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Topic: Are You YIKES!!! Married?
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LILYGIRL unregistered
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posted January 19, 2006 01:20 PM
Who here is actually married or has been married? If so how long...and if you want to make it fun say what your signs are and what the best and worst things are/were about the marriage.1. Almost 15 years 2. Both Gemini 3. Best -- Talking in code and getting each other in conversation. Worst -- Limited passion.
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LeoLys unregistered
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posted January 19, 2006 03:20 PM
1. almost 9 years2. Leo (me)/Virgo (him) 3. Best thing: He's not going anywhere Worst thing: He's not going anywhere stable vs. static? hah. sorry, a little afternoon biting humor. but really, it boils down to it. he's earth i am fire. that's good and bad for both of us. lys ------------------ Leo Sun Cappy Moon Cancer Asc. IP: Logged |
LILYGIRL unregistered
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posted January 19, 2006 03:42 PM
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proxieme unregistered
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posted January 19, 2006 03:58 PM
1. Jase and I've been married for about 2 1/2 years now (with a little girl who'll be two in April...wonder when she'll do the math on that one ).2. I'm a Pisces Sun, Aqua Moon, Scorp Asc (1st House Uranus t. Sun), Pisces Merc, Taurus Venus, Leo Mars. He's an Aqua Sun (my Moon conj. to the degree ), Taurus Moon, Scorp Asc (1st House Uranus and Jupiter in Saggie sextile Sun), Cappie Merc, Aqua Venus, Pisces Mars. 3. Best - Really great, drawn-out, rambling conversations about quirky esoteric stuff and politics. Worst - We're both moody & ADD...too much alike sometimes for comfort
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posted January 19, 2006 04:38 PM
Hi everyone.I've been married for 4 years and we've been friends since we were 18. We are both now 31. Me Gemini sun/sag rising Him Capricorn sun/pisces rising We got married in our saturn return! But i have noticed that we have changed (or)are changing since that time. *T* IP: Logged |
astro junkie unregistered
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posted January 19, 2006 08:37 PM
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Happy Dragon unregistered
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posted January 19, 2006 08:47 PM
***** 3 .. Best thing: He's not going anywhere ... Worst thing: He's not going anywhere ***** IP: Logged |
spellbound unregistered
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posted January 19, 2006 11:15 PM
My hubby and I have been married for eight, but together for ten years. Me: Pisces sun/Sco rising/Cancer moon Him: Libra sun/Leo rising/Sag moon Best: The nonstop chatter, bantering, laughing, and just feeling like we really enjoy each other's company. We are friends above anything else. Worst: He's a libra and I'm a pisces...both enjoy comforts, but hate to worry about the ugly stuff (reality)..plus neither one of us can make a decision at the drop of a hat. We both always have to have the last word. If he was here he'd say, "No I don't". LMAO
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CancerMoon unregistered
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posted January 20, 2006 02:25 AM
LOL 1. Been Married 4yrs. 2. I'm a Cancer.. He's a Triple Virgo ( help me!!!) haha 3. We give each other a lot of personal space and respect each other's hobbies or interests. IP: Logged |
Planet_Soul unregistered
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posted January 20, 2006 05:24 AM
~Lasted Four Years~Him: Cappy Sun, Aqua Rising, Taurus Moon Me: Saggy Sun, Sag Rising, Pisces Moon Best: My Gemini daugther and Virgo Son. Also, the tough lessons learned which assist in the discovery of myself. Worst: The dramatic aftermath. I wish things had unraveled in a more peaceful and civilized matter. On second thought, the worst thing is I wish I had got out of it sooner IP: Logged |
alma-noble unregistered
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posted January 20, 2006 06:26 AM
