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Mama Mia
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posted January 26, 2006 02:53 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Mama Mia     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Again I was thinking seem to be doing alot of that lately about love issues that is..
But when I am in love I am so emotional and intense and I hate it really I do. Now one would say well you are a Pisces that comes with the sign. But I thought that your Moon sign deals with emotions.

Now see there is where the problem comes bc I have my moon in Aqua and I will tell ya I feel just the opposite when in love.

Now when I am not in love I am cool and detached and aloof as can be but soon as the love bug hits me I am different..


What you guys think from your experience. Also put your Venus sign too that explains alot. It is still confusing bc I have Venus in Aqua. But I will let you in on something that night add to my confusion, I have my moon and Venus in the 12th house..

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posted January 26, 2006 03:16 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Mmmmmmmmooon! Moon conjunct Venus (Taurus)
I find myself totally contradicting my supposed cool, detached, the devil-may-care Sun in gemini when i am in love. BUT, the moon is totally eclipsed when the sun takes over as a defense mechanism...It is like the moon is there when the guard is down, you are head over heels,...etc. Should anything go wrong, you unconsciously act like what the Sun is supposed to do but deep down, it is the moon's reality.

I don't make sense...but that's what happens..

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posted January 26, 2006 03:25 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Isolaede     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
MamaMia:

Oh I can totally relate - I become so emotional in relationships. I have a Cancer Sun, a Taurus moon, and a Gemini Venus. If one were to look at my moon and Venus alone you'd think I'd be able to keep my cool. But, no, when in a relationship it's my sun sign that's the most prevalent. I think this may be because when we're in love we're exposing our inner selves to another person. And our inner selves of course equate to our sun signs. Our heart and soul are laid bare in love. Every broken, sad, small part of us stands naked. Love makes us vulnerable. So I think that may be why we water signs tend to get emotional. I find that I'm even more emotional and vulnerable the more I'm in love with someone. It's much easier to be cold, hard and logical when I'm dating someone I'm not really into. But my current boyfriend feels like he might be the "one" - the real thing - so I'm an emotional basket case. It's sad and beautiful at the same time. : )

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posted January 26, 2006 03:32 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
This is a hard question for me as I have pisces sun 5th house and cancer moon (9th house). I think that the energy blends quite nicely. I am very much an emotional, feeling, creative creature when I am in love. I crave the comfort and safety that being in love brings me. My pisces sun in the 5th gives me the voice to express my true nature and my cancer moon makes me loyal and protective. I also enjoy the intellectual connection through close contact. This is a big must for me. I have to have that mind connection before I can actually pursue anything further. I have venus in aqua in the 3rd house. I always attract nerdy types. I actually have a shirt that says I love nerds, because I do. Nothing is sexier to me than a great mind.

For me it's a whole package. I act through my sun in a vivacious, creative, jovial way; feel through my moon in a comforting, spiritual way; and show affection through venus in an intellectual, stimulating way. Hmm..never thought of it from that perspective. This is neat topic. Thanks for posting it!

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posted January 26, 2006 04:24 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
You know the strange thing for me is I just don't know. With Scorpio Moon in the First, Ascendant, Uranus and North Node with Saturn in Cancer in the 8th I'm not even sure where my Pisces energy is in me.

Sometimes it feels like a fragile shell of severely underestimated strength that holds it all under the strain, other times like a guiding feeling that is simply more evolved than the other energies within me however insistent or intense.

I think my Aqua Mercury and Venus try to steer the ship through stormy waters and they can be in great conflict in the directions they pull. Very draining and frightening sometimes.

I honestly coulndn't answer this question clearly, but I am just INTENSE. Full stop.

I feel love on a deepest level for everyone, and it makes it crap for letting go of something I cherish or have cherished, it never truly leaves me, and the pain of others being able to do so just stirs those waters up even more.


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Mama Mia
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posted January 26, 2006 04:29 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Mama Mia     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Swerve you are an exception,cause you are just water. I can see where you have nothing to compare it to really as far as the emotions go. Oh jeeze if I had a Scorp moon and Cancer Asc I would be crazy and being a female, I would prolly need a very special guy to deal with me..

But I do understand what you are saying..

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posted January 26, 2006 04:31 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hi Mama darling, Spellbound is also triple water and she seems to be more balanced, maybe its the Cancer Moon in her.

