posted February 09, 2006 11:11 AM              

People are more complex than one planet, so it helps to understand the entire chart comparison in order to understand the relationship. However, since Venus IS the energy of relationships, it provides a natural starting point to relationship analysis.

From the information you have given the thing I notice is your Venus (relationships) opposite (energy is over-excited by) his Venus. While this combination is stimulating to the relationship, it provides a basic challenge: each person sees the relationship entirely different (opposite) from each other. As long as you can work together to appreciate the differences and value the unique point of view each person brings to the relationship, this can work out. However, if either of you decide that there is a certain way the relationship "ought" to be there are going to be STRONG differences of opinion. If this becomes a serious relationship each of you will have to work to understand the other person's point of view on the relationship.

Relating,

Tim

posted February 09, 2006 02:44 PM              

You asked:

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I belive that astrology marks a tendency but you can redirect it if you really wanted, righ?

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Personally, I believe we all have energies inside ourselves that we all try to use as best we can. We can direct this energy to any task we want, we can strengthen this energy, but we can NOT change the nature of it.

For example, think about Mozart. Even if we all practiced piano every day from the age of 5 for our entire lives, most of us would not come anywhere close to the musical talents of Mozart. Wanting to play like Mozart and working at it is not enough. The energy has to be there in us in the first place for us to play with the skill, talent, and ability of Mozart. This is the lesson of limitations: there are certain things in our lives we CAN NOT do, while there are other things which we CAN do IF we are willing to work on them.

And this is what I think relationships are all about (you thought I had forgotten I was talking about relationships, didn't you? ). There are some things in relationships we CAN NOT do together...the energy of the relationship won't allow it. So we have to decide if we can work within that limitation to grow and develop the relationship as best we can with the other person, working at the problems and overcoming them as a couple. If we are NOT willing to do this, then the relationship only holds us back in life and we should walk away from it. It all depends on how much we are willing to work with the other person to be the best couple we can be.

Relating,

posted February 10, 2006 11:50 AM              

We each come to our own understanding of relationships using the information around us. I am pleased that I was able to give you some "food for thought". I wish you the best with your relationship.

Good wishing,