posted January 21, 2006 03:03 PM              

I have a few questions about a composite chart between me and a friend of mine. I don't want to weigh you down with all the aspects/details, but I just want to make sense of certain ones in particular:

Venus conj. Mars

Stellium of Venus, Sun, Mercury, Jupiter in Pisces in the 5th house

North Node exactly conjunct Descendant (i'm reeeally really curious as to what this means...)

He and I are really close friends, and he's unashamed to admit that he is crazy about me.. we always have fun together and it's impossible for me to be in a bad mood around him.. lately we've gotten more romantic but i'm not sure what to do.. but anyway. That's the backstory.

So if anyone knows anything about these aspects, that would be awesome. Thanks guys!

posted January 21, 2006 03:48 PM              

Regarding Venus conj Mars here's what I found:

1) It is likely that the two of you enjoy playing games or sports together. There is a creative, fun-loving quality to your friendship that inclines you to engage in artistic, musical, or other creative endeavors. You enjoy competing against each other and also being team mates in competition against another team.

2) It isn't long before you make your likes and dislikes known to one another. You expect instant responses to your needs. You are a passionate pair. A patient duo you are not. You will need to let minor arguments be part of your relationship. Why? Because there is no way around them. It's the major battles that require diplomacy and negotiation. Conflict might even bring out your creativity and courage. It's more fun when the two of you are directing this energy elsewhere--isn't it? Instant gratification will find you buying on a spur of the moment. You can be lucky in finding bargains. Treating your partner to a fancy dinner or to tickets for a special event are ways to the heart. Your sensual natures travel along the same wavelengths. You both might demand attention. You may even feel competitive with other couples. There is excitement in being together that is hard to leave. You are movers and shakers.

3) You will find that feelings run high between you. This is a passionately intense relationship that is likely to be based at least partly on sexual drives, even if you are of the same sex. All the emotional reactions between you are heightened considerably by this conjunction. Anger, sadness, and above all, love, are more intense. Even if you should become enemies, which could happpen, you would be intense enemies. The strong attraction between you prevents you from being detached in any way about each other.

posted January 21, 2006 05:42 PM              

As far as teh NN conjunct the descendant, that indicates that the SN is conjunct the Ascendant in your 1st House.

Composite South Node in the 1st House and North Node in the 7th House – You have shared many lifecycles together where you often faced times where you were forced to take decisive actions in some area of your lives. Because your actions have often affected others as well, you as a couple have somewhat self-contained so that others wouldn’t see your internal struggles. Which is not to say that you weren’t genuine with others, it’s just that they never say the inner struggles you went through in making your decisions for action. In some of your past lifecycles, the two of you being strong individuals chose to go your separate ways rather than make the types of compromises that are needed in a complete relationship. You may have even been rivals or even enemies. Regardless of which relationship it was, it has created a certain tension that you feel in this lifecycle. In this lifecycle you have chosen to be together, and must develop the trust and commitment that you were unable to do in the past. There are things that can only be achieved through your being together as one, not as separate individuals. That is the relationships quest in this lifecycle. The other planetary locations and aspects will indicate how you can go about accomplishing that in this lifecycle.

Hope that this is of value to you,

Lanny