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Mama Mia
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posted January 26, 2006 04:35 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Mama Mia     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hey Swerve yeah I thought about that too. I think a Cancer moon would or could be less
emotional then a Scorp moon. Scorp is just so deep period. It is sexual deep that is another thing that makes it intense.

I don't want that placement but I wouldn't mind a guy with a scorp moon, depending on their Sun sign of course..

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posted January 26, 2006 04:44 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I have recently met a Cancer online, and she seems great, but yet again she has almost fallen into me. After ONE conversation she has e-mailed me her phone number and is surprised how forward she is being. I have seen this all before, and used to get caught up in it.

This time I'm just terrified. What effect do I have on these ladies? It starts off like this and tempts me to allow the walls down and the intense energy. Then it all gets messy and they get scared beacuse they have lost control. It never seems to be a gentle process of getting to know each other.

The last Cancer ended up hating me because the energy was just so overwhelming and the promises made could never be sustained.

This one has a Virgo Moon rather than a Gemini one so may have more stability to offer me, and is 26 as opposed to 22, but I still think she is in over her head and doesn't know it.

Not sure what to do, I barely know her, and some of you might think I am over-reacting here, but believe me I know the energies involved.

I am not comfortable with having her number so quickly. I was actively avoiding Cancers as well because I don't think they can handle me in truth. I think an Aries, Leo or Scorpio would be the only gals who could survive and in fact thrive.

She seems nice, but I'm simply not ready. Just by talking to these ladies they realise I am so different and then get caught up in it without being objective until I'm wanting them to be subjective.

How do I play this? Don't want to be cold, as if that were ever possible anyway.

Sorry, Mama Mia, I do feel this is quite relevant to the topic.

There is also a Leo I have been chatting to recently and she seems to be following the path as well, but with a lot more restraint (has a Cancer Moon, which I love, moreso than the Sun actually).

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posted January 26, 2006 04:45 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Rede411     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Mama Mia,

I have an Aqua moon and I think you just have to take it out of the equation because it is such an "Unemotional" sign for the emotional moon to be in. Look to the Sun and Venus for answers. Maybe the 7th house ruler as well. My sun conjuncts my venus...both in Aries so that's pretty much how I am in love...

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Mama Mia
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posted January 26, 2006 04:51 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Mama Mia     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thankyou Red that was great info..

Swerve take it slow, you let these ladies lead you that is the problem, you stay in the driver's seat. As a Pisces I know how that great energy can be from another and we just take it and run with it. BUT keep things into reality and that is that you do not know her and vise versa get to know her first, I mean the real her. Don't be scared just change how you do things and they have no choice..

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posted January 26, 2006 04:52 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Rede411     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Swerve,

We always want what we can't have......I look at all the water in your chart and I so wish I could "feel" more deeply in relationships. I envy you for having that ability. I look at two of my best friends who are married to eachother (He is Cancer sun/Scorpio moon, She is Scorpio Sun, Libra Moon) They have a Sun/Moon conjunction as well and they have such a close, deep personal relationship that I don't know if I can ever attain that. Of Course on the other hand I'm so friggin independent, that kind of relationship would probably smother me....

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posted January 26, 2006 05:03 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I don't feel either is the right one for me at this early stage. I have much healing to do and a relationship is something I am just not ready for.

Many readings and intuitions are telling me someone is on the horizon but is being kept from me until I can embrace her properly, no troubled emotions clouding my judgement.

I have another lady who is all but ready to marry and have kids, an old Taurus Sun Pisces Moon friend that never revealed her feelings fully, but has hinted strongly. I do not see her like that and have been deliberately distant but still respectful and caring. Must be the Aquarius Venus working there to keep things relevant to the topic.

You think I let the ladies lead Mama? Perhaps you are right. I need to make firm choices rather than drift on the currents. None of them "get me" like the Scorpio I met on New Years Eve, but she was taken. That felt right, she was completely and utterly invulnerable to my intensity, it intrigued her and calmed me. Thats what I need, not these almost irritating explosions of uncontrolled emotion I keep connecting with. Strong as steel that was but never out of control. Very nice.

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Mama Mia
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posted January 26, 2006 05:12 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Mama Mia     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Yes from what you have posted I get the feeling that you let them lead you the ladies that you fall for can lead you.
You do the leading try to keep it balanced as much as you can, keep it real. See how you can keep it real and balance with the ones that you do not really like, continue to do that until you really know that she is what you want..Thats what I am trying to say.