10 and 1/2 years and we'll start soon the divorce ...me Leo sun / Cancer rising / Virgo moon / Virgo Venus him Scorpio sun / libra rising / Gemini moon / Scorpio Venus Best thing - our 2 boys Worst thing - we came from different culture and we suppose to tolerate and accepted eachother as we was, but instead he tried to change me too much (even my name!)and I did these compromises for a while only because I was soo in love with him, and when I realized I am receiving all the time less attention, affection and love than I deserved and I needed, just because of his way to see so different the things I wanted out! Now I am hoping for a civilized separation and to find the strength to go till the end, to don't find myself later in position to say like Planet_Soul: " I wish I had got out of it sooner ..." Even now is late, I don't want to be too late! Sometimes I only wished if I could go back in time to had my eyes wide open from begining to avoid all this mess, because was so obvious we are not fit for eachother! IP: Logged |
LibraSparkle unregistered
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posted January 20, 2006 09:17 AM
Married 4 years, together 11.Me-Libra Sun/Cancer Moon/Gemini Rising Him-Taurus Sun/Libra Moon/Scorpio Rising Best thing about our relationship?... Our differences balance each other out. He is strong where I am weak, and vice versa. Also, he is very grounded while I'm off in Lala Land most of the time. He brings me down, and I lift him up. The worst thing about our relationship?... Our diffences. We are both very strong in our oppinions and identities. This can (and does) lead to strong disagreements. (I'd call them fights, but we don't really fight. We disagree passionately... if that makes any sense.) So, the best and the worst are all rolled up into the same package as far as we're conserned. Also... I get on his nerves a bit. It's my *silly girl* nature. The giggles, the silly jokes... stuff like that. And, well... I like to pick on him. It's almost a style of flirting. Tickling, sticking my finger in his ear, pulling his hair. He needs to lighten up (IMO). I need to tighten up (I-his-O). BUT ... I know when I'm gone, it will be the first thing he misses about me. IP: Logged |
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posted January 20, 2006 09:48 AM
1 year He was Gemini sun/Libra moon/Libra asc. Best thing: My daughter. Yeah, that happened quick Worst thing: I jumped into to it with my romantic goggles on. I took them off. Was my first everything... so therefore I was smitten. I was advised not to... but no one could tell me anything... nope... I had it all figured out. (eeeesshhh) No regrets. Was a learning experience. I still don't see myself as divorced... I don't feel I was married long enough for that. Edited - I wanted to add... now that I look back, I can't really figure out what made me do that. My personality now would never jump so quick into anything that substantial. ______________________________________ Scorpio sun, venus, mars, mercury, and uranus Libra moon, pluto, and asc. IP: Logged |
peace Knowflake Posts: 35 From: Las Vegas,NV Registered: Apr 2009
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posted January 20, 2006 10:42 AM
Dating for 6 yrs. Married last year Celebrate our 1st anniversary this year YAY!Me:Virgo Sun,Virgo Moon,Aries Asc. Him:Leo Sun,Cancer Moon,Taurus Asc. Best:We both communication Worst:Being in a Leo-Virgo relationship.I have to say that fire & earth can be too opininated and strong minded.How many of you Fire & Earth couples out there are experiencing this. IP: Logged |
Iqhunk unregistered
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posted January 20, 2006 11:06 AM
Alma, you have endured almost a thunderbolt karmic path. Look at your major placements with your husubands! Sun Sun: Square by Sign Moon Moon: Square by Sign Asc Asc: Square by SignIt is like surviving almost 3 difficult marriages in 3 different lifetimes! Amazing really! IP: Logged |
Iqhunk unregistered
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posted January 20, 2006 11:06 AM
Still single, contemplating "enlightenment"..... IP: Logged |
Touchstone unregistered
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posted January 20, 2006 01:48 PM
Married 11 years (happily) Me: Sun Gemini / Moon Gemini / Capricorn Rising / Venus Cancer Hubs: Sun Scorpio / Moon Libra / Aries Rising (Saturn conjunct ascendant) / Venus Libra Best: Absolute best friends. Share wicked sense of humour! Same tastes in almost everything (makes choosing furniture and paint a dream). Quirky autistic son who is the light of our life. Worst: Nothing serious. We're very easy going. Touch IP: Logged |
poetsdream7 Newflake Posts: 0 From: St Petersburg, FL Registered: Apr 2009
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posted January 20, 2006 08:32 PM
