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Topic: Intensity and signs
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sweetlibra
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posted February 08, 2006 05:20 AM
 
What signs find it difficult to cope up with deep emotions?
My guesses are Virgo / cappy / sag influences in a chart.
What are your experiences?IP: Logged |
shop22much
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posted February 08, 2006 06:23 AM
iam a virgo....it feels like the older i get, the more closed off i get, the more colder i grow, especially with life experiences always sabotaging all hope in my heart, it really hasnt ever been easy for me to be "open"...many people find me a closed book(very closed to be honest)some say on borderline paranoia... and i dont give my heart easily, i can be very intense in relationships, and thats probably why i avoid getting in frivolous relationships in fear ill get hurt, but it never seems to work for me ...plus my venus is also in the 6th house which gives me even more virgo qualities when it comes to love, it isnt easy.... IP: Logged |
Iqhunk
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posted February 08, 2006 06:31 AM
The Virgos in my family are as closed as a typewriter factory. Sags do tend to get emotional especially when praised or when accused of falsehood. Capricorns are a mixed bag, sometimes totally cold but occasionaly responsive to emotional dialogue.
But the gold medal goes to Virgos in my experience.IP: Logged |
shop22much
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posted February 08, 2006 06:36 AM
I have noticed that thing about Sags getting angry when accused of lying....at first I thought "wow okay...someone has a bad temper...what a little boy"...sometimes i wonder is it because they are lying on some level? because if youre telling the truth, why would you get mad? if someone accuses you of lying why would your first reaction be to yell and throw a tantrum....that just makes you seem more guilty.....the more emotional/responsive you are the more guilty you come off....not all sags are honest...thats for sure...IP: Logged |
LILYGIRL
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posted February 08, 2006 09:11 AM
The hallmark of Sagittarians (especially children) is blunt force honesty. I think I read a decade ago in the original Linda Sun Signs book that Sagitarrius are intensely offended by anyone who accuses them of lying. I am not saying that they do not lie. but i have found that most pride themselves on being honest and rather straightforward in truth. And yes, I have a Sag child with a Scorpio mercury and mars cancer and he completely freaks out if someone implies that he is not being honest. To be fair to him, he is extraordinarily honest, especially for a budding teen.I Have a Virgo North Node but have never ever had an virgo intimates or casual friends. When I married I was thrown head first into a pile of Virgo women. They are very efficient and you can count on them but they are all, every one of them clam shell closed about their feelings, perefectionists and quite critical. I also think they are rough on their children, and this from someone with an Aries Mars and moon in the 4th... IP: Logged |
boo
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posted February 08, 2006 09:40 AM
Virgos hands-down.
They are weird man.
Weird in the sense that I cant explain it.
I think they feel just as deep but it never comes out.
I cant explain it. Even with all the Jung and Freud I know.Tho'....
this Virgo Sun and Moon lady I know, is quick to tears. She is amazingly creative and sees the world in such a magical way.
Right now, shes stuck on a boy and everytime she thinks about him she wells up. Shes stuck at that point where u like someone too much, ya know?
Where you want to be with them but uve freaked yourself out too much to do anything about it.
Your fantasies have run away with you hanging on their coat-tails and if you let go, things may never be the same.
I know he likes her too. He tries to speak to her and touch her all the time but she runs to me with tears in her eyes  Its sweet really.
Anyways..... But she does have a Cancer mom and a Cancer dad so maybe they rubbed off on her. IP: Logged |
boo
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posted February 08, 2006 09:41 AM
And Saggies are just very good at pretending. Or so my very-Saggy boyfriend tells me.
Whenever hes drunk, he does cry though. Cries like a girl IP: Logged |
boo
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posted February 08, 2006 09:42 AM
I mean very-Saggie....not saggy.IP: Logged |
hot_ice
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posted February 08, 2006 10:06 AM
believe me....gemini.I have a cancer moon which frickin' irritates me at time...makes me very unpredictable cause of the sudden change of moods... When i slip out of a bad mood,I start to analyze why I went into a bad mood,which can be very irritating... IP: Logged |
sweetlibra
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posted February 08, 2006 11:50 PM
hot_ice, my gemini friend is freaking emotional (equals me). He has a Taurus moon and Leo Asc (No earth and a Scorp singleton)My sis is a cappy and very closed off. I think the only person who she shows emotions is me. IP: Logged |
AcousticGod
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posted February 09, 2006 12:30 AM
I used to think Sags were aloof and a bit superficial, but there really is quite a bit more beneath the surface. As a Cap I don't see why anyone would be surprised at a person getting angry at being accused of telling a lie.I consider myself a pretty emotional and sensitive Cap, but I can cut most of that off if I need to. Oh, and with regard to deep emotions like gratitude and thankfulness for truly touching and beautiful gestures I can't keep it together at all. I will cry. It bothers me that I can't manage emotions like that. IP: Logged |
LostSoul
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posted February 09, 2006 12:52 AM
What about Aquarius? Isn't Aquarius supposed to be detached? And not that great with emotions? That's what I keep reading anyway. I'm Aquarius, but I'm definitely emotional.IP: Logged |
Neptune's Muse
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posted February 09, 2006 05:33 AM
shop22much, on the contrary! I would be very offended if someone accused me of lying (not to the point of throwing a tantrum) but it is because it is unconceivable for that person to lie, I personally can forgive anything except being lied to. Not only it shows moral cowardice but liars imagine they are smarter than everyone else and they can never be found out and it just disgust me. I don't think intensity has to do with Suns, because it is usually through our moon that we express emotions. My Gemini sun is stereotyped as the flirty, detached, emotionally cold/distant, but I come off too intense for some people (even on friendship level) and I only get along with Water signs (except Cancer), and some earth (mainly Cappies): Let me rephrase signs that I find comptabile in friendship and more: Leo, Cappy, Scorpio, and Pisces.
