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Topic: Question for Sags and Aqua Mooners
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MoonPixie
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posted January 16, 2006 02:07 PM
  
I'm in this situation with a guy friend that I like. I'm not too sure what to think about him anymore.Back in October, when we were both available, we were really good friends and everything was going great. He knew that I liked him, and I had a feeling he felt the same way too. The thing is, he likes this other girl too that he says he wont get over until he finds someone better. We had fun hanging out at our Homecoming Dance, but then the next day he got into a fight with the girl he used to like and ever since then he hasn't talked to me. I know what happened between them, and it had nothing to do with me- not that it should, he has no reason to be mad at me. He knows that I like him alot, but it seems like he's gone into "Capricorn" mode: slow moving and reserved. There was a period were I didn't see him for three months, when I was dating one of his friends, and when we broke up, he stopped talking to me even more- if that's possible. My question is: what should I do? Should I approach him? Should I tell him that I still like him (everyone thinks I got over him) despite us not talking for three months? Should I just let him go because he'll never stop liking this girl? It feels like no matter what I say or do that in the end will be pointless, fruitless. Have any of you guys been in the same situation as me/him? What do you think I should do? Here's is his chart: http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v213/earthangel624/5226f4cb.gif
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oddball
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posted January 16, 2006 02:47 PM
Holy cr@p! This guy is born on the exact same day as me and has all my planetary positions. And his ascendant is polar to mine!IP: Logged |
MoonPixie
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posted January 16, 2006 03:15 PM
perfect! so what are your thoughts??IP: Logged |
MoonPixie
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posted January 16, 2006 03:18 PM
also, where in canada are you? because if you're in my time zone, my friend is your astro twin. AWESOME!although, he's totally against astrology. we're in Central Standard Time (CST) IP: Logged |
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posted January 16, 2006 05:13 PM
I was born in Brampton- its in the GTA (Greater Toronto Area). I used to be against astrology too because I thought it was superstitious and childish, until I came to know about how complex and systemized it is with the house systems and aspects. And I started noticing patterns in people-that put my barriers down.When you talk to him, does he act unresponsive? Like he won't ever shrug you off, but he will give you an ambiguous or one word answer in a flat, monotonous voice? And his facial expression is neutral? I do that all the time when someone starts invading my privacy and I just want them to leave me alone, because this makes the person bored without making their opinion of me biased in any way. They just start to think they're talking to a wall. It looks like you're the only one chasing him. All I can say, is be straight with him, let him know that you want an honest answer and you don't care what it is, so that you know the situation of your relationship instead of being in a state of confusion. IP: Logged |
BlueTopaz124
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posted January 16, 2006 07:04 PM
That's pretty amazing Oddball! Maybe he is your astro twin.My Sun, Moon and Mercury are all in the same sign as this guy's...and even though I'm a girl Centaur...us Sag's sometimes do odd things when we're hurt (especially with an Aqua Moon): we distance ourselves even more, even from our loved ones. Aqua moonies need to nurse our wounds in private, and get over heart wounds by ourselves. That was my initial feeling about this guy when I read your post MoonPixie, he's not distancing himself to hurt you, he's hurt and needs to get through what he's feeling on his own, sort through his feelings without distractions. Having Mercury in Scorpio, no amount of sweet talk will make anyone with this placement spill the beans, if anything, I will (especially if we know that person is being nosy for their own gain, I'm not saying you are, but this is from my own personal experience) clam up even more. I can be very stingy with information and will only tell people what I want them to know, if anything (mine's even in the 12th!!). hoping to offer a little insight,
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