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dutchgirl
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posted February 06, 2006 12:37 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I'm an aquarius girl with pisces rising and a gemini moon.
I have a Virgo boyfriend but I really don't get him.
When i sent him a massage I don't get a massage back soon...sometimes I have to wait for 2 weeks or so.
But then he's telling me that I'm very special for him and that he loves me...
He really drives me crazy and i'm very in love with him. One time he told me that he loves me but not much but one day later he said that it was a joke and he wanted to know how my reaction was and now I don't know if he really loves me. It seems to me that he really loves to have the control.
Is this a typical Virgo guy?

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Charisma4
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posted February 06, 2006 01:26 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Whether or not that's typical "Virgo Behavior" is irrelevant. This guy sounds like an immature *beep* if you know what I mean. I know your feelings for him are strong but you should know that you deserve a lot better.

Being in love is two sided, and you deserve to experience the other side of love, when someone loves you back. Maybe i'm mistaken and maybe you should give this guy the benefit of the doubt. All I know is, I've wasted a lot of time with jerks and I've come to realize that equality, honesty, and playfulness are the most important aspects to a relationship. That's just me though ;D

Good luck

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Sigourney
Libra Sun~Cancer Rising~Leo Moon

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Mama Mia
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posted February 06, 2006 01:30 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Mama Mia     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Yep go by his actions not his words, my ex is a Virgo and he use to tell me he loved me and this and that but the more I went on his actions the more I realized that he did not love me atleast not the way I needed to be.

He does seem immature and it appears he has other irons in the fire too..

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freebird
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posted February 06, 2006 01:34 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I know one virgo guy made a Pisces girl wait for more than 3 years and she still didn't get any answer. So maybe when the Virgo guys are young they are immature and not sure where they are heading or whatthey want. Ask properly face-to-face whether he loves you or not. If you get a proper answer. Talk to him what do you want from relationship and whether he would fulfill it. I hope it's not that difficult.

Make it easier for you now by communicating properly.

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LostSoul
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posted February 06, 2006 01:38 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hey, I was kind of in a similar situation with a Virgo guy. Though I was very cautious not to get too invlolved with him because he could be sweet one minute and really aggressive and vicious the next. Oh and the constant criticism is something I refuse to put up with. So I finally told him to leave me alone. I agree with the others. It's your decision though. I'm also Aquarius with Pisces rising. The virgo guys I've known have left me with a bad feeling about Virgo men in general...but I am sure there are many nice Virgo men out there.

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Mama Mia
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posted February 06, 2006 01:38 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Mama Mia     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Well freebird that is how my ex- kinda of did me plus we have a son together and we went back and forth for almost 5 years with that. I too am Pisces finally I gave up threw in the towel and after all that he got a revealtion or something because he was declaring his undying love to me every chance he got. BUT by then it was to late for him.

So sad to bad, better recognize...

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suzyque
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posted February 06, 2006 01:42 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hi Dutch girl,

When i read your message i thought i might be able to give you some advice. I am a virgo sun, mercury and mars. This sounds like behavior a virgo would display,especially the male virgo. We virgos tend to have a hard time with emotions, we don't like to show our emotions until we feel secure with that individual. If you do something to show that you are unreliable or that you may hurt us we will do things to test the situation and gauge whether we can trust you enough to open up. Strong emotions in general really make us uncomfortable so go easy and just be open and honest with him. Don't be confrontational or defensive, just ask him directly what is going on. Let him know that he hurt your feelings and that he is confusing you with his behavior. Virgos apprecitate people who are direct and honest. Hope that helps you, good luck to you.

P.S. just to let you know you said massage when i think you meant to say message.

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Mama Mia
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posted February 06, 2006 01:46 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Mama Mia     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
All that maybe true or whatever, but you can't tell some one that you love them and then the next day tell them you were just playing that is crazy as hell and I would be very afraid of him with my feelings..

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astro junkie
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posted February 07, 2006 08:40 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Welome dutchgirl

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