And yes keep healing babe it will be all the better when Ms. Lucky does come along..Work on yourself attract that special women that mirrors you..

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posted January 26, 2006 05:15 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Ok, Mama, I get that, you are right.

I wouldn't say I was lead so much as just drift with whatever they are feeling and blend in with their fantasy, which is really just as bad and maybe the same thing from an objective perspective.

Great advice, thank you.

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Mama Mia
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posted January 26, 2006 05:15 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Mama Mia     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Right that is what I meant exactly.. You get me..

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posted January 26, 2006 05:18 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I am a mess when I'm in love, I hate feeling so out of control and in deep, especially where Aquarians are concerned. My sun is libra as is my moon probably, my venus is in scorpio though, hence I'm intense as hell, obsessive and feel out of control but my moon and sun don't like that, or that is how I see it.

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Mama Mia
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posted January 26, 2006 05:24 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Mama Mia     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
LOL!!! that is all I could do Juno after reading that post. I knew a guy with Libra Sun and Venus in Scorp and he was a stalker
he blew my cell phone up and I did not know him but about a week. I immediately told him BEAT IT!!! He acted like he had done nothing wrong. PLEASE!!! that type of behavior is unexceptable in my book..

I think it is about balance though got to figure it out..

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posted January 26, 2006 05:37 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Swerve -

What do you think of this. When it comes to a man, his Mars is more important than his Sun OR Moon. My theory is that, a man can love you in his head, he can love you in his heart, but unless his Mars is activated, it never amounts to love as far as the partner is concerned.

Do that make sense? Like when they say, Venus is important when it comes to a woman in love because her partner is going to feel how she subtly reacts to him, and Venus is subtle. I'm saying, neither the Mars nor the Venus says anything of their respective heads or hearts. When it comes to the other person's perception, they don't always need to know the truth. They need to FEEL like they are being loved.

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posted January 26, 2006 05:40 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for AcousticGod     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I think a lot comes into play.

I've read recently, though, that your Moon indicates what you want, what you're looking for... kinda like the traditional meaning of Venus.

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Swerve
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posted January 26, 2006 05:42 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hi AJ,

You know I'm not sure I could say.

But, not really being totally au fait with Mars in Gemini energy (which I have) I would say that the strongest connections I have had are with a Gemini Sun and a Gemini Moon, and it was when we communicated that I felt most loved.

The messy crappy fallout with the Crab feels so bad because she cut off communication. I'm not sure what I am saying is relevant, I have neglected to clue myself up on this particular aspect and assume My Scorpionic energies are the driving force.

But it is through talking that these ladies become so intensely attracted to me, and they always comment on this. All of them, so you may have a bloody good point here, never considered this at all.....

Makes me a fairly good date in the right circumstances if I do say so myself.

You have me thinking.....


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posted January 26, 2006 06:52 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
When it comes to love, I’d say my Sun.

My fishy nature comes out…but my Moon’s there on the side keeping an eye on me making sure my head’s screwed on right. Thanks to my Moon I’ve never fallen for the bad guy.

It’s a partnership made in heaven

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posted January 26, 2006 07:33 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Rede411     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
AJ,

The Mars with Men & Venus with women does make some sense but since Venus is supposed to be subtle I think I'm screwed having Venus in Aries since Aries is anthing BUT subtle. I have found that stong Venus/Mars connections between me & my partners have "overrided" the sun/moon connections so there could definitely be some truth to what you're saying. Interesting point

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posted January 26, 2006 08:40 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
... hee hee ...

... But I'm NOT reinterating what is said about Venus/Mars and women/men. What gave the conviction to bring it up is because of how much people lie. They lie about how "in love" they are ALL the time, and sometimes the romance lasts a very long time. Afterall, isn't "romance" Neptune's domain? Planet of deception and undoing?

Nuff' said about longevity.

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posted January 27, 2006 11:04 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I go with your post, Isolaede. I would say its beautiful, unless it hurts

Hey Swerve, you really got surrounded by lots of ladies attracted to you lol, I guess it might be hard for us emotional Pisces, that we won't be able to hurt anyone. Take care that you don't keep the relation going on with all

By the way, in love I was bit more demanding. I wanted her to do lots of things for me, which didn't like. At that time I didn't feel anything odd, however when I look at it now, I feel ohh gosh I was so demanding and persuasive that I used to bringing up the same topic many times Is it due to Cancer Mars or Aries Venus/Moon..

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