Single forever, w/ no intention of marriage. I am a Libra, too, which is supposed to be the sign of marriage and partnership. But, the big BUT, I have Virgo asc, moon, pluto. Soooo, my permanent single status should not surprise anyone. LOL!! On the other hand, I've never been at a loss for companionship.------------------ Always Seeking...poetsdream7 IP: Logged |
hippichick Knowflake Posts: 588 From: Registered: May 2009
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posted January 20, 2006 11:56 PM
IQHUNK...old zen proverb... before enlightenment chopping wood, hauling water after enlightenment chopping wood, hauling water supppose you could fit realtionships into there!!!!! ALL... re marriage, been there done that, 20 yrs, pisces chick, libra guy, not so good! think i'll chop wood and haul water! IP: Logged |
peace Knowflake Posts: 35 From: Las Vegas,NV Registered: Apr 2009
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posted January 21, 2006 12:40 AM
What sign is likely to remain single the longest?.I can only think of 4.1Virgo 2Aquarius 3Aries 4Gemini You do the analyzation on this.If I'm wrong let me know. IP: Logged |
poetsdream7 Newflake Posts: 0 From: St Petersburg, FL Registered: Apr 2009
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posted January 21, 2006 09:47 AM
You're right, Peace... I'm Virgo Asc, w/ strong Scorp. As stated in previous post, marriage has never been a goal for me. I have observed and absorbed my parent's and others' struggles in "domestic bliss"...no thank you. I've played house and gone through the motions several times...again, no thank you. I think you're right about Aquarians, too. They tend to forge their own paths and I think its hard to find someone to walk with them. I love Aquarians, though...but I haven't known many male Aquarians. Hmmm...maybe that would make my perfect match. ------------------ Always Seeking...poetsdream7 IP: Logged |
LibraSparkle unregistered
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posted January 21, 2006 11:25 AM
Peace...My sis is a Virgo, and she seems to always have a boyfriend. I think it's a compulsion on her part. (Don't know any Virgo guys) A friend of ours is an Aqua dude... and he's been single for the whole three years I've known him. He's a little odd. I've tried setting him up on dates with friends of mine... but they all feel he's too weird. He's a really nice guy tho. My good friend JillyBean is Aqua too... and usually single. Sometimes she has a boy for a month or so... but she always gets bored with them. I think she likes the single life. Aries... I have two Aries friends, and they're marrying each other in July!! Yay! It's gonna be a fun time!!! My SIL is with a Gemini guy. She's Scorpio... it's a little rocky, but passionate. Works well for them. They're moving in together this weekend! I don't know any Gemini women. So basically... to make a long story longer... I agree with you about Aqua. I think it takes a special sort of person to be with an Aqua. You really have to *get* them.
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cancerrg unregistered
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posted January 21, 2006 11:42 AM
quote: Best thing: He's not going anywhere Worst thing: He's not going anywhere with a little girl who'll be two in April...wonder when she'll do the math on that one
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LILYGIRL unregistered
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posted January 21, 2006 11:54 AM
Good good stuff people... Here is more grist for the mill:My Parents -- Pisces and Scorpio 44 years before my mom died...) My In Laws -- Gemini and Pisces (him) 50 years!!! Me and Husband-- Gemini, Gemini 15 years Sister One and Husband: Her Gemini, Him Aries, 6 years Sister 2 and nutzzzz Husband: Her Aqua & Him Libra, 7 years Brother 1 -- Bachelor 51 years old Taurus Brother 2 -- Married three times! He is a Libra--First wife? Second wife Capricorn-10 years with her. Third wife --the charm--10 years--she is a Gemini (keeps her own condo to hide away when he gets super Libra Stellium needy...) IP: Logged |
alma-noble unregistered
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posted January 21, 2006 01:35 PM
Iqhunk wrote: quote: It is like surviving almost 3 difficult marriages in 3 different lifetimes!
...not to mention about my Venus conjunct his Pluto, my moon conjunct his Uranus,his Saturn square my Sun/Jupiter conjunction and my Saturn conjunct his Jupiter, his Black moon Lilith conjunct my Vertex !!! and all these to almost perfect degree For sure was a karmic relationship, I wonder only if we've paid enough from out debts to be able to go peacefully on separates ways!
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