The rest, we speak different language. Cappies are not cold at all, they appear so on the surface, but they are by far some of the most emotinal people I have met. They just have this diginified way of dealing with hurt and crying alone where no one sees. Peole who are cold emotionally have Virgo moons or Virgo influences. Aries can be very cold! Some of these people don't experience this emotinal depth.
Moon in the 12th or Moon aspected by Saturn
on the other hand FEEL DEEPLY but they are unable to express it. Big difference. I have no trouble dealing with people with repressed emotions but they acknowledge their emotions and yours, it is people who DO NOT conceive of their or your emotions I find intolerable. IP: Logged |
shop22much
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posted February 09, 2006 06:06 AM
I get what you're saying....hmm you made me see it in another way...IP: Logged |
WaterNymph
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posted February 09, 2006 06:13 AM
Virgos are more “…….yeah……..and?” lol when it comes to emotions.But Gemini are in no way equipped to handle emotions. No way no how. My uncle is a Gem with Cancer Moon, and he doesn’t understand what emotions are. I know a Gemini Sun and Moon with his Venus and Mars in Cancer - doesn’t know the first thing about emotions. They get really uncomfortable.
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Mystic Gemini
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posted February 09, 2006 07:34 AM
I am very emotional and feel deeply.
I cry at the drop of a hat.
I think my intensity scares people off sometimes.
Or the possessiveness LOL.
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Iqhunk
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posted February 09, 2006 08:03 AM
Mystic Gemini, I like your attributes
Maybe the Cancer Rising is making some powerful aspects with Neptune or the Moon?
Can I do your chart sometime?IP: Logged |
alanabelle86
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posted February 09, 2006 08:38 AM
I hate it sometimes that I feel so deeply. I can bring myself down to depression within a matter of seconds and then back to a mania state in the next second. Idk. I find that as a water sign, Scorpio has the hardest time with deep emotions and emotional intensity. because usually its one or two emotions that we choose to display. and its never the one we really feel... kinda sucks. ------------------
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MoonDuchess88
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posted February 09, 2006 01:51 PM
I think I'm go w/ virgo like the majority. The example I can think of is my own mother. When I would through tantrums as a little girl,she refused to respond to it and would send me to bed w/out dinner or something. The crazy part about it is she's a pisces rising.IP: Logged |
Aen
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posted February 09, 2006 03:08 PM
Neptune's Muse quote:
Peole who are cold emotionally have Virgo moons or Virgo influences. Aries can be very cold! Some of these people don't experience this emotinal depth.
Moon in the 12th or Moon aspected by Saturn
on the other hand FEEL DEEPLY but they are unable to express it.
Well, then you perhaps can guess what mix Virgo Moon in 12th hs trine Satrurn is. Oh and Moon is also conj. Pluto. Just for fun. 
I sometimes feel I'm a walking emotion-collector. Every now and then I catch myself working through (Saturn) some emotion and then I realize that it is not mine, but something I have picked up on the way. However, Pluto is great for emotional purgatory every now and then, but it also gives any feeling quite a lifespan. I've learnt to burn grudges and anger, but love, even unrequited love, doesn't burn easily. Since it all is in the 12th hs, it means that unless I make really loud statement, nobody has a clue. Even people who are generally good with reading other people's emotional state, don't register anything from me. Sad really.
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Mystic Gemini
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posted February 09, 2006 05:52 PM
Sure Iqhunk, you can do my chart anytime you want!
Maybe being on the Gemini/Cancer cusp also causes that? My North Node is in Cancer also.
My birth Info
June 19, 1982
New York, New York
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Gemini sun, Cancer rising, mercury in Gemini, moon in Taurus *29, venus in Taurus, mars in Libra *´¨)
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Lost my soul but found my heart
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