posted January 30, 2006 03:32 PM              

I've noticed this happens to be a whole lot. There are subtle nuances of a particular Sign which I give off, but then I lose the person to someone who is the full monty.

Example: You have strong Neptune Aspects, maybe some asteroids (Juno, Vesta, Ceres, Pallas, Chiron), in Signs Ruled by Neptune, which potential mates pick up on. But then they'll meet the true "Neptune" they were looking for, someone with stronger Neptune energies which makes them the full monty.

It can leave one feeling that they were merely a shell of someone who was more preferred. I hope someone can understand what I'm saying. It happens a lot to me.

posted January 30, 2006 03:41 PM              

Awww.

Edited - I know what you're saying. I've thought the same thing.
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posted January 30, 2006 03:54 PM              

what can i say..

posted January 30, 2006 04:10 PM            

I don't know if anyone has done it to me, but now that you mention it, I've done it.

posted January 30, 2006 04:44 PM              

You have to believe you ARE the Full Monty...you have to be it, live it and be the best YOU you can be!!

If perchance someone decides that another is a better JackPot for themselves, then so be it...consider the fact that maybe your Neptunian aspects have deceived You. For all the wonderful things the planet Neptune gives us-spirituality, dreams etc....it also can bring illusions and deceptions to ourselves and possibly how we SEE a situation/relationship. It may have nothing to do with someone having more of the Full Monty than you!!

You can only be your best you AJ. Hopefully nothing less...and always striving for more!!

posted January 30, 2006 08:54 PM              

Gem Star -

Yeah, I know what you mean. I'm the full monty onto myself, having to do with my unique gifts. Just don't want to be mistaken for something else. It's like I'm allowing the "admirers" in so they can get to know me, but they are just impressed by something else which I'm unable to live up to because it's just a small part of me. They are learning something from me, and carrying it on into their preferred relationship. So it's important I learn as well.