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Topic: Relationship phobia
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gert
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posted February 10, 2006 11:04 AM
 
I try and I try but it seems my relationships just don't seem to work out.The longest I've had is 4 months and I felt clausterphobic the whole time.Okay I dont deny that maybe my Sag sun,Neptune,uranus,jupiter and south node may possibly have an influence but I thought my cancer moon,venus in scorpio and saturn would combat that. To top it all off my Taurus rising doesn't seem to be helping situations (way to picky).Could it be my Midheaven in Aquarius that is causing all the fuss? My midheaven squares my venus and saturn but sextiles my uranus.I read somewhere that sun,moon,venus or midheaven in Aquarius are not endowed with the best marriage prospects.Could this be it? My exes (all of them being either aquarius or sagittarius) say that I have serious commitment issues and will probably be a bachelor for life.Doesn't sound like such a bad idea at all (now that I think about it). Anyone with a similar problem relationship-phobia? IP: Logged |
pisces-girl
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posted February 10, 2006 12:11 PM
HI gert! I have a relationship phobia too. I have venus in aquarius quincunx my saturn in virgo. not exactly sure what that means but it doesn't "Feel" right, ya know? I tend to have long relationships though or I try too but they aren't very good ones... I know i have a fear of commitment because I'm afraid of losing myself and afraid of the things being black and white sometimes....I prefer gray...does this make sense?IP: Logged |
astro junkie
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posted February 10, 2006 08:20 PM
gert -I was GOING to say that maybe you were attracting really intense people who made it too challenging for your Venus & Saturn in Scorpio. But you say your ex's are Aqua's & Sag's. Hmmmm ... I don't know. As for what you said about what you heard about MC in Aqua, I have that and I've not been married yet. Could the MC really extend that far beyond into our marriage prospects? Anyone else have thoughts on this? It's really easy for me to feel claustrophobic in relationships too, and it's in rare company that I don't feel that way. But although those few may be "comfortable" for me, they are lacking in SOMETHING ... the "something" is still a bit elusive ... ------------------
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AcousticGod
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From: Pleasanton, CA
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posted February 10, 2006 09:19 PM
Hi. My name is AcousticGod, and I have an Aquarius Midheaven. I'm 33, and I've never been married or even engaged. In high school I loved going out with girls who went to schools other than my own. I couldn't handle the responsibility of being with a person in the same proximity every day. It was much more pleasurable to have the breaks and miss the person in the time apart. Made getting together so much better. I was a letter writer, too, and that was something enjoyable during the breaks as well. I do have three planets in the 7th House (all Sag), though, so there's no telling whether or not I'll get married in the end. Even now my girlfriend lives an hour away, and I see her once a week at most. I wouldn't have tributed this to astrology, though. IP: Logged |
AcousticGod
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From: Pleasanton, CA
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted February 10, 2006 09:25 PM
Oh, also, I don't have a fear of relationships. I quite like them.IP: Logged | |
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