posted January 27, 2006 12:20 PM              

Everything for me seems to happen in slow motion, never fast enuff.

I'm married, I have a business. I should be busy or mentally occupied at least.

Everything seems boring. I've been with my wife for 10 years, my business for 7.

Am I just bored? Is it because I is Aquarian?

My wife and I barely talk anymore (although we do have lots of cuddles and kisses). Can't remember the last time we were "intimate" if u know what I mean, too shy to use the S word.

We are each others best friend but the lovey/romancey/intimate side of things seems to be non-existent. more like brother and sister than lovers...

I find myself flirting (light flirting, no affairs or anything like that) with women. this from me who never knew "how to flirt"

Is it coz I have Venus in Aries (apparently Venus in Aries love the thrill of the chase) or is it coz I am bored...

No need for anyone to respond to this unless you want to. I am bored so thought I would post on here...maybe there are others like moi...

hoi pahloi

posted January 27, 2006 12:36 PM            

Yea... I would say you're more restless than bored. When things run too smoothly, I myself get bored and miss the thrill of the chase ( I also have Venue in Aries). Since you're also an Aquarian...I would imagine anything in the norm would be rather boring as well. I find everything moving too slow right now too (Venus in Aries can be VERY impatient). I think you should be pro-active with your wife to spice things up a bit and plan a romantic dinner etc... have it be a surprise as well. I know from being married myself that sometimes it does feel like a friendly platonic merger when dealing with the day to day responsibilities of life....but you have to make an effort to keep the romance alive as well. If life doesn't move for us...then we ourselves must move...

posted January 27, 2006 12:39 PM              

Don't know why I did not think of that myself!

posted January 27, 2006 02:57 PM              

Maybe you're feeling more this way, or at least ready to work through it now, because of the current and MAJOR alignment in Aquarius right now. It's possible that spicing things up could work, since this is a temporary transition. But my Scorpio Stellium cannot let go of that Venus in Aries.

Only you and she know when to call it quits (as if it were easy, right?). But as far as dealing with the current energy, think of it as the drug speed. When you give speed to someone with a fast metabolism, it relaxes them. When you give speed to someone who has a slow metabolism, it feels like their heart is going to explode in their chest.

YOU just might be TOO relaxed.

posted January 27, 2006 03:01 PM              

Getting stressed a lot. Have learnt better ways to keep myself occupied and am learning alot about myself.

Maybe thats what periods like this are meant for.

I would like it start moving soon though....

posted January 27, 2006 03:10 PM            

My personal life bout as dead as one can be taking a dirt nap dead...

My professional life busy as one can be and I am going to school full time.

posted January 28, 2006 11:31 AM            

I knew an Aquarian guy who was married to a Leo and after about 9 years he described exactly what you are saying - that they lived more like sister/brother than married, very platonic and are better friends now that they are divorced than when they were married.

The love is usually still there, just buried under 'life', keep the passion and romance alive!

I work with a married Aquarius guy too who 'flirts' with all the attractive single women in my office - he has two children and has been married for awhile, he's probably going through the same thing.

Laura