are just wanting to be around you ALL the frickin time. :P IP: Logged |
The Mutable Night Force Knowflake Posts: 122 From: England Registered: Oct 2009
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posted January 17, 2006 03:59 PM
Sorry I've taken so long replying, i've been a little busy.. victoriasgirl1- Thanks I guess I figured jealousy could arise despite whether or not he 'has feelings' (lol) say... like you wouldn't want some guy who's talking to you to suddenly start talking about your friend right? But then again I don't know, that's why I asked. silvermoon- lol schmooze hehe good word... well I hope so! tbc.... IP: Logged |
The Mutable Night Force Knowflake Posts: 122 From: England Registered: Oct 2009
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posted January 17, 2006 04:00 PM
histrionix- yep. And he is a friendly bloke. He does seem to value friendship highly, you're right. He isn't wanting to be around me all the time haha, but there are so many reasons why that would be damn difficult to do! He is being ever-so nice though. Maybe I should enquire after his mother's health? I know he likes her but how much?? hehe And... er... what if he texts you when he's drunk? Why would he text me when he's drunk for no particular reason I ask? Ah, no ones knows... or cares! IP: Logged |
The Mutable Night Force Knowflake Posts: 122 From: England Registered: Oct 2009
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posted January 17, 2006 04:10 PM
bugger....IP: Logged |
The Mutable Night Force Knowflake Posts: 122 From: England Registered: Oct 2009
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posted January 17, 2006 04:10 PM
...quadruple post. IP: Logged |